Married Men Vs Single Men ! Married Women Vs Single Women ! Who will be better FBs !

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by guruking

Everything boils down to chemistry...the ability to catalyst one's another in terms of comfort and communication. Period.

Yes bro , the ability communicate and the mutual comfort placement with each other is important . Finding someone that can do so is important . However human being made rules for human beings to break . The fine prints of the game has to be in place so that each other will know where is the line drawn . Thus the terms to you are put there for a reason .

Originally Posted by geckoSG

Personally, I got no preference. But as a married person, I hope my partners can respect and understand my timing and limitation.

Married women tends to be more engaging from what I felt. They know what
they want, they know how to please. They know the Dos and the Don'ts.

Single ladies wise, they can be wild, but in terms of skill, so far, I haven't
met any that can outshine the married women.

Yes bro , I agree you on with this on married women . FBs relationships is a fair barter between two people . we give what the other person wants and we get back what we want in return . However no one said anything about tips . We sometimes get back more in our favour .

[HunterJ]

I believe it is up to 2 very special individual who have their own preferences regarding this topic. At this time, a single man may choose to have a FB relationship with a married woman. But, years later, a single man may choose to have a FB relationship with a single woman once again.

No doubt each phase of life, each phase of status, each individual, all have their own pros and cons. A single man who is young, might not be those childish type, but yet often labeled to be someone with no experience and no mature thinking (society stereotyping). On the other hand, a married man, might still be acting childish, but yet labeled to be someone with experience and mature thinking. Maybe 1 statement can't cover everything i guess.

People give and take all the time, and when one is receiving more, there must be someone who is giving more. This will achieve a good balance between 2 people (no matter in a FB relationship/normal healthy relationship/friendship/working/etc.). But once someone who wants to receive more, and the other party does not give more, the balance is broken and thus creating a disturbance.

I hope my "essay" won't be too disturbing to bros and sis over here.

Just my 2cents... =)

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by HunterJ

I hope my "essay" won't be too disturbing to bros and sis over here. Just my 2cents... =)

Good summary of the thread so far . BTW whats your old nick BRO ?

Originally Posted by emperor11

I dispute that, at least I don't treat mine this way. Sometimes chatting over a meal with your FB can destress as well. FBs isn't just about the physical act.

Pardon my crudeness but its needed to send a point across .

A fuck is a good stress relief but a hug goes a longer way as a comfort to the soul . Sex isn't everything .






I apologise for all the typos to my posts . Its hard to post while i am on the go most of the time . Cheers ! keep it coming guys !

[Krazzie]

Originally Posted by HunterJ

No doubt each phase of life, each phase of status, each individual, all have their own pros and cons. A single man who is young, might not be those childish type, but yet often labeled to be someone with no experience and no mature thinking (society stereotyping). On the other hand, a married man, might still be acting childish, but yet labeled to be someone with experience and mature thinking. Maybe 1 statement can't cover everything i guess.

People give and take all the time, and when one is receiving more, there must be someone who is giving more. This will achieve a good balance between 2 people (no matter in a FB relationship/normal healthy relationship/friendship/working/etc.). But once someone who wants to receive more, and the other party does not give more, the balance is broken and thus creating a disturbance.

I can totally attest to what you say here, being "young" and "single" I have to always work doubly hard in everything just to prove that I am just as capable. It is only after the initial "proving to everybody" stage then you will gain recognition and respect that is accorded to you and not your age

This is an unfair world, that is the sad part of life but also the interesting thing about it

Originally Posted by jasdude

..Sex isn't everything .

Understanding of this statement separates the "Good Lovers" from the other FBs. Though the downside from this is, the ladies tend to fall in love with you which usually sounds the end of the relationship. Kinda like a double-edged sword.

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by Krazzie

Understanding of this statement separates the "Good Lovers" from the other FBs. Though the downside from this is, the ladies tend to fall in love with you which usually sounds the end of the relationship. Kinda like a double-edged sword.

Many FB relationship end because of emotional attachments not addressed properly . Whether its married or single , experienced or not ! no one is immune to love . It creeps up on you unsuspectingly . Mind over matter else everything goes haywire !

However do not use LOVE as a bait or lure for sex or any kind of relationship . When two person calls it quits . Its better to still have a friend than a foe .

[zacarie]

Originally Posted by silkypussy

Married men are less possessive and they are also more respectful. Perhaps I should say, the qualities of a FB should be one who is respectful and knows when I say NO, I mean NO. A young buck tends to have their dick rule over their heads.

After Sex, I tend to want to just chitchat for awhile. A young guy will just lay over and smoke or worse still, get up clean and get dressed.

Sorry, no matter what, an FB is still a person. Yes, there's the nice sensation after cumming. But as a woman, I still sometimes wanna chat and not have sex when we meet. I find this almost impossible with a single guy. They just want to get on with the physical act.

U must have been lucky to have met married man who are not possessive then. i'll be staying clear of them. haha.

I'm very sure there are single guys who can hold a great wonderful conversation after sex. There are many mature guys who may not be tt old but they are mature. and definately not just have sex on their mind.

Whereas for married man. y they eat out? Cause no sex at home? Lack of it? So they have fb, fl, etc. i guess their mind are more sex filled. n the main motive is still sex...

