Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 83

Sha_Gua75 · #**1231** 26-03-2007, 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

Avg Sha_Gua75 + Rich Viet g/f = Rich Family

Sorry...I will not have a rich family becos my gf is rich....not saying that SingvViet is correct that wait long long if they give me money but is that she have a brother still very young

Hmmm but I wont have problems like most people have...of their in-law family keep demanding for money

SingViet · #**1232** 26-03-2007, 08:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

Sorry...I will not have a rich family becos my gf is rich....not saying that SingvViet is correct that wait long long if they give me money but is that she have a brother still very young

Hmmm but I wont have problems like most people have...of their in-law family keep demanding for money

To be relieved of feeding in-laws is already a great blessing. i am sure they will give your wife some money at times when she ask for it, but they will leave majority of their money to their younger son. First priority will be themselves, then if got something left, majority for son then for daughter. Son-in-law is always out of the picture

Sha_Gua75 · #**1233** 26-03-2007, 08:17 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

This one i have to correct. Avg Sha Gua + Rich Viet gf = Avg Family. u think they will give sha gua 100k or 200k huh? Wait long long. Plus i am quite sure his rich g/f is just slightly above average in Vietnam. better than majority, same as plenty but worse off than some. Wait till u see the super rich in Vietnam

Anh Sha Gua, Nho Anh yeu Anh, khong an com va khong ia duoc.

I say before roi... your thinking is different from people here becos you been to VN and stay there a few years...so you always have the same concept about about all vietnamese..all vietnamese is for sure like this or like that....but then nothing is for sure 100% right...

BTW what u mean by the vietnamese sentence you wrote? who can eat and shit? I still can eat and shit leh

Sha_Gua75 · #**1234** 26-03-2007, 08:24 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

To be relieved of feeding in-laws is already a great blessing. i am sure they will give your wife some money at times when she ask for it, but they will leave majority of their money to their younger son. First priority will be themselves, then if got something left, majority for son then for daughter. Son-in-law is always out of the picture

you right...if she ask, her family will give....but i think she will not ask...

anyway she told me already...her family going to give her money after she get married for her to keep

but not mine...she will use for shopping

SingViet · #**1235** 26-03-2007, 08:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

I say before roi... your thinking is different from people here becos you been to VN and stay there a few years...so you always have the same concept about about all vietnamese..all vietnamese is for sure like this or like that....but then nothing is for sure 100% right...
BTW what u mean by the vietnamese sentence you wrote? who can eat and shit? I still can eat and shit leh

Not all vietnamese la... majority is the word

Sha_Gua75 · #**1236** 26-03-2007, 08:42 PM

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Originally Posted by RJ2004

cb drunk liao come here post nonsense...

must be you drunk with him

KangTuo · #**1237** 26-03-2007, 10:04 PM

Tigerairways VISA card super deal.
Book between 26Mar - 1Apr by VISA. Fly between 1Jul - 30Sep (exclude the national day week and school hoildays)

Only between $126 - $135...to go HCM.

Plan to go once every month from Jul - Sep. How is the weather there during these period?

RJ2004 · #**1238** 27-03-2007, 12:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

must be you drunk with him

where got, he drunk liao must drink tea... i still go for 2nd round

SingViet · #**1239** 27-03-2007, 06:08 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

Plan to go once every month from Jul - Sep. How is the weather there during these period?

Wet... wet... wet. Their wet season is opposite to singapore's

SingViet · #**1240** 27-03-2007, 06:22 AM

Bro Sha Gua, i really hope that your future in laws will be as good as what u deemed them to be , 2 years down the road. Yes, my thinking is different from yrs as i have stayed there for some years while u make short trips there. I need not elaborate lor, what u see during short trips and what i see and experience during my perm stay there is different. Like u say, nothing is 100%, so what made u think what i said is untrue?

Get married first, stay with her and make more contact with yr in-laws. In 2 years time, i hope that u can still feel the same towards them. Yes, there are good and bad people in all countries, but there are also certain characteristics of people from a country that's difficult to change; just like being kiasu in singapore; vietnam have their own characteristics . They are also damm good at 过河拆桥, this comes from personal experiences.

