Married men come in

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by Rickey

Senior bro @Shadow_warrior ....if u can, pls help this poor little bro here to find a new soulmate for him ...seems like he is so cham like that ..haha

haha Senior, my situation is a drowning man who catches at a straw

Who can I save? I just fight from evolution to the next evolution.

but honestly bro, its not hard to find women in their 40s or even 50s who are not happy with their partner or single.

I don't go for 30s because they still talk about marriage and children, thinking they can start anew, which I will say HELL NO. I already went round the obstacle course.

Met some at casinos, met some at bars, pubs, discos. Not hard to find and they flirt with you as well.

Of course having some flamboyance is useful, but once you can show you are comfortable, they will get comfortable too. Once you catch the hook on what they are unhappy about or need, you become the solution provider, and it amounts to getting what you want.

[scuderia88]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

haha Senior, my situation is a drowning man who catches at a straw

Who can I save? I just fight from evolution to the next evolution.

but honestly bro, its not hard to find women in their 40s or even 50s who are not happy with their partner or single.

I don't go for 30s because they still talk about marriage and children, thinking they can start anew, which I will say HELL NO. I already went round the obstacle course.

Met some at casinos, met some at bars, pubs, discos. Not hard to find and they flirt with you as well.

Of course having some flamboyance is useful, but once you can show you are comfortable, they will get comfortable too. Once you catch the hook on what they are unhappy about or need, you become the solution provider, and it amounts to getting what you want.

Bro, you are 情场杀手。

So far I don’t have any luck fishing those 40s or 50s ladies. Maybe I don’t go pubs and bars. Salute you.

[tebangarden]

Grateful for any tips!

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by scuderia88

Bro, you are 情场杀手。

So far I don’t have any luck fishing those 40s or 50s ladies. Maybe I don’t go pubs and bars. Salute you.

bro, if you visit alot of places, you will find many. If you go to the sea to fish, you know the area, sure will get certain types of fish

I have my fair hit and misses, but I realised over the years, the idea to keep all your eggs in one basket is a crazy idea.

We don't do it for investments, our work, jobs, business, but yet when it comes to relationships we think we should. Problem is, relationships are a 2 person thing, sometimes 3, or more. No one is aligned at all times.

[scuderia88]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

bro, if you visit alot of places, you will find many. If you go to the sea to fish, you know the area, sure will get certain types of fish

I have my fair hit and misses, but I realised over the years, the idea to keep all your eggs in one basket is a crazy idea.

We don't do it for investments, our work, jobs, business, but yet when it comes to relationships we think we should. Problem is, relationships are a 2 person thing, sometimes 3, or more. No one is aligned at all times.

Bro, I take it offline to pm you.
Thanks bro

[bighead111]

Originally Posted by babyjohnwong

Then I really don't know
When we were still dating, she was like 49kg and it was tight but not like super tight like a virgin or teenager who started having sex

Several years down the road and after 3 Cs, all our children delivered by C, she was like permanently stuck at 68kg
And she was no longer tight in all different positions like she was when we were still dating
If I really want to feel tight with her, I can only choose a few positions such as doggy or cello, or sitting position with crossed legs (but this don't really give a deep penetration and could be tiring especially with her current size and weight)

If it is not caused by the pregnancies, then maybe it is her size then?
Hmm...

No idea man. Her size after 2 C, also around 65 to 70kg. But now slimmed down to 62kg.

Maybe our sexy time is less than yours so she felt pain and I felt tighter as didn't do as much?

My exgf last time always have sex, and i think don't feel as tight and easy to slide in and out. So maybe it's the frequency.

[Shadow_warrior]

As my ex used to say to me, married can divorce, in relationship can break up.

There is no such thing as together forever, sooner you get used to this idea, the better it is for the mind and soul.

[Rambotech57]

sometimes it not about looks or how good the sex.. is the time married and stay together too long and certain things wife had done that hubby might not agree with.. and all this small thingy and arguments strain the r/s.. And with lack of new excitement, and these unhappiness.. it makes manhood hard to have the mood also...even manage to cum.. man still fill the thirst...
guess this is just nature..

[Shadow_warrior]

let's be honest.

There are some that go out to cheat, its just who they are

Some people cheat because, they are hurt, disappointed, tired with who they are with

Some people cheat because somehow someone they met, didn't intend to start anything with, connected to, and found they have a strong attraction

Been around long enough to go through 2, and 3

[babyjohnwong]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

As my ex used to say to me, married can divorce, in relationship can break up.

There is no such thing as together forever, sooner you get used to this idea, the better it is for the mind and soul.

Even if together forever, it is still not forever
The saying goes... Till death do us part...
In the end, even if nothing parts them, death will
Hahaha