The fact of the matter is that many of these Ktv girls are just plain ole lazy and many just skip going to work for extended periods. They have friends to hang with, families to tend to (going back to hometowns will usually entail at least a couple weeks away from work) and too many times when the very nature of their job gets to them - they just will not go back to work.
SEAJ
Plain old lazy - that is the crux of the matter. That is ultimately the tilting point. The too often parleyed lines as to why they descend into prostitution ie grandpa sick, or grandma needs operation, or papa has accident so cannot work, or didi needs school fees paid, parents need repair dilapidated house and....and... and...are almost always exaggerations, many times just outright lies.
The objective is twofold, firstly it offers up a measure of self justification, self consolation and self vindication as to why they are in their erstwhile predicament. And secondly, it is plumb bait for would be knights in shining armour riding in to the rescue, otherwise known as BIGTIME SUCKERS.
(Of which of course yours truly has been one, in varying degrees, but that's another story.)
Be that as it may, the other salient point is this. Once a female has cross that crucial line of selling her body for a livelihood, she is usually beyond rescue. The offerings of easy living, even easier money, party environments, become both elixirs and entrapments.
So to would be rescuers, heroes, philantrophists, do-gooders, romantics, bleeding hearts, remember the dictum
"You can take the prostitute out of prostitution, but you can never take prostitition out of the prostitute"
Plain old lazy - that is the crux
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So to would be rescuers, heroes, philantrophists, do-gooders, romantics, bleeding hearts, remember the dictum
"You can take the prostitute out of prostitution, but you can never take prostitition out of the prostitute"
That last sentence is a particularly poignant reminder for me, and one which I hope more here will pay particular heed to.
On the other hand, I don't necessarily agree as to the totality and as to how all-encompassing the sentiment you've expressed about prostitutes is - as I'm sure that there are those who've turned their lives around. In fact I hope that many girls who had been wg's and who've now gone back home to start their lives anew, will succeed.
But the odds against this happening - especially if a relationship starts when she still works as a Prostitute - are pretty high.
One of the advise I always try to give WG's is:
"Whilst you are still working as a WG, you will not and should not try to find love; if you do try, you will instead just hurt yourself. Just steel yourself, work hard and save your money, and get out of the life as soon as possible to go back to a normal life."
But when a love relationship starts out from a client/provider matrix, IMHO, the chances of it ever succeeding go down drastically. The guy would in most instances not be able to completely eradicate this darkness from his psyche and the girl, knowing that her past is no secret, will just too easily revert back to form.
So my strong suggestion to friends coming over to Chang Ping or just out whoring around is to never fall in love with a WG - there really is no future in this.
No lah.. its the singaporeans and malaysian who push up the prices lah.. so many carrot head form these 2 olace..
throw rmb at gals and if rmb is not rmb.. haiz..
before dun know when n when.. when only hkie and taiwanese is around the prices is so much cheaper and better services.
its all singaporeans n malaysian fault.. dun u agree.. haha
oh pls sparw a thought for us normal punters... haha
sorry hor. These are not my words. Just taking content out of some horse mouth. Haha.
I met one mm at cp and she say she like Singapore and Malaysian. She dun like hkie and Taiwanese. Coz Singaporean and Malaysian will give them more $$$. Lol
More responses from a less than know it all.
My regular girl:
Does her own hair (unless she updates the red color)
Does her own markup.
Does not wear the false eyelashes. Many of the others girls do however.
Has a shoe thing--buys hooker shoes but I don't think very many.
Does not splurge on many fancy clothes. (In fact should probably buy a few more). Yes I took her shopping and bought a new dress and shoes, but that was offset by not paying her for her time with me. Pay me now or pay me later, it still comes out of the pocket.
Does have an iPhone 5. Don't know if it was "given" to her or she paid for it, she did tell me how much it cost.
I notice some new jewelry on occasion and assume it is given to her by another client.
Works every day unless she is with me or perhaps someone else, but always seems to be available whenever I am there.
Always takes the left over hotel room fruit home with her.
I noticed that someone said that these girls sometimes live very close to the edge. To expand on that, I like to go to the KTV just to relax, play a bit, sing a song, etc. The last time there, she told me the girls who did not get picked were in their room were very hungry and could she take what we didn't consume to them. I said "of course" and if they were really hungry I would send out for KFC for them. I know many of them in the biblical sense and will not, if possible, let them go hungry! The KFC was declined but our left over fruit platter was devoured.
