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Setting up cost is just one part, operation cost is lagi worse. Those cafe ladies , whom i refer to as `coffee-mate' cost quite a bomb too. You cannot have just 2 or 3 coffee-mates as customers often come because of the SYT coffee-mates. So to have 7 to 10 of them is very normal. 1 coffee-mate monthly salary is minimum 2.8 million VND, so 10 of them will be 28 million VND a month. At the same time, you need another 1 to 2 person to prepare the drinks, if you get one that is trained, you need to pay around 3.5 to 4 million VND a month. Also needed are 2 person to help wash cups and plates, each person 2.5 million VND. So think about it, just salary alone will cost 28 million + 4 Million + 2.5 million + 2.5 million = 37 million VND a month just on salaries. All these are without rental yet. So, its not easy running a cafe.
bro,u forget abt the securities to look after the motorbikes...
Unlikely to be deported twice - fishy!! How she did it?? Story very familiar - not new. Pay $1K; future $3K (more subsequent sob stories) plus endless more.
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i dont think she's lying that she's deported twice. the first time she ask me to go airport pick her up. but then couldn't come in. second time which is about two weeks later she tried to come in again bcuz i asked her to go change new passport and hopefully can sneak in but the immigration still got record and got deported again.
i checked the time and flight number all consistent, even the delay of flight and she can't be contacted via her vn number during the flight time and in sgp.
the first time when she got deported her return flight got delayed and i checked the landing time... it's consistent with the time she called me after that. about 20 mins after the return flight landed.
the second time when she got denied an entry she called me using sg number inside the immigration. (her vn fren aka ktv gal bought in sg and took it there for her. before the first time she tried to come in, i visited her in vn and by right i supposed to bring her a sim card but i didnt do so because buying sim card requires IC and get recorded)
Unless she's damn pro in making all these consistent. and i think it requires lots of effort to do so. she's only 19 if she can make all these a conspiracy then i think she's damn super pro. can win golden horse acting award and script writing award and director award liao...
she came in singapore twice already this year within 6 months. think the cycle thing applies.
yea i agree there will be more and more money to be asked subsequently... but im puzzled...
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i dont think she's lying that she's deported twice. the first time she ask me to go airport pick her up. but then couldn't come in. second time which is about two weeks later she tried to come in again bcuz i asked her to go change new passport and hopefully can sneak in but the immigration still got record and got deported again.
i checked the time and flight number all consistent, even the delay of flight and she can't be contacted via her vn number during the flight time and in sgp.
the first time when she got deported her return flight got delayed and i checked the landing time... it's consistent with the time she called me after that. about 20 mins after the return flight landed.
the second time when she got denied an entry she called me using sg number inside the immigration. (her vn fren aka ktv gal bought in sg and took it there for her. before the first time she tried to come in, i visited her in vn and by right i supposed to bring her a sim card but i didnt do so because buying sim card requires IC and get recorded)
Unless she's damn pro in making all these consistent. and i think it requires lots of effort to do so. she's only 19 if she can make all these a conspiracy then i think she's damn super pro. can win golden horse acting award and script writing award and director award liao...
she came in singapore twice already this year within 6 months. think the cycle thing applies.
yea i agree there will be more and more money to be asked subsequently... but im puzzled...
Bro ...
Think you must use the correct term so as not to confuse the bros here ... She is definitely 'refused entry' but not 'deported' ...
How can she be deported when she not even cleared the immigration into Singapore ???
I guessed she was refused entry due to the 'cycle' thingy ...
now even lighter.... small bag, bermuda and slipper, here I come saigon
sounds like me...have I met you before...
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now even lighter.... small bag, bermuda and slipper, here I come saigon
me too then got 1 time my wife ask me why everytime wear bermuda and slipper when go vietnam.she ask me to at least wear a pants or jeans with shoe cos not so nice when i reach her home and see her mother, like no reapect like that
don't think i will get married with her soon. just that she got deported twice recently and she got into debt with their local ah long bcuz of the air tix. i understand they earn very little every month and one round trip air tix is 3-4 times their monthly income. she told me a thinking... if a man walked up to her and offered to pay her debts and in return she must marry him... she will agree although she dun really like him but after some time she might like him... i think its their culture that who can help them financially they will like them sooner or later.
sometimes i keep thinking if this is conspiracy to cheat my money haha... she say the debt is around $1k (not inclusive of her family debt which is add up to $3k but she say i dun need to pay for this... again not sure if it's a story again)
and she invite to her house to let her parents and ppl around her to see she got a sg bf. she say doing so will make those ppl she owed money to believe she will have the chance to go sg and earn big bucks again. she got deported twice in one month. and those ah long dun believe she got chance to go sg to work and she say those ppl will come to her house and take their belongings. i dunno if bros here got similar story...
u will know if u read through this thread,if dont have the same script also have almost similar one,i do hope i am wrong but chances very slim
Setting up cost is just one part, operation cost is lagi worse. Those cafe ladies , whom i refer to as `coffee-mate' cost quite a bomb too. You cannot have just 2 or 3 coffee-mates as customers often come because of the SYT coffee-mates. So to have 7 to 10 of them is very normal. 1 coffee-mate monthly salary is minimum 2.8 million VND, so 10 of them will be 28 million VND a month. At the same time, you need another 1 to 2 person to prepare the drinks, if you get one that is trained, you need to pay around 3.5 to 4 million VND a month. Also needed are 2 person to help wash cups and plates, each person 2.5 million VND. So think about it, just salary alone will cost 28 million + 4 Million + 2.5 million + 2.5 million = 37 million VND a month just on salaries. All these are without rental yet. So, its not easy running a cafe.
wow bro,your million + million + million make me headache
and some more so many there,no wonder when at first i ask my wife why those cafe girl/waitress like to put half ball or wear until so sexy,she told me if girl there no put half ball and wear short short skirt,there will be no business cos man go there and see.
she ask me why she always see all those tiger beer promoter at coffee shop is all auntie at sg hahaha
My wife and my mum does not get along well. i have told her of my financial situation, now that i have two babies to feed. but she just keeps on her demand. threatening to divorce and bringing my babies to vietnam. shes been threatening divorce months after we got married until now. her mum is now here to take care of her meals and the babies, shes working full time daily coming back at 11pm to sleep, then off to work early in the morning...sianz