Why do guys cheat?

[OnTheRoof]

Originally Posted by milkandcookies

I think there are good ones too but just that you need time to find. Finding a good guy is just like winning 4D or Toto. :P

This is very true

[acidicavex]

Originally Posted by FallenLove

Haha... Long learnt that men want variety. But question is if can eat side dish as well as main course, why still not contented?

If main course and still eating side dish well..... guess he a is man that want a full course

Appetizers (soup today, salad tmr etc.)follow by main course (steak, salmon, chicken) follow by desert (hot, cold, sweet, savory etc) follow by coffee, tea or the waitress...... maybr sometime wines or champange or the captain, or the managress.



Well not all men into variety there are some out there that i believe can have the same dish day in n day out.

[PreRegSimBoy]

Personally, i do not cheat.

Maybe the reason being, i have past encounters of being betrayed during my younger days. Last time Hormones stage, freaking ugly look i have and i thought i was good looking. Thinking back, got me cracked up.

Anyway, i am fine with having a girl whom i like by my side and if she actually cheats on me. I will not do anything to her but leave her.

Hope that contributes to the thread.

TGIF.

Have a great day ahead all bros and sis.

[joncheong]

Guys cheat for a variety of reasons..

and if you noticed, many guys have a pretty wife, and they still cheat with a woman less good-looking than their wife...why? it may be their wife have a low sex drive or out work ahead of their hubby and thus neglect their man....

but there are lots of women out their with high sex drive ...need love....be it single or divorcee or even married....and they are willing to shower the guy with lots of love...and even satisfy him in every way on the bed to make up for their lack of looks...

for me personally, i cheated on my wife with a less good-looking colleague....why? till now i still have no answer...

[Advanced]

Don't think there is a good answer for this. But that cheating lies on both party. It takes two hands to clap
So i do believe both party are at fault.

[Botakhead]

Originally Posted by Advanced

Don't think there is a good answer for this. But that cheating lies on both party. It takes two hands to clap
So i do believe both party are at fault.

Agreed with your POV.

[FallenLove]

Originally Posted by Botakhead

Agreed with your POV.

On the contrary, can't agree with the statement both parties are at fault when one cheats. If something is not going smooth in a rs, yes in most (not all) cases, both have a part to play and hence need to work it out with joint efforts. Still, it does not equate to justification for one to cheat.

Just my objective 2 cents worth....

[5thOct2014]

Hi TS

Do you cheat?

Cheers

Originally Posted by Watermelonn

yes, why do guys cheat?
why they only portray that they are single? why they constantly looking for a gf when they already have one?

[firejalan]

Originally Posted by leen843

I myself discovered my hubby flirting around, how upsetting this is to me! :[

How did u discover ur husband flirting?
Then what did u do?

[firejalan]

I think sometime guys cheat to find that emotional connection again..
E feeling of dating again...
For someone to "show" how u impt u r to her...
Coz ur spouse is taking u for granted already...
Haiz... Sad lag...

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by firejalan

I think sometime guys cheat to find that emotional connection again..
E feeling of dating again...
For someone to "show" how u impt u r to her...
Coz ur spouse is taking u for granted already...
Haiz... Sad lag...

maybe true, it was true for me till the new spark with the new partner lasted as long as it could as it became stale again

then the affair with the fb became a stable gf and the sex and feelings, spark felt the same as my relationship with my wife of many years.

Same issue, partner becomes lazy.
e.g
doesn't want to take off top during sex,
licking or touching her, complains itchy here there
watching tv, or distracted during sex
doesn't want to suck you or touch you
rushes you in sex
Stop signs to everything, don't finger, don't this, don't that, pain here, pain there etc....

Paid sex is better and you had to beg for get a lay from your "partner" or wife
Killed all the mood.

This so called new spark or connection never last, unless you pay for it, with different GFE WLs, otherwise... its all gets the same.

Getting on in age, I don't go for connection, emotions. If I want sex, if I can get it up, pay for it, in out, pay, done. Or just PCC.

Cheating is temporary, end of the day, learn to accept in relationships, over time sex becomes less and maybe non existent, you save yourself lots of frustration.

[tambi8]

Guys don't cheat, it is part of their ECA

[Botakhead]

Originally Posted by FallenLove

On the contrary, can't agree with the statement both parties are at fault when one cheats. If something is not going smooth in a rs, yes in most (not all) cases, both have a part to play and hence need to work it out with joint efforts. Still, it does not equate to justification for one to cheat.

Just my objective 2 cents worth....

If you know you can't get what you want out of the R/S anymore, do you just keep quiet and live with it? Or you go and find ways to get it done and over with?

Do you think that by repriving yourself from getting what that will make you happy is the right thing to do?

[acidicavex]

Originally Posted by firejalan

I think sometime guys cheat to find that emotional connection again..
E feeling of dating again...
For someone to "show" how u impt u r to her...
Coz ur spouse is taking u for granted already...
Haiz... Sad lag...

Yes i agree on this not men cheat for the sake of screwing. There are some men that lost their stand their mojo their importantness in life.

And when a lady walk in and make him feel good and wanted and comfy. Well the rest is history.....

Same for women the past women cheat with a emotional Burden but as the world evolve the society changes.. now women too can cheat without emotional burden....and for he sake of lust.

[TurningMeOn]

I think alot of issues are part, its not a simple straight road