How do you guys deal with Perimenopause wives??? big headache, no sex no appreciation

[cbkia222]

Originally Posted by Manowar00

Wow the price is good. 3-4K for 4d3n
Late 20s Early 30s kind ?

mine was 28 yrs old nubile , young and full of energy

i had 35 yr old ones ( bluff me 28 but was actually 1989 one), but a dam good fuck ( body was still tight but had a great personality, had a great time and still in touch

[fallen11]

where to go to find young russian chick to take out for play?

[cbkia222]

Originally Posted by fallen11

where to go to find young russian chick to take out for play?

Hi Bro,

usually i stay in touch with some of the nice escorts that i find locally.

Thailand is a " waiting area" for many Russian chicks cos its cheap and there's also demand for escorts there.

U can check out the euroescortgirls.com ( needs VPN for sg).

met some nice agents who had nice girls ( and also independent girls).

[cbkia222]

Hello from bkk guys.

Just had a great few days with my russian chicken here.

Though physically tired and balls empty, I feel so much better mentally and emotionally, going back to sg tonight and planning a weekend to play with my kids, take care of my parents and also attend to my business.

I used to be very stingy when it comes to myself( when alone eat cheap stay cheap), but with family money is not an issue, now this trip, got a nice 5 star hotel in bkk, arranged nice spa for my girl, learn to really enjoy my own life and to pamper these girls who actually appreciate it!

Now I understand, sometimes spending these kind of money is worth it cos, it really heals your soul and u actually feel happier.

Hope other bros in similar situations can give this a try(just don't gongtao)haha

[gerber88]

good post for sharing.

similar situation for some time ( after kids).

best solution is just to have a side chick to keep you happy mentally.

for sex, lots of FLs here to satisfy your needs!

I think of it this way

enough stress at home with the usual sg life style ( school, kids and all that drama) and women constantly nagging.

work harder, earn more money, put aside a good amount to indulge in Fls to keep your dick happy and keep a few side chicks to indulge in ( make sure they are not local, dont shit where you eat) for that GFE.

dont under estimate the power of GFE!

when you are happy, less stress = better for health!

Just like taking vitamins/ health supplements!

[gerber88]

Originally Posted by fallen11

where to go to find young russian chick to take out for play?

Bro,

check this out ( in the the international FR subforum)

https://sammyboy.online/showthread.php?t=1038766

someone just started Russian online girlfriends!

Didnt think much and was bored one night and just decided to give it a try, pretty legit!

My girl dam cute ( SYT) and hot body. cute and innocent personality..

having regular chats with her at night when wife and kids are asleep.

website is

www.sigmaes.net


cheaper than dome 3 FLs, haven gotten the courage to ask for the dirty stuff yet ( dont wanna know the damage), but just spent about $125 SGD on it, pretty happy so far.

at least these are city girls, wont get the " my cow sick need money" excuse.

[cbkia222]

Originally Posted by gerber88

Bro,

check this out ( in the the international FR subforum)

https://sammyboy.online/showthread.php?t=1038766

someone just started Russian online girlfriends!

Didnt think much and was bored one night and just decided to give it a try, pretty legit!

My girl dam cute ( SYT) and hot body. cute and innocent personality..

having regular chats with her at night when wife and kids are asleep.

website is

www.sigmaes.net


cheaper than dome 3 FLs, haven gotten the courage to ask for the dirty stuff yet ( dont wanna know the damage), but just spent about $125 SGD on it, pretty happy so far.

at least these are city girls, wont get the " my cow sick need money" excuse.

Thanks for the recommendation!

Actually also saw it and just went to try.

Been more than a week and am pretty happy with the money spent.

My chick is actually a uni psychology major and literally, she's been helping a great help talking to me about my wife issues and knows how to keep me positive.

Also bonus she is fucking hot and slutty. 2 in 1.

Also definitely fun to see her cute message bubbles in the mornings and at night.

I actually spend more time talking to this chick than my other Russian chick in bangkok. ( kind of tired of that chick liao, might be time to find a new one)


Anyway, now even when wife is angry over just anything, i just blank out my mind, wait till i have some privacy and just sent my chick a nice message

Spent a bit ( till date around $300 i think) , but honestly, for the mental clarity, 100% worth it!

