Yep I know very well. If you're a 5/10 guy, you will not get 5/10 girls. You'll get 3/10 girls, maybe a 4/10 once in a while.
But bro........ beggars can't be choosers man. That's what you can get, you take it. Don't be like those fat girls you see online who think they deserve rich and handsome guys and think that average guys are gross. That's just delusional, unsightly and pathetic bro.
It's not like I don't understand. In his youth, a man is at his horniest, yet also most unattractive to women. All the traits that women like in men are at the lowest when you're young. Our youth is the most sexually frustrating parts of our lives, I believe this is something all men share.
This drive to improve himself to get girls is a very powerful force, but these days there's porn and easy access to FLs. It's actually a very common problem to get too used to them and ruin your motivation and therefore your life. I myself had that problem. I was a huge porn addict in my teens. I was a loser who couldn't get girls too, I lost my virginity to a GL hooker at the age of 24. I remember, I couldn't get hard at all even though she was really hot. I had ED at the age of 24. My dopamine receptors were just fried from years and years of porn. I quit porn cold turkey and eventually cured my ED, but then I got used to the hotness and easiness of FLs. Like you I couldn't stomach average girls after chionging for a while. However I woke up and decided this is not the life I want for myself, I didn't want to be a loser who has to pay for sex anymore. So I quit chionging cold turkey and worked on myself. At the start I had to settle for 5/10 or 6/10 girls and didn't like it, but I got used to them and started to enjoy them too. As I improved myself my results improved. These days I can get 7 and 8/10 girls regularly and I haven't looked back.
You have to know what's at stake here bro. If you keep having unrealistic expectations from FLs and you can't enjoy girls of your own level, you can't ever form a real relationship with a girl. How are you going to get a fwb/gf/wife? How are you going to procreate and continue your bloodline? You have to decide this is not how you want to live your life and quit. Of course this requires willpower, but that's what separates winners and losers in life bro. Nobody will help you at this, nobody cares about you, you have to do it yourself. Those who have willpower and discipline, will go out and achieve great things and procreate. Those who don't, will be losers for life and die alone. It's up to you which one you want to be.
And I saw your unwillingness to get therapy cos of fear of judgment. I'm sorry but this reeks of loser mentality bro. First of all, doing this can save your life. Think what's at stake. Would you rather get judged by a stranger, or be a loser for the rest of your life??? Secondly, don't think you're a special snowflake and nobody else has your problem. Do you know how many young men out there can't get girls and have FL addiction?? I was one too, and when I frequented GL in the past, guess what, there were many young guys too not just old uncles. And I bet professional therapists has dealt with way worse shit (sex offenders, murderers, drug abuse, incest etc etc). Seeing you would be like a GP seeing a flu patient; a total non-event.
Anw I've said enough bro. If you have enough willpower, you'll get out of this and thrive. If not, you'll live and die a loser. It's up to you.
Kudos to you @catlord for this no nonsense comment.
@Regretfulman, I understand your plight, but don't understand why you have to resort to FLs when you are single and have no responsibilities. You should follow the above advice and improve your dating skills. And women don't always look for looks alone. If you develop your personality and your physique and show that you have varied talents, it would definitely improve the number of your potential partners.
I first tried GL out of curiosity and frustration, but it was after my marriage. I was really stressed at work and my wife wasn't with me then due to reasons beyond our control. I had never had sex with anyone before marriage. I was frustrated with our plight and I went to GL twice in a space of a month. But I felt really guilty and didn't go there for several years after that. My wife was able to join me later, so everything seemed fine.
Then sometime after our first child was born, our sex life took a hit and I again felt this urge. It was only at that time that I discovered the various "domes" on sbf. I visited a lady in dome 2 first. She wasn't pretty, but I somehow wanted to explore all the domes. And I started feeling less and less guilty about it. I was bonking almost 1-2 new girls a week at one point. Finally I discovered I spent close to 12k in a year on FLs and random chicks on only fans. This was a huge jolt to me, and I decided to quit. Not to mention the associated stress of getting an STD from a BBBJ and passing it to my wife. Fortunately I was never stupid to do raw and tried to choose CBJ most of the time. Have been clear so far.
I haven't been completely successful at quitting, but now I only go to GL if at all I go, and only get a quick CBJ. I feel less guilty about that, and the frequency has reduced a lot (about once in 2 months). I am trying to revive my sex life with my wife, but she doesn't like to experiment beyond missionary. She doesn't even like giving me a BJ. I'm trying to occupy myself with work and improve myself by exercising, etc. Hope to quit this completely soon.
Kudos to you @catlord for this no nonsense comment.
@Regretfulman, I understand your plight, but don't understand why you have to resort to FLs when you are single and have no responsibilities. You should follow the above advice and improve your dating skills. And women don't always look for looks alone. If you develop your personality and your physique and show that you have varied talents, it would definitely improve the number of your potential partners.
