Falling in love with a Thai prostitute in Geylang.. Advice needed..

[sta1100]

Originally Posted by BS KTV

On your point 5, best is never do raw with any WL. It is alway better to protect ourselves with a condom. Especially PRC WL, they can do raw with many sugar daddies or boyfriends. I do not trust any WL at all

Never RAW with PRC what they want is your $$$

[BS KTV]

Originally Posted by singathai

I sincerely thank all of you bros out there who have given me your piece of advice. Yes I will definitely be more careful when I'm with her. I'm starting to think better already. Anyway, just to clarify with you guys. Firstly, I've told her my actual income. Its definitely not a 5 digit pay like what they earn(if that's really the amount they earn monthly). Just imagine the salary of a regular serviceman in his early 20s(with diploma education only). She told me in my face its definitely not enough to take care of her and her family. I agreed with her. I told her I can find ways to get her to work and stay in singapore but the salary would be less than 2k. She is now considering this way that I've mentioned. And secondly, I don't think with my bottom brain lol. I'm not a person with very high sex drive. And her skills in bed and her other services aren't the best I've experienced. Its just something more than this transaction guys get from prostitutes. I don't know, maybe she's using some spell on me like what one of the bro mentioned earlier on. But why sould she do that? I've made it clear to her I'm a poor fuck lol. For looks? Okay not that I want to say this, but I'm actually above average looking. I don't know what a matured woman(in her late 20s) can look for in me. I'm sure she needs money more than looks. So I don't know what's the point of putting a spell on me. Pardon me for my assumptions bros. Once again, I appreciate all comments all bros out there that have commented in this thread.

Bro singathai,

I did said actually the same thing to my WL too but money is alway not enough for them. Your WL is Thai. Do you know that my young pretty PRC WL can earn up to $1000 per short times session with old men she used to work in high end KTV.

Never trust the words of any foreign WL here if she really love you she don't need your money at all

[BS KTV]

Originally Posted by sta1100

Never RAW with PRC what they want is your $$$

That very true and alway protect ourselves with condoms. Sometimes I cannot imagine my PRC WL did raw with all sort of old men and just to earn their big money

Damn I had woke up from a nightmare

[Maxdom]

Originally Posted by mackewell

Hey bro, u were once a noob which made all this mistakes too in the past so i think u shld not b critical to this bro. We are here to give positive feedbacks and not strike him down. Just remember experienced bros or frens were there to help ya out when u faced such issues too man...

Positive feedback ? Have you ever watch American idol ? You can give him all the hope you want and give him all the reasons to errr...think logically. Wow... I hope that works. Wow!

It is suppose to be negative. I expect him to take it negatively too and be angry. He is injecting himself all the positivity that there is hope between him and her. He is thinking of marrying her and give her all the money for goodness sake.

[pojstemp]

bro, fm my observation n experience, her child is the main FOCUS.
If she got u in hand, her problems are solved. For how long, ask yourself?

A fren did not heed my advice like u. After 2 mths,they separated.
Though she single, still she need ANY companion. She bedded me
when I visited her in BKK. Now she hv 5yr daughter fm old poor
Am. man... Dont rush, taste more food n socialise around more.

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by Maxdom

Positive feedback ? Have you ever watch American idol ? You can give him all the hope you want and give him all the reasons to errr...think logically. Wow... I hope that works. Wow!

It is suppose to be negative. I expect him to take it negatively too and be angry. He is injecting himself all the positivity that there is hope between him and her. He is thinking of marrying her and give her all the money for goodness sake.

Bro i like ur sarcasm, but the bottom line is we can only advice him and if he makes the decision he thinks is best for him. And btw i was very realistic in weighing the pros and cons in my comments. I am not encouraging him in any manner.

Enuff said lah, just for sharin, no point gettin working up mah. Chill bro max, i know u frustrated but just let him be lah, we cant force him wad lol, we done our part, peace man.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by mackewell

Bro i like ur sarcasm, but the bottom line is we can only advice him

Should be "..we can only ADVISE him..".

"Advice" is a noun.

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Should be "..we can only ADVISE him..".

"Advice" is a noun.

Haha Yes SIR, sorry my england veri powderful wor....

[ChokDeeDee!]

Bro singathai, I strongly discourage you in doing anything rash. It's entirely possible having a Thai WL falling in love with you. However, one fact on why she is in love with you instead of some random guy back in thailand is because she deems "foreigners" being the ones with capability taking care of her family.

