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Old 17-04-2009, 06:23 PM
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some gals are addicted to cheating and it doesn’t make any difference how good they have it or how well you treat them. They are going to cheat and that’s it.
I feel the correct phrase here would be:
It's already ready a way of life for them and that will be their livelihood.
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Old 17-04-2009, 06:28 PM
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I feel the correct phrase here would be:
It's already ready a way of life for them and that will be their livelihood.
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Old 17-04-2009, 08:29 PM
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It is no longer lying, it is avoidance of conflict, it is now admitting. Lying can be forgiven if it is done in a state of foolishness, but refusal to admit an obvious fault is unforgivable. Fuck it bro, if you feel bad now you are foolish. If you wanna blame, blame yourself for choosing her. Find what's wrong with your choice and dun repeat that, dun look for the same type of characteristics in the next girl, then you can case close. Carry on your life man, there are still endless possibilities.

Take care bro.
Good insight about advoidance of conflict. I called my "ex" to no avail. F it man. Its all avoidance conflict. Move on. This weekend I have a date with an attractive normal non PRC gal who holds a regular job.

Quite frankly in doing business with PRCs and in relations with PRC women, none of them have any sense of fairness nor compassion, they do things to benefit themselves at all costs including damaging the other party to the extreme. They are habitual liars, and none of them have any remorse or are willing to admit wrongs. There may be exceptions but I've not met any. If you marry a PRC not only will you have to wonder what your wife's motivation is but you will be you could surounded but a family of people who may only think in their own best interests.
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Old 17-04-2009, 09:22 PM
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If you marry a PRC not only will you have to wonder what your wife's motivation is but you will be you could surrounded but a family of people who may only think in their own best interests.
You own the herd, you run the herd.
Apply this ruling, your statement will NOT MATERIALISE!
Let the herd run you, like you did, yup your statement will apply.
Its all about CONTROL bro.
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Old 18-04-2009, 11:47 PM
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Seek help from ur close friend..(someone u can talk n trust)

There is a chinese saying "Dan Jue Zhe Mi, Pang Guan Zhe Qing"

But no matter wat we say here..its best to seek advise from ur close friend.

Time washes away all the pain...why make urself so unhappy,so stress..

Just let it go..concentrate all ur minds on work..do things u feel happy.

Soon everything will be back to normal again...all the best
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Re: Cheated

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Bro Godzilla007, like I mentioned in earlier post, 醒了就该放手, 人生中有许多种爱,但别让爱成为一种伤害。Move on and don't let this unfortunate relationship, stopping you from falling in love again. You will meet a better gal, I am sure.

Be Happy and Chill. Take care, Bro.
agree with you bro Panamera.

bro Godzilla007, although it is tough to go thru what you are going thru, hope time will heal the pain and you will find someone to fall in love again...
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Old 20-04-2009, 10:51 PM
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Bro Godzilla007, jia you, jia you!
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Old 21-04-2009, 11:34 AM
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agree with you bro Panamera.

bro Godzilla007, although it is tough to go thru what you are going thru, hope time will heal the pain and you will find someone to fall in love again...
Bro Undertskerrr, all done, please check. pm me if you need further assistance.
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Old 30-08-2009, 04:33 AM
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Re: Cheated

Hi bros, it has been 4 mths since i left my ex fiance and the truth is still coming to me abt how she cheats on me. it turns out that a guy has been chasing after her. It happens like this. i have been sending her to a driving ctr somewhere in singapore for her riding lessons. I paid for the riding lessons, everything, helmat, practical lessons. then there is one instructor who is a mother fucking bastard, decided to sweet talk her. and he know she is actually engaged to me but yet he decided to tried his luck. Fucking bastard got no respect for other people relationships. this happen earlier in this year. and so this bastard bring her out, even to a weekend getaway in batam which i found the photos in the laptop i bought for her. and did i mentioned this bastard has a gf working in the same place as him. it turned out she has been taking my money to buy things for him and to go on holidays wif him while we were still together. to think i have been working hard to provide for her and she do fucking this to me. and recently when i bump into her, she is now wif that bastard. so all those msgs she sent to me abt being sorry for wat she has done to me and not realising how important i was in her life was lies!!! and when i ask for my money back, she say she dun owe me anything! fucking hell! and the bastard has the cheek to fuck me back!! fucking hell! i just walk away as it is not worth a fight over a stupid gal.