Actually, how u see them and how they treat u is none of my problem also. I treat u like good friend so i am quite concerned. But like before, you are so much in love and nothing can get into your mind and thoughts. As a friend, i still wish u the best and its nice to see u settle down. Ok, get over and done with, we shall not discuss about yr in laws from now on. Nevertheless, good luck

Torres_Mok · #**1241** 27-03-2007, 07:41 AM

I personally come across there is a majority of the sporean men hv a relatively huge age gap between their viet wives. i wanted to qoute some eg. my friend is 36 and his wife is only 23. is the gap too wide?

there is a news that involved a man killing his indonesia wife, due to his wife hv affairs outside. the man is 38 and the wife is 24.

i personally feel that becos of this huge gap in ages, their thinking is different. once these foreigner gals married to spore,they will see more younger (which is around their ages) handsome guys on the street. they may hv affairs outside.

aman · #**1242** 27-03-2007, 08:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

I personally come across there is a majority of the sporean men hv a relatively huge age gap between their viet wives. i wanted to qoute some eg. my friend is 36 and his wife is only 23. is the gap too wide?

there is a news that involved a man killing his indonesia wife, due to his wife hv affairs outside. the man is 38 and the wife is 24.

i personally feel that becos of this huge gap in ages, their thinking is different. once these foreigner gals married to spore,they will see more younger (which is around their ages) handsome guys on the street. they may hv affairs outside.

bro , even you are rich n handsome n there no age gap!! if your wife wan to hv affairs outside you can't stop oso

you hv to trust yourself n her .

Torres_Mok · #**1243** 27-03-2007, 12:51 PM

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Originally Posted by aman

bro , even you are rich n handsome n there no age gap!! if your wife wan to hv affairs outside you can't stop oso

you hv to trust yourself n her .

if you are rich n handsome n there no age gap!! if your wife wan to hv affairs outside, most likely your wife is not a vietnamese.

i should say the vietnamese r more royal, but if u r old and poor i thk the temptation of ur viet wife having affairs outside r much higher!

I hv read thru new paper somewhere last yr that few married sporean women hv many affairs outside, becos they claimed that they wan to try different men, one even hv sex with other man b4 her customary marriage, and proudly announce that she wants it as her customary marriage present. these few ladies r been interviewed by reporter.

Sha_Gua75 · #**1244** 27-03-2007, 01:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

if you are rich n handsome n there no age gap!! if your wife wan to hv affairs outside, most likely your wife is not a vietnamese.

i should say the vietnamese r more royal, but if u r old and poor i thk the temptation of ur viet wife having affairs outside r much higher!

I hv read thru new paper somewhere last yr that few married sporean women hv many affairs outside, becos they claimed that they wan to try different men, one even hv sex with other man b4 her customary marriage, and proudly announce that she wants it as her customary marriage present. these few ladies r been interviewed by reporter.

hehe the one I intro you not much age gap between you and her

Sha_Gua75 · #**1245** 28-03-2007, 12:14 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

First priority will be themselves, then if got something left, majority for son then for daughter. Son-in-law is always out of the picture

most of the vietnamese you have seen do that...but from what i know is her mum and even to the extend to her aunt...spend alot of money on my gf....especially her mum save on herself and spend on my gf....if compare with her brother...her brother still have a long way to go before catching up with his sister...

As for son-in-law...nothing to say about this yet as I am not yet their son-in-law...even when i become their...they dont give is also correct...if they give and I take then people will say i no backbone...there is actually no 100% right or wrong...it is just the concept of people's mind...

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Originally Posted by SingViet

Bro Sha Gua, i really hope that your future in laws will be as good as what u deemed them to be , 2 years down the road. Yes, my thinking is different from yrs as i have stayed there for some years while u make short trips there. I need not elaborate lor, what u see during short trips and what i see and experience during my perm stay there is different. Like u say, nothing is 100%, so what made u think what i said is untrue?

Get married first, stay with her and make more contact with yr in-laws. In 2 years time, i hope that u can still feel the same towards them. Yes, there are good and bad people in all countries, but there are also certain characteristics of people from a country that's difficult to change; just like being kiasu in singapore; vietnam have their own characteristics . They are also damm good at 过河拆桥, this comes from personal experiences.

Actually, how u see them and how they treat u is none of my problem also. I treat u like good friend so i am quite concerned. But like before, you are so much in love and nothing can get into your mind and thoughts. As a friend, i still wish u the best and its nice to see u settle down. Ok, get over and done with, we shall not discuss about yr in laws from now on. Nevertheless, good luck

hmm...I say nothing is 100%...doesnt meant that i am 100% right or wrong...or say that you 100% right or wrong...

some country's people sure have their own characterisitics...but you cant say that all the people in the country have the same character..Singaporean is know for Kaisu...but doesnt mean that all the singaporean is kaisu...

As for the 过河拆桥...no comments on this as I heard both side story before and there is no ways to find out who is right who is wrong..when u interact with vietnamese, you think you are right...the vietnamese think they are right...so who is really right and who is really wrong? No one know unless all sit down and trash out with someone neutral to oversee it...

I know you see me as good friend and try to advise me thru your best experience and knowledge..so hehe so case closed before we really get into big arguement and noi tam biet mai mai