Unless they are one of the young popular ones, they do tend to have rough life.
She tells me that she doesn't get picked all the time, and many times just to sit.
She is 30 years old (she was 26 a year ago) and knows she can't work this too much longer.
She says she saves most of her money but I really don't know.
She says she wants to get out but as a previous poster said, this life is now in her blood and it will be very difficult for her to leave it unless she gets completely away.
Oh well, enough rhetoric from me. MY POV again. mrclen
She says she wants to get out but as a previous poster said, this life is now in her blood and it will be very difficult for her to leave it unless she gets completely away.
Oh well, enough rhetoric from me. MY POV again. mrclen
I know 4 of my previous regulars got out from ktv and live a normal life ... one went back home and got married ... one sells clothes in LCC mall ....one in factory near crown prince hotel and one in shanghai getting married this winter.
I know 4 of my previous regulars got out from ktv and live a normal life ... one went back home and got married ... one sells clothes in LCC mall ....one in factory near crown prince hotel and one in shanghai getting married this winter.
Yes I totally agree, some go back to normal life and some do not.
It depends on individual
I do see alot of posting with bros having the mindset that MM now selling bodies there will always sell thier bodies again
So much discussion on mms income , some call name like carrots head , does this really bother us ? all the price increasing in cp , do we think it will helps by discussing here ?
I might not have been to cp at 2006/07 , but I am sure there isn't any ktv hardware and software is as good as now .
I know 4 of my previous regulars got out from ktv and live a normal life ... one went back home and got married ... one sells clothes in LCC mall ....one in factory near crown prince hotel and one in shanghai getting married this winter.
Very happy to hear this...hopefully they dun turn back to subletting their pussy again...
Wish them all the best and happily ever after...Cheers!
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whoremongers never die cos they just reunite in hell
They'll seize upon any pretext and excuse to raise prices.... And give less of themselves in the process.
SEAJ
Well, it's a buyer and seller 's situation. If u felt being short changed then just walk away to patronize BBS or sn. But again, even these two also ppl complained being short changed! But , what's being ' short changed'? Yawn......
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Originally Posted by prcsytlover
No lah.. its the singaporeans and malaysian who push up the prices lah.. so many carrot head form these 2 olace..
throw rmb at gals and if rmb is not rmb.. haiz..
before dun know when n when.. when only hkie and taiwanese is around the prices is so much cheaper and better services.
its all singaporeans n malaysian fault.. dun u agree.. haha
oh pls sparw a thought for us normal punters... haha
sorry hor. These are not my words. Just taking content out of some horse mouth. Haha.
Lol...it's not honkie or daiwanlang don't want to throw rmb. It's the exchange rate that they cannot tahan to throw.
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Originally Posted by myluckyguy
While we analyse the service provider's costs, we have to keep in mind the other costs contributing to the escalating inflation is the middleman's lucrative cut. The increases in SN fees, BBS costs is particularly noticeable in CP. I shall not say too much to avoid offending any advertisers or their supporters here. Again only my humble POV without offense..
Anyway, if fuel price increase we LAN LAN have to pump also mah. That's coz we borbian! But if 'chicken' price increase and one felt that is not worth then just pcc lor....kpkb the price also won't come down mah.
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Originally Posted by Dabao
So much discussion on mms income , some call name like carrots head , does this really bother us ? all the price increasing in cp , do we think it will helps by discussing here ?
I might not have been to cp at 2006/07 , but I am sure there isn't any ktv hardware and software is as good as now .
Nowsaday less FR and interesting info .
Ya...agreed! Really bor Liao ! We go there to screw not to write thesis.
So much discussion on mms income , some call name like carrots head , does this really bother us ? all the price increasing in cp , do we think it will helps by discussing here ?
I might not have been to cp at 2006/07 , but I am sure there isn't any ktv hardware and software is as good as now .
Nowsaday less FR and interesting info .
Bro,
I do not see you have not explore deep enough in your mind and understand as what this forum is about and why we are discussing this.
What is te root cause in the increase in prices, why MM prefer SG ad MY and not HK and TW?
To make sure that we do not be one of the carrothead and spend those RMB that is not require unless the person is bloodly rich.
We go CP or I go CP to enjoy and want to spend my RMB wisely, I am not rich
I enjoy alone in CA and CP for 9 to 10 days in a single trip can have fun and RMB wisley spend, I did acheve it