and i have move on already. found a lovely gal which is very understanding and loving... i must say it is a blessing in disguise. i can't imagine if i had married my ex and she doing all this to me. i believed in karma and she will surely get what she deserves for cheating on me, my money and my family. i provided everything for her and she was being ungrateful to me...
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Old 30-08-2009, 06:40 AM
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when i ask for my money back, she say she dun owe me anything! fucking hell!
Bro, dun mean to pour cold water over you but she's rite.
Remember, she never asked you for $$$ directly, she only hinted & you gave willingly.
This is one of the most common tricks these PRC use on men, they will not ask directly, but reverse psychology will make you give willingly, thus, when the grand finale like your case comes, they'll have the rite to say, I NEVER ASK, U GAVE ON UR OWN FREE WILL.

A lesson learnt bro, good that you found another one but now, you'll have learnt that life is all about using the brains, only fools use their hearts!
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Old 30-08-2009, 11:05 PM
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Re: Cheated

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Hi bros, it has been 4 mths since i left my ex fiance and the truth is still coming to me abt how she cheats on me. it turns out that a guy has been chasing after her. It happens like this. i have been sending her to a driving ctr somewhere in singapore for her riding lessons. I paid for the riding lessons, everything, helmat, practical lessons. then there is one instructor who is a mother fucking bastard, decided to sweet talk her. and he know she is actually engaged to me but yet he decided to tried his luck. Fucking bastard got no respect for other people relationships. this happen earlier in this year. and so this bastard bring her out, even to a weekend getaway in batam which i found the photos in the laptop i bought for her. and did i mentioned this bastard has a gf working in the same place as him. it turned out she has been taking my money to buy things for him and to go on holidays wif him while we were still together. to think i have been working hard to provide for her and she do fucking this to me. and recently when i bump into her, she is now wif that bastard. so all those msgs she sent to me abt being sorry for wat she has done to me and not realising how important i was in her life was lies!!! and when i ask for my money back, she say she dun owe me anything! fucking hell! and the bastard has the cheek to fuck me back!! fucking hell! i just walk away as it is not worth a fight over a stupid gal.

and i have move on already. found a lovely gal which is very understanding and loving... i must say it is a blessing in disguise. i can't imagine if i had married my ex and she doing all this to me. i believed in karma and she will surely get what she deserves for cheating on me, my money and my family. i provided everything for her and she was being ungrateful to me...
dont feel bad at all braddah. she was no good and its best despite the loss which can be recovered that she is out of your life. as far as the sg braddah (i mean bastard) that do this, well he will get his eventually because girl tramp like that will also do the same thing to him in the end. you need not worry just enjoy your normal current relationship and don't worry about the trash people of the past.
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Re: Cheated

Everyone does cheat in one way or the other in his/her lifetime as nobody is born perfect...what is meant to be urs will be urs...if not, juz fcuk it and move on
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Old 31-08-2009, 11:31 AM
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Bro, Here's one lesson, what's more important is whether u learnt. Life is full of different kinds of lessons. If one's life is smooth smooth all the way, one will never know the different tastes of living.
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Old 31-08-2009, 12:24 PM
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Re: Cheated

Well i will not used t word Cheat but......INVESTMENT

When u r in courtship u r will to spend times n $$$ in your own will no one force u to do so. At t end if she turn out to b yr GF or wife faithfully u gain or she turn to other ...u lost...cut cost immediately n move on. Of course u cant ask for money back in term investments.

In t 1st place if u think u do tat out of TRUE LOVE but too bad she turn to other guy.....
put in this way u r not good enough for her tat why she turn to other guy wish her well n happiness in her futures ....
Or she such a flirt n luckily u know it now.....$$$ spend take it as an lesson learned ....so move on...

Tat call game of love.....time will heal all wounds.....move on bro....
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Re: Cheated

Bro, move on... to forgive and forget is wiser than to be furious.
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