Price to pay for helping Matters of the Heart

[colins]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Wow!!!!! Obiwan has spoken....the force is strong on this one!

Obiwan is only repeating what Yoda said, he is the source to the force!

[DTCEPL]

The Grandmaster(S) have all spoken.....may the force with with all of you

[colins]

Originally Posted by warbird

It's an addiction. I crave young pretty pussies which by itself is normal n healthy. Unfortunately, I also enjoy playing KC game w/ at least some of them to boost my ego n for emotional fulfilment. So far so good. I know it's a risky game n I can get burnt badly.

Just remember bro, if you want to play the game, you play it to win. If you can't control the outcome, you either fuck off and dun dwell in it. One thing is that ego and emotional fulfilment is a bottomless pit, no matter how much you dump, it will always be empty. Dun tie either one of them to 'victory', otherwise if you fall, all will fall. These girls are masters of giving you false ego and emotions, letting you win can also be part of their ploy. The game never ends until one side stop contacting each other permanently. So winning on Monday can mean that you lose all the way from Tuesday till Sunday. So when you know you've won, you will leave the scene. The world will always remember that Monday, cos you've never lost.

How to freely extract yourself from the scene? Well, you cannot have emotions and you cannot be someone who needs emotional fulfilment from somebody else. Entering the game with emotions to fulfill is just one sure way of putting yourself halfway across the globe behind the starting line. The disadvantage is so strong that you might as well dun play.

[DTCEPL]

I would advice all Bros not to play with KCs.

It hurt the gal, and it may hurt us too. If we are played by the gal, indirectly we may have allowed such to happen. Just walk away like a gentleman with no regrets, she don't deserved you, and you deserved a better gal - its Karma.

Personally I felt very hurt when she left me, but I got no regrets loving her for 2 years. At least I tried my best to gave her and her family all that I could within my means, if she don't appreciate the love, then its time that I let her go, painful it is but she no longer needs/loves me.

We all have individuals values, that makes everyone an individual, that makes us humans and that makes us different from one another. I can't force the gal to love me the same way as I am willing to gave her.

I sincerely hope all Bros not to play with KCs.....but you can bonk all you wished in commerical sex.

Just a personally tot.....no offence to anyone.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by colins

Just remember bro, if you want to play the game, you play it to win. If you can't control the outcome, you either fuck off and dun dwell in it. One thing is that ego and emotional fulfilment is a bottomless pit, no matter how much you dump, it will always be empty...These girls are masters of giving you false ego and emotions, letting you win can also be part of their ploy. The game never ends until one side stop contacting each other permanently.
How to freely extract yourself from the scene? Well, you cannot have emotions and you cannot be someone who needs emotional fulfilment from somebody else...The disadvantage is so strong that you might as well dun play.

Bro colins,

Very good advice.

Not trying to win lah. If the end game is a draw, I'm satisfied. The gal gets nice payments n I get good companionship. Sure, there will be some sadness even though both of us know it's a business transaction n it wouldn't last forever.


"I would advice all Bros not to play with KCs.

It hurt the gal, and it may hurt us too. If we are played by the gal, indirectly we may have allowed such to happen. Just walk away like a gentleman with no regrets, she don't deserved you, and you deserved a better gal - its Karma.

Personally I felt very hurt when she left me, but I got no regrets loving her for 2 years.
I sincerely hope all Bros not to play with KCs.....but you can bonk all you wished in commerical sex."

Thx bro DTCEPL,

Not trying to hurt anyone on purpose...although I hv been hurt badly before. My situation is quite complex which I shall not elaborate.

I'll definitely take ur advice seriously.

[jojogigi]

like what Yang Pei An sang.... 爱上她们是一个错。

[shanshen]

bro colins has very good pointers for all to follows:

this KC game..guess it occurs to those who has lost the magic touch in their married life or with the fiancee or bride to me or some naive young guys who falls head over toes over some sweet girl with sugar words...

its true what bro longwinter and warbirds experience...after some time..u want someone the spend more quality time to get or experience that special feeling...with...someone who u treasure their compansionship..so the rtf..

however, all have to keep colins and do_u_bj words in mind not to be KCed..

i too rtf a wl few times till she went back and rtf new wl..the services seems better after each rtf and u enjoy the action more...
if she spends time having a meal with you before the rtf ...the entire feeling is different...like u are fucking yr gf or lover...rather than fucking a wl...

so i always like to rft and before the second rtf ..love to buy her a meal to build up the feelings...leading to the bed... ofcourse the rtf must be one u like..

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by shanshen

so i always like to rft and before the second rtf ..love to buy her a meal to build up the feelings...leading to the bed... ofcourse the rtf must be one u like..

Be mindful of wat you r doin my young friend.
You are setting ur own stage for a KC potential situation.
Soon you will be at the point of no return....u see it...so be very ALERT!

[jojogigi]

before i rtf the girl i buy durian for her to eat... then the shell can use as vibrator..... hohohohohoh.

[shanshen]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Be mindful of wat you r doin my young friend.
You are setting ur own stage for a KC potential situation.
Soon you will be at the point of no return....u see it...so be very ALERT!

thank you for the concern, bro...me already know how to play this game and my heart is not easily moved by emotions after having taste it..i know when to pull the brake and when to accelerate..

just playing this game the way i want it to be...like the script had already written and u are directing the play...so u are in total control...

always look out for warnin signs...like what u said...sob stories can be true but asking for fianacial assistance from a customer is entirely different matters...

[Randi_Candi]

I always like to kaypo.......

a samster used 2 tell me, say beh tahan leh, they all look so 楚楚可怜, yet so pritty.......cant just bring myself 2 go n pat my backside n go hm 4get it.

So my siggy was intended for him. But he is not the only 1 whom falls into such category

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by Randi_Candi

So my siggy was intended for him. But he is not the only 1 whom falls into such category

本来无衣物,何处惹尘埃

[colins]

Originally Posted by DTCEPL

本来无一物,何处惹尘埃

How does this apply to bro randi candi's post?

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by colins

How does this apply to bro randi candi's post?

He quoted his siggy as reference......then here comes my remarks extracted out from 六祖慧能, quite the same meaning.

[colins]

Originally Posted by DTCEPL

He quoted his siggy as reference......then here comes my remarks extracted out from 六祖慧能, quite the same meaning.

I think its quite different bro. 慧能's words show that we shouldn't bring worldly objects into our heart as reality is always subjected to what human can sense and cannot sense.

Whereas bro randi candi's liner is more towards telling his friend, if he can't forget about the poor state which the girls are in, desirable as they can be, he should just avoid the scene and dun worry about being able to NOT think so much after seeing such 'sufferings'.