I first tried GL out of curiosity and frustration, but it was after my marriage. I was really stressed at work and my wife wasn't with me then due to reasons beyond our control. I had never had sex with anyone before marriage. I was frustrated with our plight and I went to GL twice in a space of a month. But I felt really guilty and didn't go there for several years after that. My wife was able to join me later, so everything seemed fine.
Then sometime after our first child was born, our sex life took a hit and I again felt this urge. It was only at that time that I discovered the various "domes" on sbf. I visited a lady in dome 2 first. She wasn't pretty, but I somehow wanted to explore all the domes. And I started feeling less and less guilty about it. I was bonking almost 1-2 new girls a week at one point. Finally I discovered I spent close to 12k in a year on FLs and random chicks on only fans. This was a huge jolt to me, and I decided to quit. Not to mention the associated stress of getting an STD from a BBBJ and passing it to my wife. Fortunately I was never stupid to do raw and tried to choose CBJ most of the time. Have been clear so far.
I haven't been completely successful at quitting, but now I only go to GL if at all I go, and only get a quick CBJ. I feel less guilty about that, and the frequency has reduced a lot (about once in 2 months). I am trying to revive my sex life with my wife, but she doesn't like to experiment beyond missionary. She doesn't even like giving me a BJ. I'm trying to occupy myself with work and improve myself by exercising, etc. Hope to quit this completely soon.
Ya totally understand. Most of the FLs i met not even hot and i didnt even enjoy it. Just the thrill of getting new bonks with different FLs.
Just curious, do you even enjoy cbj? Even normal bbbj i have difficulty finishing lol.
Seems like a few bros here also wanna quit this lifestyle. Thinking of creating a group chat (must be anonymous though) for all bros as a peer support group. If anyone have any ideas/want to join can let me know.
If you have money, spend it on yourself and your family. Buy organic food, install filtered water for your family, etc to get healthy. Buy apple watch to monitor your health. Do exercise. Enrol in course to meet new friends.
Why waste your money in ML who think we are fools?
Ya totally understand. Most of the FLs i met not even hot and i didnt even enjoy it. Just the thrill of getting new bonks with different FLs.
Just curious, do you even enjoy cbj? Even normal bbbj i have difficulty finishing lol.
Seems like a few bros here also wanna quit this lifestyle. Thinking of creating a group chat (must be anonymous though) for all bros as a peer support group. If anyone have any ideas/want to join can let me know.
If the cbj happens like once a month and when you haven't released in one week or more, it is as enjoyable as bbbj to me But agree that the first time I had a bbbj it felt amazing. I'm just too scared of STDs.
If you have money, spend it on yourself and your family. Buy organic food, install filtered water for your family, etc to get healthy. Buy apple watch to monitor your health. Do exercise. Enrol in course to meet new friends.
Why waste your money in ML who think we are fools?
Haha i think with all the money i spent could have just went to tokyo and go for those premium syts. Instead punted it on middle aged prcs and dome 1 cum dumpsters. BAHAHAHAHHHA. I am a fucking joke.
A fool and his money will be parted. I am a fucking fool thats for sure.
Haha i think with all the money i spent could have just went to tokyo and go for those premium syts. Instead punted it on middle aged prcs and dome 1 cum dumpsters. BAHAHAHAHHHA. I am a fucking joke.
A fool and his money will be parted. I am a fucking fool thats for sure.
if you have the money, then go to tokyo. The key is good service. You only pay if you feel good. I guess my limit is reached. I won't pay and feel shitty.
WHAT THE FUCK BRO. FUUUUUUCK. What symptoms u have?
Of course expose la. This is for public safety eh. Imagine all those other bros raw and spread to their wifes. If you dont expose youre being a cunt and endangering everybody.
Wah you still here ah?
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Why you up me?
Why you zap me also?
Why you so preoccupied with the points?
Why you so like dat?
WHAT THE FUCK BRO. FUUUUUUCK. What symptoms u have?
Of course expose la. This is for public safety eh. Imagine all those other bros raw and spread to their wifes. If you dont expose youre being a cunt and endangering everybody.
Pain from urination, and white discharge occasionally.
Got a shot and also antibiotics alr... hopefully all should be good within 1 week...
Perhaps we should get a sticky thread up and running to share on which FL has std so that bros who visited can get tested?
Dont turn it will happen. Think about the interests of the stakeholders. Will result in loss of business for OKTs who are paying SBF for advertising. OKTs will confirm pressure sbf to not have such a thread.
Dont turn it will happen. Think about the interests of the stakeholders. Will result in loss of business for OKTs who are paying SBF for advertising. OKTs will confirm pressure sbf to not have such a thread.
that is one. another point is the std may no be from that particular mentioned fl as the symptoms not immediate. then u cause an innocent fl to lose ricebowl. then if the bro go many fl cannot determine who, u want to say all fl he visit have std ? cannot la... not easy this one
07-02-2023, 11:10 PM
But agree that the first time I had a bbbj it felt amazing. I'm just too scared of STDs.
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