i am truely ashamed of myself

[JediSkull]

Originally Posted by jedycity

Hi Bro,
I had kind of same experience, but I am the willing party. Dun long how long liao, when I decided to quit commercial sex. I try all type of method to stop myself. One of the methods is look for old & fat lady to punish or torture my mind & little bro. In hope that, I will stop this so call habit. Really torture, & feel like vomit, etc. In the end, I do stop for few months. But after that I double up the commercial sex by looking for SYT to compensate more. Haizzz, so not easy to quit lah.

haiz..... i dun have such bad experiences. I usually got for U21s and occasional 22-24. 25 is like old to me liao. but i am getting older and older each year. frens are telling me to quit my habit coz its getting really weird to see me wif 18 yr olds when i am like almost 30? but the thing is even as i grow older n older. the supply of young gals will never stop. only thing u will be afraid is no money to bonk........ FLing seems so wrong to me now... i wanna quit but i find it hard when fresh supplies keep coming in!!!

[ah rat]

Few years back,I walk past HDB void deck,saw an elder woman lift up her blouse,show her neh neh.As the same time flag to me to come,but I just walk away. If this saw by bro titu he'll go and teh her neh neh.
Teh ah teh neh neh!! teh ah teh neh neh!!!

So it means young or old, there is always a demand for them .... some like it young, some like it old

[dap26]

Originally Posted by nacho

The worst thing I seen on them were their armpit's hair.........

Bro,having armpit hair is very common to them..

[lewis13]

Years ago, my bros also brought me to those Lap Sap Bar. Since never go before, so damn curious. Ask them what to do inside, they just say when the gal sit beside you, just do anything you want.

So blur blur go inside. Damn dark, cannot see anything. After sitting down, suddenly got one lady sit beside me. My two bros already got their regular so no time to entertain me. That lady straight away grab my hand and ask me to teh her neh neh. Wah...like that dun wait lor!!

Next thing she did was unzip my pants and start to give my junior a HJ. Since first time experience, feel really shiok. Suddenly my bro light a cigarette and I happen to glance at the lady beside me. KNN....almost faint on the spot. At least 50 plus. Lucky never scream on the spot if not damn paiseh.

My 2 bros started laughing and they then gave the auntie some tips and ask her to leave. They also got another much younger gal in her 30's to sit me me. However everytime walk past LSB, still shiver with the memory.

[just4fun]

Talking abt bad experience in cheonging...

Many years back when I first arrived in China for that long period...I was alone in some HC in a small town in china...

So i went to HC in my hotel, and the OKT brought me to a room... The room is nothing but a makeshift room with 4 wooden planks...and with those hinge lock...knn...damn shaking type...and the bed is lagi best....wooden bed with a 3mm think "mattress"...

so when the MM came in...i almost fainted....knn...her waist was larger than her boobs...knn...and the boobs were pretty big in terms of normal standards... knn...i really beh tahan...so I act budor and told her to ask the manager to explain the pricing to me again....

knn...wat a close shave...really gan beh lo....haha

[topfuel]

i went dropped by JB in my earlier days while clearing NS leave
near customs jln ah fok there were those money changers,after changing $ i walked up front abit to take cab with my friends.
we then saw some johor lian lookalike girls but quite chio wearing pink shades sitting outside entrance of a staircase leading up to shophouse,zai qiu is those kind of hanky panky.

went forward talk cock abit and she said she can massage.followed her up with my friend.lie on lousy high stand bed and she ask me remove shorts so i thought ho seh liao,she pour oil & suddenly a woman in her 40s come over and try to HJ me while the young lian stood aside,immediately i grabbed my own junior with my left hand and used my right hand to grab the auntie's hands to prevent her from touching me.damnit got angry and told her NOT to touch me.basically their tactic was to use the young lian to attract ppl to go up and later kena HJ by old aunties.heard my friend yelling next door too and he got up and refused to continue.i then asked the lian if shes not going to HJ me then i am leaving not paying a cent.she then gave me a super knn reluctant look and HJ me while the auntie kept grumbling.

of cos i shot a damn big load onto her hands later on as it felt kinky,forcing the girl to hj me.

cleaned myself up and found my friend waiting downstairs for me. heng both of us bo tai chi.

[dap26]

Originally Posted by topfuel

i went dropped by JB in my earlier days while clearing NS leave
near customs jln ah fok there were those money changers,after changing $ i walked up front abit to take cab with my friends.
we then saw some johor lian lookalike girls but quite chio wearing pink shades sitting outside entrance of a staircase leading up to shophouse,zai qiu is those kind of hanky panky.

Bro me last time also kena the same as u...Tot was given a hj by tat ah lian.Ended up by the auntie which i refused her to do..I think the scene is almost the same as yrs...Then later the ah lian also dulan but still muz hj for me...The place also at johor...

[topfuel]

Originally Posted by dap26

Bro me last time also kena the same as u...Tot was given a hj by tat ah lian.Ended up by the auntie which i refused her to do..I think the scene is almost the same as yrs...Then later the ah lian also dulan but still muz hj for me...The place also at johor...

oh so its a known trap,heng i was firm in restricting her from touching me at all.the auntie strength quite forceful keep trying to push her hand on my junior.

[yariman]

Initially I thought the subject is for a member regretting cheonging behind wife back .... on reading... haha.. something else

Anyway, I dont think the member should think anything more about this. There is nothing to be ashamed of ....