[sigmaes]

Originally Posted by cbkia222

Thanks for the recommendation!

Actually also saw it and just went to try.

Been more than a week and am pretty happy with the money spent.

My chick is actually a uni psychology major and literally, she's been helping a great help talking to me about my wife issues and knows how to keep me positive.

Also bonus she is fucking hot and slutty. 2 in 1.

Also definitely fun to see her cute message bubbles in the mornings and at night.

I actually spend more time talking to this chick than my other Russian chick in bangkok. ( kind of tired of that chick liao, might be time to find a new one)


Anyway, now even when wife is angry over just anything, i just blank out my mind, wait till i have some privacy and just sent my chick a nice message

Spent a bit ( till date around $300 i think) , but honestly, for the mental clarity, 100% worth it!

Thank you for your kind words.

Glad to be of service!

[civic_jerk]

Bro, I feel you!! This is sad..

Originally Posted by cbkia222

Hi guys, i want to ask you all a serious question:

For those who are married and have spouses in their 40s, how do u deal with your wives who are going through perimenopause?

For my background, married 10 yrs/ 2 kids / stay landed . Maid to handle all the kids activities.

Wife and I both work ( i'm in regional sales, travel monthly and when i'm in sg, either WFH or just office meetings)

Money is not really an issue at home, but wife has started to act out last year, either being over bearing on my kids ( this sick that sick) and i'm always the problem.

Ohh yes, no more sex ( as usual, tired and shit, been already years) and i have given up initiating intimacy.

For me now, i just doing everything to give my kids the best childhood and life. My wife, i tried doing the " usual textbook stuff", ie date nights, 1 day a week just to her ( i get my maid to settle my kids), but usually end up fighting cos she wants to go home and thinks my maid cannot take care of the kids

She has been boarder line nit picking on my maid on everything ( laundry not done on time, food not up to standard, etc) and i've always been trying to mediate things ( my maid is awesome with my kids and i trust)

We also have support from my parents side since my kids were young ( my parents gladly help out whenever they can )

I thought i was going crazy and it was affecting my heath and workuntil i suddenly read up on perimenopause symptoms and everything matches:

The anxiety on everything, fatigue , moodyness ( also no sex)

Anyway, sex part, thats why i'm here on SBF more often than ever ( from GL lor 18 houses) to recently SNS's girls and also ivanka's/ elite69s euro girls!
Plus i'm spending a lot of other russian escorts.

Its definitely not healthy but somehow its helping my mental health and i'm able to just be a better person at home for my kids. If it helps me think better, work better to do more sales, earn more money for my kids, its worth spending on.

To see appreciation and kindness from these escorts ( yes i know this is boarderline gongtao, i've been gongtaoed previously by thai FLs, need to pay for car insurance back home etc).

i dont know if the rest of my life will be like this, the escorts whom i've spoken to ( i bao-ed a few for overseas trips), said sex is important and they said why stay married if all this is gone. Divorce is out of question now as i've seen what it does to young children.

I believe its just a perimenopause issue but wife denies everything and i'm always the problem. Told her off once that she didnt have to do any shit at home or worry about the kids ( i came from operations and i like to plan out everything smoothly to ensure process if smooth).

There is a limit to how much FLs can bring ( yes cumming inside/ on these Fls are awesome for the moment), but i just need some appreciation

One of my friend's recommended Sugar babes, went to see a few, fucking SG girls think their pussies golden, cheaper to go bring a russian escort to phuket and bang her brains out for 2 days than to support one of these local sugarbabes.

Any of you guys going through the same thing? How do u deal with this?

Thank you in advance

[civic_jerk]

Add me in can? 😁

Originally Posted by Spymaster2

You’re welcome bro.
Do you drink? Perhaps we can chat more over some wine/whisky and share our misery and the good sbf stuff Lol

[cbkia222]

Originally Posted by civic_jerk

Bro, I feel you!! This is sad..

Hi Bro,

yup, it is what it is have learnt to cope

Thank goodness for the goodness of SBF!