Does your wife still have interests in sex?

[iceman111]

Originally Posted by Xfactor

Married for 22 yrs , yr 1-2 was great. Weekly clubbing and planning for exciting sexual session. Yr 3 onwards 1st born came along and we no longer sleep together. Sex session went down probably 5-6 session per yr and now 1-2 per yr.

My wife will nvr make the 1st move while I’m always the one planning out surprises and try my luck.
Back in 2009 manage to get her into 3some twice and after that she seems to be more open up but still our frequency didn’t increase.

Once her colleague send her back after some company dinner and drinks. For whatever reasons she accidentally press the last number she dial from her mobile and I could hear the conversation between her and her male colleague lol The conversation took me by surprise as my wife half tipsy was saying how creative I am and the 3some session was amazing. The guy on the other hand was shock to hear that as my wife look very decent and conservative.

When they each my place , there was a sudden silence for a long time and I decides to go down to the carpark to have a look and to my surprise both of them are engaging deep kissing and the guy hands was all over the place.
I went back home waited for my wife at lift landing area , when she came out of the lift , I immediately gave her a deep kiss and started flipping her tops and gave her tits a good lick.
I finished her off in my room while she was chatting w the guy that send her back After that session , I’m back to 3-5 times yearly lol

So based on the trends , I think my wife preferred surprises and ofcos need alcohol to wind down.

Lastly for the past 2 yrs I only manage to get 2 sessions even we see each other everyday due to covid WFM.

We will be having a staycation soon and I told her I will only go w her if there’s sex session lol she agreed and looks like I’m gonna plan a good one and making sure the bed will be soaking wet��Wish me luck ��

Wish you best of luck for your staycation.

With that incident with her colleague, she may have some follow up "activities" with him. Certainly he won't give up so easily since he thinks your wife is open for more.

[Xfactor]

Originally Posted by iceman111

Wish you best of luck for your staycation.

With that incident with her colleague, she may have some follow up "activities" with him. Certainly he won't give up so easily since he thinks your wife is open for more.

Thanks 👍 & yes 95% that will happen but for her that’s a once off as colleague has return back to his country.

[Xfactor]

Originally Posted by Wdl_guy

My plight is the same as your's. My sex drive is high n almost PCC or get a HJ daily. Wife utterly not interested in sex and don't need it at all ever since kids are born. When they are young, they sleep with us but now even when they are in pri sch n having their own room. It's still the same. I'm always the initiator. Sex is probably as much as I initiate. Tired of initiating therefore I go find FL , or spa for HJ. Rather hard to cum with helmet on thus not doing it. Haven't tried surprises method but am not too keen on 3some. Lol...

I’m not surprise many of us are in the same boat😂 There will be a stage where it happen it will happen. Having sex is harder than 4D for some lol
You should try to bring her out for drinks and see what happen next.
As for me , never tried FL , Massage etc before hence can’t comment on that. DIY still the way to go lol

[Xfactor]

Originally Posted by Scarletlove

Can I just say, while I believe men get turned on visually, women (or at least myself) get turned on when they feel loved and cared for!

My husband and I still have sex 2-3x a week on average, sometimes more. While that’s a far cry from daily sex during our first 2-odd years, considering the circumstances I count ourselves very lucky! But it’s only because I still feel very loved by him.

I noticed couples who have regular sex are more lovely and closed. For some they are more adventurous too.
IMP Sex and communication is the key for a good lasting relationship.

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by Scarletlove

Can I just say, while I believe men get turned on visually, women (or at least myself) get turned on when they feel loved and cared for!

My husband and I still have sex 2-3x a week on average, sometimes more. While that’s a far cry from daily sex during our first 2-odd years, considering the circumstances I count ourselves very lucky! But it’s only because I still feel very loved by him.

Congrats sis ! ..but envy u leh...wat a loving couple both u n yr husband r ...yrs is 1 of the v. few married couples who r still enjoying sex with each other 2-3 times per week ... actually can count by the fingertips...n wow, that's even just normal to u compared to the daily sex u had with yr husband in the 1st 2 yrs of yr marriage ...don't mind if I ask sis, do u hv any kids ???

Here is 1 simple advice to all married couples from sis Scarletlove...to get more sex with each other, husbands n wives shd always show n make each other feel loved n cared for ...T.Q sis for sharing ...hope more married couples will benefit from yr this sharing if they read it

[Wdl_guy]

Originally Posted by Xfactor

I’m not surprise many of us are in the same boat😂 There will be a stage where it happen it will happen. Having sex is harder than 4D for some lol
You should try to bring her out for drinks and see what happen next.
As for me , never tried FL , Massage etc before hence can’t comment on that. DIY still the way to go lol

Should try getting someone else to hj for you. Diy is boring after awhile. Need to squeeze some tits and zhut nips.