Sex with other people gf/wife

[Loveliz69]

Originally Posted by Lumiere7

thanks for sharing. I'm more interested in locals, mostly Chinese. not being racists etc, there's just something about conservative and grown up in local culture and customs. for them them to break the traditions of the previous generations, it's just quite a different feeling.

Nowadays gals are getting more liberal, so good luck to your search

[entering]

Originally Posted by Lumiere7

thanks for sharing. I'm more interested in locals, mostly Chinese. not being racists etc, there's just something about conservative and grown up in local culture and customs. for them them to break the traditions of the previous generations, it's just quite a different feeling.

Yeah I get that feeling, that kick.
But I avoid locals since I'm married to 1. Don't want to make the same mistake again 😅😅😅

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by Loveliz69

Nowadays gals are getting more liberal, so good luck to your search

Really ahh lovely sis...hard to believe leh......even in trains or buses, they r very careful not to zaogeng to any guy

[Lumiere7]

Originally Posted by Loveliz69

Nowadays gals are getting more liberal, so good luck to your search

I think I need to edit that entry, which was a continuation between my convo with ENTERING user. I was referring to mature women, who are above 40's at present.

even got PM from another user asking how to find these (presumed young) ladies)

[keano]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Not scolding you ah. It's just direct advice that people who know one another in real life may find hard to say it out. Regardless of your choice, keep us updated. Sbf is a safe space to share unfiltered thoughts.

I think this girl belongs to the group who are more interested in the wedding than the marriage. Many SG girls have this beautiful vision of how they get married (The Wedding, Dress, Venue etc). They just need to find a guy who is willing to be the groom.

Then after marriage they realised they are stuck with this guy forever (Marriage). The introverted husband should be introverted stay home type before marriage right? How come not an issue then? Because she needs a guy for her 'dream wedding' to happen maybe?

Sometimes it's good to have kids asap after the wedding. The marriage enters a different dimension once there are other people (the kids) to love. As the kids grow, every year will have its fresh experience (playschool, primary etc). Life maybe not so mundane. Without kids, every year feels the same after some time.

Well said. True true.

[Nekofear]

What if, hypothetically, your Wife/Gf is always horny that she wants sex at least 4-times a day and you cant give it after session 2?

She is so open that she allows you to visit callgirl just for sex on the condition you also allow men to fuck her(w/ condom on).

Will you be numb to such a feeling?
And how do you feel when you found out your friends fck your wife/gf when they showed you a pic of her on the bed(friend didnt know she was your girl tho)?

[1231231233]

Originally Posted by Nekofear

What if, hypothetically, your Wife/Gf is always horny that she wants sex at least 4-times a day and you cant give it after session 2?

She is so open that she allows you to visit callgirl just for sex on the condition you also allow men to fuck her(w/ condom on).

Will you be numb to such a feeling?
And how do you feel when you found out your friends fck your wife/gf when they showed you a pic of her on the bed(friend didnt know she was your girl tho)?

this actually sounds like what I went through with my wife's troubled past. like 90% similar

[manure]

Originally Posted by Lumiere7

how long has she been married?

Slightly less than 1y. But I have been working on fucking her for half a year before it finally happened.

[Petar]

Bro, more details pls. Got pics/vids? How u fuck her?

Originally Posted by manure

Have been reading this entire thread for the past few years and finally succeeded with some inspiration and tips from previous stories.

But never expect to be having sex with someone almost 20 years younger than me. Boy all these xmms can fuck really well these days omg.

[MDZY85]

Originally Posted by Nekofear

What if, hypothetically, your Wife/Gf is always horny that she wants sex at least 4-times a day and you cant give it after session 2?

She is so open that she allows you to visit callgirl just for sex on the condition you also allow men to fuck her(w/ condom on).

Will you be numb to such a feeling?
And how do you feel when you found out your friends fck your wife/gf when they showed you a pic of her on the bed(friend didnt know she was your girl tho)?

U pay to fuck girls while other guys fuck your wife for free…

[geckoSG]

Originally Posted by MDZY85

U pay to fuck girls while other guys fuck your wife for free…

That's a very good summary

I personally happy to meet any ladies who have that needs. not necessary young.
It is the thrill that makes it exciting and makes us craving for more.

[Shogun456]

Originally Posted by Laolucas

Was there a round 2, M and gf and you threesome? hehe

Haha, no threesome la bro, I also wish, but got 2nd part of the story. trying to find time to pen it down

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by Nekofear

What if, hypothetically, your (husband/bf) is always horny that he wants sex at least 4-times a day and you cant give it after session 2?

He is so open that he allows you to have (FBs) just for sex on the condition that i also allow (him) to fuck (other girls) w/ condom on.

Will you be numb to such a feeling?
And how do you feel when you found out your friends fck your (husband/bf) when they showed you a pic of him on the bed(friend didnt know he was your guy tho)?

I re-wrote what you shared by changing the sexes. So instead of you writing it, it becomes a girl writing about her sex-crazed husband/bf. Read it again and see how it feels like. To me, it feels like how ladies do complain to other ladies.

What I am saying is that the roles are reversed in your relationship. She sees sex as fulfilling a physical need without emotion. Like scratching an itch or when guys have fun outside before we go home to our wives.

You see sex as a physical act with emotional attachment. Like how many other ladies view it. You see her as your possession which should not be shared with others. Like how ladies expect the husband/bf to remain faithful to them.

If you can see the cause of your unhappiness, you can decide if you wish to take the steps to end the unhappiness.

Guys see sex as a release. I have hj/bj/fj outside. Try different ladies for different experience before going home. Definitely no love involved. We know the ladies cannot accept it so we try our best to not let them know (instead of us stopping our practice). She is playing the guy role in the relationship