Just my opinion. everyone have different preference..

[tomvoyeur]

My preference would be married women coz they r hungrier...but there is always the wounded husbands to watch out for.

[Priest]

Hi TS,
married women for me,.. simply these ladies are objective and making their second attempts..

[Krazzie]

Originally Posted by jasdude

Many FB relationship end because of emotional attachments not addressed properly . Whether its married or single , experienced or not ! no one is immune to love . It creeps up on you unsuspectingly . Mind over matter else everything goes haywire !

However do not use LOVE as a bait or lure for sex or any kind of relationship . When two person calls it quits . Its better to still have a friend than a foe .

Don't worry bro, I never use love to bait or lure for sex. I am talking about the gradual development love between both parties, and we all know that once it reaches a certain stage the FB relationship needs to end. Cuddling and other actions that good lovers do will hasten the time when it is time to call it quits, been there many times already.

[Stud00]

Noted down in my little black book.

Originally Posted by silkypussy

Very good postings.

I actually have no preference whether or not Married or Single status for my FB. However I am inclined towards Married Men based on a few of my own reasonings

Married men are "cleaner" and "safer". I demand that my FB goes to a annual checkup for any signs of STD. Being married men, they are less likely to have high risk sexual tryst outside their marital wife as the impact of a STD passed on to the wife and family.

Single men on the other hand tend to have more sexual partners. I am sorry, I am being frank and honest. If the FB is a single guy, what makes you so sure you are both "mutually exclusive"? I tend to believe that Single guys are more playing the field on the range more so than Married men.

The other key thing is sexual compatibility. I like older guys, as they can hold better. The connection with an older guy gives me a much more intensive sexual interaction versus a young buck who just wants to cum.

Married men are less possessive and they are also more respectful. Perhaps I should say, the qualities of a FB should be one who is respectful and knows when I say NO, I mean NO. A young buck tends to have their dick rule over their heads.

After Sex, I tend to want to just chitchat for awhile. A young guy will just lay over and smoke or worse still, get up clean and get dressed.

Sorry, no matter what, an FB is still a person. Yes, there's the nice sensation after cumming. But as a woman, I still sometimes wanna chat and not have sex when we meet. I find this almost impossible with a single guy. They just want to get on with the physical act.

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by Krazzie

. Cuddling and other actions that good lovers do will hasten the time when it is time to call it quits, been there many times already.

BRO , sometimes being insensitive and not being the gentlemen you naturally are ; is actually beneficial for you . The second paragraph was meant to for all to note . Glad you took it as a good will discussion , cos I meant no punk . Cheers man !

Originally Posted by Stud00

Noted down in my little black book.

If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.

Sun Tzu

[HunterJ]

Bro Jasdude, I shall skip my old account name. Let's just start off with this account for a new start of a different chapter of my life. Sorry for that. Previous account caused some problems and identity issues.


Bro Krazzie, thanks for your attest to it. I myself is a living example already. lol !

I would say, being in a FB relationship is NOT 100% about sex. But being in a sexless FB relationship can NOT be called a FB relationship !! hahaha..

To me, each FB I had, no doubt that feelings will grow on each other and gradually things may or may not work out. But, both parties must put it clearly that no one should fall in love with each other and to put it bluntly, nothing good will come out of it. Even if feelings grow, my FB have became my lover, but yet there is a clear cut between things, and one day when we have to part our own ways, we still do it without much complications.

There are times where we seek companionship, even a meal or a cup of coffee, sitting down together chatting, or even reading (provided both have the same common interest and hobbies), it can be very pleasurable.

[Reoxy]

Originally Posted by 1stTR

bro, tis shows ur 小弟弟 got thrusting problem....

very nice

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by emperor11

jas dude, you are correct to say sex isn't everything. Deep within, men need emotional relief too. We are not machine robots devoid of feelings. Why do men seek relief elsewhere? Why is the grass always greener on the other side? When you are in your own patch, you are slam with e problems that comes from your own patch, how to seek relief from within? Problems never end, like work can never be finished.

The closer you are to a person , the harder to explain and relate disappointments and failures cos of expectations and goals planned together . This is worsen if two are already on rocky grounds . Thus one of the reasons men stray .

Someone to share without biasness without prejudice , a comforting hug is always welcomed by any person (man or woman) after a bad day at work .

Originally Posted by HunterJ

Bro Jasdude, I shall skip my old account name. Let's just start off with this account for a new start of a different chapter of my life. Sorry for that. Previous account caused some problems and identity issues.

Well , i respect that ! If only in real life we can do that ! You are doing fine bro ! Keep it up !

[Krazzie]

Originally Posted by jasdude

BRO , sometimes being insensitive and not being the gentlemen you naturally are ; is actually beneficial for you . The second paragraph was meant to for all to note . Glad you took it as a good will discussion , cos I meant no punk . Cheers man !

If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.

Sun Tzu

Bro, I think you may have misunderstood me. What I meant is that sometimes when we do things like cuddling after sex we increased the chances of one of the party falling in love which to me is the end of any FB relationship, but that hasn't stop me from doing that with my current FB.

Cheers.