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I feel that you will be back into chionging. Maybe in 5 years, or 10. I hope to be proven wrong. At your age, your conviction is strong. The world will keep testing your conviction. And it will push you and break you down. Your faith will not be spared. In your toughest moments, you WILL think about chionging. Maybe having this post here will remind you why you got out. OR, it will help to push you back into the scene. Also, your views on chiongsters will also change. Not all of us are totally depraved. Sex is a need to be fulfilled, and we cannot get that in our marriage/rs. You can ask what we will do if we get caught. We ask ourselves that every time. And we hope that the plans we have in place work. Until they don't. I am not trying to be unsupportive. But I am very skeptical. And over the years, I have seen many guys fall back into the scene. Often, they take a big blow and they fall over the edge in the worst ways. I hope this does not happen you ah. All the best.
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Putting aside the financial costs of doing this, I do not think anyone doubts the stigma and minefields that are associated with commercial sex, yet we do it. Why? A younger me might have agreed with you, as I have struggled with some of the dilemmas you describe. But over the years, I find that there is no point wasting energy grappling with the moral, cognitive, physiological dissonance, and I have already made peace with the fact that I do this, even if i already have a partner. I dont think it means that I dont love/care for my partner, I do, but she isnt able to satisfy a want that I have. Am I a depraved, twisted person? Leading a hidden life, two-faced? Maybe. But isnt that what makes us human? Everyone has flaws and skeletons in their closets. Why can people pay for a massage that rejuvenates their body, but it is immoral when men pay to fuck and release? Think of it another way, commercial sex is keeping many marriages and families together: the man settles his needs outside, comes home and be the loving husband/father even if the wife is not able/willing to satisfy him. End of the day, everyone is happy. |
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--Some questions to ponder--
When it comes to religion, is there a basis why things have to be done in a certain way? Is religion really the salvation of humanity when one is lost or does it brainwash the individual to follow without a self reasoning or even applying logical thinking. Then again, it is indeed easier to brainwash someone who has lost his path. The familiarties between all are sharing stories/teachings. Is it really something worth listening to or is the story/teaching twisted in a certain way to allow it to be more believable? How credible are the stories written by simply any individual that is unknown to one? Probably with some fancy titles and years in the service to make it sound even more convincing? Does this person truly needed any help? Or does he simply require a listening ear when secrets cannot be divulge to a familiar face? Are secrets being kept confidential or are they being held for exploitation by another? |
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But the difficulty of overcoming this addiction is not an excuse for me. Its like going to a drug addict and saying " I've seen 9 out of 10 drug addicts relapse, dont bother going clean". Anyways if i do relapse ill let you guys know here in this thread. Full accountability. |
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my wife used to be ok looking, after giving birth become sumo. snack and supper non stop. i always had a thing for fit looking girls or at least girls that look after themselves. am also thinking of enjoying out with some nicer looking girls. i myself workout so am in reasonably good shape. so i do envy you as you have a hot wife and maybe if i’m in your shoes, i may not be looking to explore out so often as i’m currently doing. having said that, i’ve only been out for ML and so far no FLs. have not brought myself to do commercial sex… yet. always feel like need to have some connection to enjoy sex instead of just paying to get laid. |
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Recommend going for a full blood test. Sometimes obesity due to bad hormones. But ya, if lazy , dont exercise and watch diet then bo bian. Be careful of trying FL bro. Once you get a taste of hot young syts, you can never ever get a hard on and bang your wife ever again lol. |
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TS just a young man. Seeing this just like seeing the past. Nevertheless still support his will to quit. |
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To live is to suffer haha
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.. But given the low quality of the market right now, i think got high chance can succeed hehe. |
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Support you, wishing you all the best. I hope you won't fall back into the wagon hard and fast again. My views are similar to leakypipes.
Don't take the others to heart, I think everyone here just had a lot of experience. Myself 10+ years in this forum, similar to your background, gone through a few cycles of testing/scares and deciding to quit. Had a few good years actually, no ML no commercial sex. Got into healthy relationships and didn't need so much external sex or validation. But also back to chionging because sex is a need. I'm actually looking to limit this year too, getting into other healthy stuff and not be fixated on sex. Good luck to both of us. |
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To get it quit one of the way is not too focus on quitting....物极必反.... |
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"Expectation" will lead back to old habbit...
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