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My wife and my mum does not get along well. i have told her of my financial situation, now that i have two babies to feed. but she just keeps on her demand. threatening to divorce and bringing my babies to vietnam. shes been threatening divorce months after we got married until now. her mum is now here to take care of her meals and the babies, shes working full time daily coming back at 11pm to sleep, then off to work early in the morning...sianz
haiz,sad for u bro,seem like difficult to solve cos u are caught in between baby,wife and mother
My wife and my mum does not get along well. i have told her of my financial situation, now that i have two babies to feed. but she just keeps on her demand. threatening to divorce and bringing my babies to vietnam. shes been threatening divorce months after we got married until now. her mum is now here to take care of her meals and the babies, shes working full time daily coming back at 11pm to sleep, then off to work early in the morning...sianz
i read all your posting (not many)...
really feel sorry for you to be in this state but i don't know what to say now.
you need to think hard about it and be steady on whatever you do.
me too then got 1 time my wife ask me why everytime wear bermuda and slipper when go vietnam.she ask me to at least wear a pants or jeans with shoe cos not so nice when i reach her home and see her mother, like no reapect like that
bor i got the same issue as you. my gal say wear berms look like "people no good" LOL! so when i visit her in hcmc she insist i wear jeans and shirt! even though a bit crumpled she also wan me to wear like that.
duno what they think on attire...
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My wife and my mum does not get along well. i have told her of my financial situation, now that i have two babies to feed. but she just keeps on her demand. threatening to divorce and bringing my babies to vietnam. shes been threatening divorce months after we got married until now. her mum is now here to take care of her meals and the babies, shes working full time daily coming back at 11pm to sleep, then off to work early in the morning...sianz
Bro. She's scaring you la. She will not want to bring the babies back to Vietnam as she needs to work to feed her whole lazy family. Vietnamese gals know that Singaporean guys see children as very important, thus threatening you using the children. Even if she really brings the children to Vn, it will be a short while only. She will call you to demand for money , if you decline, she no choice also bring children back to you. Without children, it's less burden and easier for her to find another man to marry.
next time you see an "old" man.... wearing cheapo bermuda from Saigon Square, fake A & F or Polo T-shirt from New Saigon Square, and a Viet Co cap, that man could be me , don't forget my Bata slipper from Singapore
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sounds like me...have I met you before...
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me too then got 1 time my wife ask me why everytime wear bermuda and slipper when go vietnam.she ask me to at least wear a pants or jeans with shoe cos not so nice when i reach her home and see her mother, like no reapect like that
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Setting up cost is just one part, operation cost is lagi worse. Those cafe ladies , whom i refer to as `coffee-mate' cost quite a bomb too. You cannot have just 2 or 3 coffee-mates as customers often come because of the SYT coffee-mates. So to have 7 to 10 of them is very normal. 1 coffee-mate monthly salary is minimum 2.8 million VND, so 10 of them will be 28 million VND a month. At the same time, you need another 1 to 2 person to prepare the drinks, if you get one that is trained, you need to pay around 3.5 to 4 million VND a month. Also needed are 2 person to help wash cups and plates, each person 2.5 million VND. So think about it, just salary alone will cost 28 million + 4 Million + 2.5 million + 2.5 million = 37 million VND a month just on salaries. All these are without rental yet. So, its not easy running a cafe.
The profit margin per drink is only around 15,000 VND. Think of the number of cups of coffee the cafe must sell per day just to break even, not to say profit. This is one business that i failed, but also because of my spinal surgery that i couldn't continue to stay in VN. Before investing in this business, i already told my wife its difficult to earn, but she insisted. I wanted to start a beer om instead. Thank god i do not depend on this business to feed my family, or else sure DCS (Die Cock Stand)
next time you see an "old" man.... wearing cheapo bermuda from Saigon Square, fake A & F or Polo T-shirt from New Saigon Square, and a Viet Co cap, that man could be me , don't forget my Bata slipper from Singapore
again sounds like me too...except the Bata slipper...
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Bro. She's scaring you la. She will not want to bring the babies back to Vietnam as she needs to work to feed her whole lazy family. Vietnamese gals know that Singaporean guys see children as very important, thus threatening you using the children. Even if she really brings the children to Vn, it will be a short while only. She will call you to demand for money , if you decline, she no choice also bring children back to you. Without children, it's less burden and easier for her to find another man to marry.
This, I agreed...was following his forum...really not sure what to comment...only can wait...
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next time you see an "old" man.... wearing cheapo bermuda from Saigon Square, fake A & F or Polo T-shirt from New Saigon Square, and a Viet Co cap, that man could be me , don't forget my Bata slipper from Singapore
bor i got the same issue as you. my gal say wear berms look like "people no good" LOL! so when i visit her in hcmc she insist i wear jeans and shirt! even though a bit crumpled she also wan me to wear like that.
duno what they think on attire...
"people no good" then a lot of ang mo tourist or asia tourist is "people no good already"
But is a image that they want to project to people so is fine with me but when going to govertment building they expect proper wear not like sg building like ICA,CPF,IRAS and etc,can go in t shirt,bermudas and slipper
03-08-2011, 10:01 PM
