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Old 14-05-2022, 10:45 AM
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Single Staying Alone

Hi Single

How are you coping with your life?

I have start staying on my own. Single and staying alone.

It is really a different life compared staying with family. Even though I spend more time taking care of the house and myself, sometimes still feels a bit hollow inside.

Anyone feeling the same?
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Old 15-05-2022, 09:20 PM
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Re: Single Staying Alone

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Hi Single

How are you coping with your life?

I have start staying on my own. Single and staying alone.

It is really a different life compared staying with family. Even though I spend more time taking care of the house and myself, sometimes still feels a bit hollow inside.

Anyone feeling the same?
the feeling will get more overwhelming as u age.

I'm on my own since 1 decade ago.

Initally its exhilaration of being free and OTOT.

But over time as siblings and friends have own family and parents are old, the loneliness feeling will creep in and u will wonder what will happen when u r in twilight yrs, esp when u see old people around you being alone..

Brace yourself but enjoy as much as you can now.

YOLO.

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Old 15-05-2022, 09:24 PM
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Re: Single Staying Alone

You are not alone. There are many senior staying alone at new 2-room HDB flat
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Old 16-05-2022, 01:55 AM
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Re: Single Staying Alone

We all feel hollow cos no partner to complete us

Worry also no use. 今朝有酒今朝醉
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Old 16-05-2022, 09:35 AM
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Re: Single Staying Alone

I love staying alone.

Nights sometimes get lonely but most of the time I prefer the alone time.

I do have a son who comes over and hangs with me on a regular scheduled basis so perhaps that alleviates the loneliness a lot.

Even if I do get a partner, I’d still want to continue living apart. Upstairs downstairs would be good.
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Old 16-05-2022, 10:13 AM
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Re: Single Staying Alone

Been few months since I starts my "Stay Alone" Life.

Starts to get used to it. I can do my chores at my own timing. A bit more freedom than usual. Even though sometimes I feel a bit lonely. Time passes very fast once I find something to do.

Best of all, I can surf Sammyboy and porn openly in my living room.
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Old 16-05-2022, 06:51 PM
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Re: Single Staying Alone

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Hi Single

How are you coping with your life?

I have start staying on my own. Single and staying alone.

It is really a different life compared staying with family. Even though I spend more time taking care of the house and myself, sometimes still feels a bit hollow inside.

Anyone feeling the same?
The "hollow" feeling inside only exists because you aren't doing much with your time. Go work out, meet new people. If you have absolutely nothing to do, go visit your parents and/or loved ones. You can also consider getting a dog. At the very least, go play some co-op online games or something.

I've been staying alone since Dec 2017. Yea it does get lonely at times (especially after my dog passed away in 2020), but to be honest, loneliness is often a choice you make.

Also, its far better being alone than clinging onto toxic relationships. Celebrate your independence, and make full use of it. Remember dude, we only have one life. Don't waste it.

Best wishes.

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I do have a son who comes over and hangs with me on a regular scheduled basis so perhaps that alleviates the loneliness a lot.
Long time no "see" bro... didn't know you have a son now.

Hope you have been keeping well for the past few years. Take care and all the best.
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Old 17-05-2022, 04:50 AM
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Re: Single Staying Alone

Get a hobby or join some club to know some new friends. Or get a pet dog/cat. Find things to do to get yourself busy...maybe volunteering.
Go oversea for budget fuck. Learn to travel alone, then U can anytime go anywhere to fuck. If money is an issue, then work extra for it.
Dont think too much about it and learn to enjoy life. The most important is to have some savings and stay healthy.
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Re: Single Staying Alone

i loved staying alone.
the downside is, you gonna do all the chores by yourself.
every single bit of it.
spring cleaning is a nightmare
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Old 18-05-2022, 10:08 PM
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Re: Single Staying Alone

I used to stay alone. Love it... Do whatever I like n anytime. Nothing to do, just go for a drink.
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Old 18-05-2022, 11:07 PM
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Re: Single Staying Alone

Once in a blue moon i will feel like bring FL home
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Old 18-05-2022, 11:25 PM
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I used to stay alone. Love it... Do whatever I like n anytime. Nothing to do, just go for a drink.
As a single I also like to do things alone, eat alone but sometimes people will be judgemental like how come this fellow no friends or wife to accompany him. Single or married, we each have our own path. Neither path guarantees happiness to the end but we can choose how to play the cards we are dealt with, how to live our life as meaningful as possible.
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Old 20-05-2022, 09:52 PM
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Re: Single Staying Alone

Stay alone has full of freedom
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Re: Single Staying Alone

staying alone is a luxury in our little island with high property prices.u have your own place means u don't hv to compromise, u live as u like. when u feel alone, just think it's way btr than be unhappy with someone u don't hv a connection with, quite torturing to be in tht situation (think of people trapped in unhappy marriages).
when u hv time to feel lonely, its gd news means u can add more activities to your life be it meeting people by joining group events or just read a book u have no time to read,do that painting, cook that dish u always wanted to try out. If travel is within budget, go for it, don't be afraid to travel alone, it's really liberating u speak to more people than u otherwise would if travelling with companions. staying cheaply in hostels or camping isn't just for the v young. you can do it too. yolo be happy
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staying alone is a luxury in our little island with high property prices.u have your own place means u don't hv to compromise, u live as u like. when u feel alone, just think it's way btr than be unhappy with someone u don't hv a connection with, quite torturing to be in tht situation (think of people trapped in unhappy marriages).
when u hv time to feel lonely, its gd news means u can add more activities to your life be it meeting people by joining group events or just read a book u have no time to read,do that painting, cook that dish u always wanted to try out. If travel is within budget, go for it, don't be afraid to travel alone, it's really liberating u speak to more people than u otherwise would if travelling with companions. staying cheaply in hostels or camping isn't just for the v young. you can do it too. yolo be happy
It’s less about doing more activities and more about having the human connection. Without a partner there will always be something missing. Even Robinson Crusoe needs to talk to an imaginary person to stay sane.
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