Financial state is a core criteria that Thai girls consider in a relationship. When you marry a Thai girl, you technically marry her family. They may or may not be out to cheat your money but they WILL ask for money when their family is in need. Father, mother, siblings and kids are always held in priority compared to you. If things ever gets sour over financial matters with her family, she will ditch you and choose her kins, even if she is reluctant. This is just Thai culture, find yourself a good Thai girl who holds a decent job with a decent pay, good family background and you'll have less problems. The fact she is working as a WL shows a lot about her family needs. If you really want to take care of her, be prepared to spend thousands every month. If you do your sums, it can easily work out to be 20-30k a year to support her family, kids and herself. Some things in thailand aren't as cheap as most people think. This depends a lot on where she stays.

Although its possible, WLs have a hard time trying to get legally married in Singapore. She'd also be banned in sg for several years after she gets deported. Attempted re-entry can be rejected at the customs. They usually have to give/earn several thousands of security deposit to be kept by the boss only to be returned if she fulfills her 2 years stay. If she hasn't paid or earned enough to pay, you'll have to fork out the balance to bail her out.

Thais need visa to get into the states, if you're there for detachment, you'd probably be on official/work visa. She probably won't be able to get the same kinda visa like you do. If you're with the military, getting involved with this girl will sooner or later affect your career for some reasons. Be careful on what you promise her in this area. Think hard before committing, many thai girls are willing to sex you raw, it doesn't mean anything to them. To them it's some to take care of their family that matters. Just my few cents...

[Greatking]

To TS,

9.9 out of 10 posts, tells you the same thing.

These threads accumulate 5 pages of sincere postings and advices.

If you are willing to take in, you should be safe by now.

If you aren't going to take in, even if this threads welcome its' 100millionth's postings, I reckon nothing of those advices is going to put into practical use by you.

The choice is yours. Weigh which side of your balls is heavier. The guts or the brainy.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by Greatking

These threads accumulate 5 pages of sincere postings and advices.

If you are willing to take in, you should be safe by now.

If you aren't going to take in, even if this threads welcome its' 100millionth's postings, I reckon nothing of those advices is going to put into practical use by you.

"Advice" is a non countable noun; you do not add an "s" to make it plural.

"Advice" is like "Rice". You say... "Please pass me the Rice." You don't say "Please pass me the rices" because "Rice", like "Advice", is a non countable noun.

There are many other examples. To test your knowledge of non countable nouns, go to English Language Quiz - Countable or Non-countable Nouns (I-TESL-J) and take the test.

[LinLaoBei]

ya .. TS..

I discourage ur action too.... somemore u are attached, although u have problem with ur current gf. this does not mean u can use this execuse to break up with her.
u are still a young chap, with gd future....

bro here, always pay n f off... leave no feeling behind... that y we PAY for their serivce.

[singathai]

Actually, her intention was very simple. She only wanted me to visit her once in a while. She always pays me back whatever amount of money I pay to her boss. She will text/call me daily before and after her working hours. She doesn't want me to break up with my girlfriend at all. All she wants is having a part of me in her life. I don't know how stupid and foolish this can sound to you guys, but that's what she showed me. It was me being that stupid fucker you guys think I am lol. I told her about taking care of her and stuff. She was really happy that I have the intention of doing that but she wasn't ready for it. She told me we wouldn't be able to support her and her family and come back to Singapore for quite a while if she breaks her bond. And she told me she only knew me for less than 2 months. She's afraid I might leave her and she'll end up jobless and nowhere to go. So now, my plan is to just stay over her place once a week and see how things goes. I probably can't do anything to break her bond and make it possible for her to stay with me since I don't earn enough. Anyway, thank you all bros out there that have given me your sincere comments and advices. I'll update again.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by singathai

Anyway, thank you all bros out there that have given me your sincere comments and advices. I'll update again.

"Advice" is a non countable noun; you do not add an "s" to make it plural.

"Advice" is like "Rice". You say... "Please pass me the Rice." You don't say "Please pass me the rices" because "Rice", like "Advice", is a non countable noun.

There are many other examples. To test your knowledge of non countable nouns, go to English Language Quiz - Countable or Non-countable Nouns (I-TESL-J) and take the test.

[singathai]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

"Advice" is a non countable noun; you do not add an "s" to make it plural.

"Advice" is like "Rice". You say... "Please pass me the Rice." You don't say "Please pass me the rices" because "Rice", like "Advice", is a non countable noun.

There are many other examples. To test your knowledge of non countable nouns, go to English Language Quiz - Countable or Non-countable Nouns (I-TESL-J) and take the test.

Okay lah!! Haha my england C6 for O lvls okay..