[colins]

Since bros are sharing bad experiences here, I guess I'll contribute my bits as well to lighten up the mood. Its a true story by the way.

Mid of this year I was in the middle of nowhere in China, staying in a small town for about 7 days. My hotel had this delivery service, just like any hotels, and my common practise is to have them sent to my room.

So on the second night, sobering up after the usual dinner and drinking with the local host, I decided to ask for the pricing by calling up the 'leisure service' department. The lady, surprisingly speaking without a heavy accent, said 150rmb per shot and 'we have many girls to cater for your choice'. Feeling shy, I said I'm on the 4th floor Unit 1 of your hotel (they dun know that cos no caller ID for internal line) and pls send someone 'presentable'. Dun need to act demanding, I thought, these people are experienced enough to catch my meaning. heh heh...

30 minutes later, I've got a knock on the door to wake me up from my alcohol induced doze. Door opened, this young lady in flaming red dress (80s style) stepped in. She IS young, panting from the trip up the stairs, but the 'presentable' stops where the dress is concerned. She put on a pose and said "Ke Yi Ma?" (can make it?). I said, "i really dun know, man, maybe someone with a (much) better and cuter looks will be nice". She smiled and left.

I got a call from leisure service in 10 minutes (apparently, the front desk had been alerted cos mamasan must have asked for my room extension no.). Repeated my request and waited. 30 minutes again passed, and this time the mamasan was there with a young, innocent, slim, long haired lady. Looks, maybe about 4 (maybe rank higher if I am in a farmstead). I said ok, and the mamasan left. Lady came in and rattled out a list of 'dun-dos'. She won't HJ, BJ and dun allow touch (how?). I reckoned I could still buy quite a few dead fishes with 150RMB and said she should returned where she came from, politely.

Mamasan from leisure service called again in another 10 minutes. Out of really nothing more to pick from (I was thinking I must be real picky), I just casually mentioned I like someone with more willingness and perhaps experienced. I mean, after 2 girls and 2 flights of stairs, I ought to do some business now, so cant reject.

10 minutes later (I was still thinking of dozing for another 30), mamasan was there outside my door with a woman. Both panting and trying to keep up a conversation, she tried to sell this woman, who, by far, left the deepest impression with me as a WL. I reckon she must be in her 40s, and look like that farmer lady in Kung Fu Hustle(stephen chow) when Stephen's character was outside the barber shop asking for someone to fight (dan tiao) him. Mamasan said she's got the most experience and gives great service. I seriously do not doubt her.

By now, if I still say no, I thought either I have to take the mamasan herself or everyone would just climb that blasted stairs and give me some proper education. So I waved her in. To protect whatever dignity still left (I cant imagine how to face the hotel front desk after so many old ladies climbing up and down to my room), I said she just need to give me BJ. She said ok and proceeded to cap me. Wow good health conscious. After the whole ordeal (I was trying to concentrate on the TV rather), she proceed to give me more health pointers like staying clean and avoiding STD. Paid her and immediately dozed off, having waited like 1.5 hours for 20 minutes action.

For the next few days, I almost kidnapped a taxi driver to accompany me to the local ktv (large room, projection tv, dance floor, 1 dozen beer, 2 girls, for 180RMB). My hosts were govt people so I need to maintain a certain image w.r.t. my line of work. The cabbie din call me after that night, so for the rest of the nights I went to one of the only 2 discos in town which was happening enough to land an ONS with a local girl (bartender) who was way, way, waaaaaay better. In fact, I had a choice between 2 bartenders and 2 professional dancers.

I guess when you're at your downest, the only way is up.

[woodringman]

Originally Posted by topfuel

oh so its a known trap,heng i was firm in restricting her from touching me at all.the auntie strength quite forceful keep trying to push her hand on my junior.

Yup, it's a well known trap for unsuspecting bros who do not know.

You and your friend considered lucky cos normally in these cases, there are bouncers around to ensure that customers follow the rules. Even if you dun want to accept a HJ from the auntie, you will still have to pay for it

[Criminalz]

thanks to all the bros who offer words of encouragement.

also sad to see so many bros here have bad experience too.

Well, i guess you guys know, bad experience also hard to forget. serioiusly, i have not fucked since that incident, kinda gross me out...need to search for my mojo again.

[agent]

Thanks TS for starting this thread, there is really nothing to be ashamed of like so many other bros here have said. And I am actually learning from your story to learn to say no if i encounter the same thing as you, which I think i will most likely also do what u did because i not trained to know how to say no.

and thanks the bros providing their bad experiences in this thread, really give me alot of insight about cheonging.



edit: instead of visiting the geyland streets, I think there are other places which offers better quality girls as well as syt if you willing to pay a higher price for them, maybe that will help you to try and forget about your bad experience once and for all. all the best bro

[vkoolboi]

I would like to relate an experience that my ex-boss share with me. He and a friend (an ex-samster) went to call chicken. My ex-Boss got hooked by a syt but this ex-samster was "harassed" by a woman probably no less than 65. She kept persuading him to up her for $20 inclusive of room, CD, ass job, fuck job and bbbj.

In the end, this ex-samster gave her $50 and told her to take a rest for the evening, without upping her. He was generous and because the two of them had walked around the area twice, both saw how pathetic the old woman was when she was repeatedly rejected by Chinese, Bagala workers, etc.

I hope to meet this samster one day but have not got the chance yet. I have lost contact with my ex-boss who has been posted overseas and I have left the company.