31f in search of a m make out buddy

[autumnbreeze7]

I'm relatively new here and this is the first time I'm posting so please be gentle!

I'm looking for a regular make out buddy.
I'm ONLY interested in making out (i.e. hugging, kissing, caressing, licking, rubbing, dry humping/ grinding, cuddling, NO sex). Protected oral sex MAY be considered at a later stage.
I'm comfortable with making out outdoors (e.g. park, beach, cinema, car, NO public toilets and staircases) and in hotels. Our respective homes MAY be considered at a later stage.

The make out buddy should be interested in engaging in conversations and hanging out over non-sexual activities (e.g. dinner, movies, games, sports).
I will pay my share for all expenses incurred when we meet.

I'm looking for something somewhat regular (maximum 1-2 times a week, minimum once a fortnight, a few hours each time).
I'm NOT looking for a BF but will be happy to provide the GFE if there is strong chemistry between us and the BFE is given in return. This can be discussed.

Exclusivity will not be required but will be preferred. No double standards will be entertained. Asking for empathy and honesty here.

A little about myself:

• Early 30s
• Chinese female
• 1.6m
• 53kg
• C cupper
• Rather fair
• Shoulder-length black hair
• Not bad looking, don't expect me to be gorgeous though
• English-speaking but can speak mandarin too
• Looks icy but can be very passionate

Any thing else you'd like to know about me, do drop a message here/ privately.

Criteria for make out buddy:

• Aged between 28-38
• Chinese or mixed-race with Chinese blood male (I'm not racist, just have a preference when it comes to things like this)
• Preferably 1.72m or above
• Slightly built, lean or pudgy (as long as not too muscular, too skinny or plump)
• Average or above average looking
• Preferably English-speaking and must be eloquent
• Must be presentable (e.g. takes basic care in appearance, possesses basic table manners)
• Must understand the importance of RESPECT, EMPATHY, MUTUAL BENEFIT and HONESTY in such arrangements

Realised this has gotten kinda long. If you're interested, do leave me a message.

[NoNamePerson]

Hello there,

Im also relatively new here!

Ive drop you a pm. Hope to hear from you soon!

[priceteck]

Dropped you a PM. Hoping to get your reply soon.

[nameltneg]

Hey dropped you a pm...awaiting for the reply

[acidicavex]

How come so similar to another one or this is the new trend???

Good luck anyway

[autumnbreeze7]

Hi all who have messaged or who are interested,

I've gotten quite a number of messages so I'm just quickly browsing through them and their accompanying profiles at the moment before I really start shortlisting anyone. Hence, please be a little patient while waiting for my reply (may take up to a few days since I'm taking this seriously and I've got a life too).

Also, a few things to note:

1. If I've already rejected you (e.g. your age falls outside of the age range I've stated), kindly do not send me messages again. Please understand that priority obviously goes to those who CLEARLY state that they fall within the requirements that I've mentioned above. Appreciate you not filling up my mailbox at the moment.

2. Please, if you're going to message me, you don't have to send a long message but at least sound sincere (don't give me 1 or 2 sentences such as 'I'm SG chinese, let's meet up first'). You NEED to at least let me know how you fit at least most of my criteria for age and appearance AND that you've read all the other requirements (no sex, frequency of meetups, ok with conversation and chilling, agreeable to being exclusive at a later stage, being respectful, empathetic and honest). If you don't CLEARLY display you've read and are agreeable to everything, don't expect to get a reply from me. I wish I could reply to every single one but I don't have the time to and I don't see why I should be replying you to find out more when I've put in the effort to be very clear with my requirements on here.

3. Please do not expect me to whatsapp/ wechat/ line you for a chat if you don't even bother to state if you fit at least most of the criteria listed above. I'm getting quite a bit of responses, I don't have the time to chat with just anyone. Also, I do not give out my number so no whatsapp. I don't have Wechat too but I do have Line, which I'll share with you if you've been shortlisted.

4. Please do not ask for pictures. I will not be sending pictures, for obvious reasons. Don't worry, I don't look bad but I do understand looks are subjective so we'll arrange for a casual first meeting if you've be shortlisted and there would be no obligations to continue further if you do not like what you see or don't get "the feels". The only obligation would be to turn up if an arrangement has been made to meet up.

Not being stuck-up here. Just putting out some disclaimers here because I'm getting some really insincere messages and repeated messages and I will not want to reply to similar messages moving forward. Thanks.

[autumnbreeze7]

Originally Posted by acidicavex

How come so similar to another one or this is the new trend???

Good luck anyway

Thanks!

Is there another similar thread out there? I've only been seeing people looking for sexual liaisons (FWB/ FB/ SB/ SD). But I'm really new so maybe I don't know... Not sure if looking for solely companionship and making out is a new trend, I know I've been looking for this kind of arrangement for about a year else where but the experiences has been mostly disappointing so trying my luck here.

[tempedmw]

make out but no sex - eat too full? lol

[jazp]

Hi Breeze, I have sent you a message. Average looking guy here. Some say I'm good looking which I think i'm only average. That depends on what you think. Let me know if you're keen.

[JacqueMerlin]

Originally Posted by tempedmw

make out but no sex - eat too full? lol

haha... I was thinking of that too. But she don't have to worry, there are loads of fools in shiny armour knights hoping to get into her good books.
if she has to come here to get a man, then she must be desperate...

[savacheone]

Hi Ms AutumnBreeze,

Thank you for making your criteria so clear and concise. I like the way you present your views with confidence and clarity.

I will outrightly say here that I am a kindred who fits ALL your criteria and perhaps exceeds them, while abiding by your standards of limited intimacy. I would certainly love to provide a more detailed and elaborate response that is commensurate to the effort you have put in concerning this point of criteria and expectations.

Hence, may I suggest that you provide your email address? Your SBF mailbox is (expectedly) fully clogged with messages already. You can always start a new email address solely for the purposes of assessing the applicants here and we can send you pictures of ourselves as well: a picture speaks a thousand words, but actions speak louder than words (so hopefully, we can advance towards the action stage once attraction and chemistry is determined).

[Apollo]

Good luck ts, happy searching ...

[discreet32m]

hi, i am Roy, discreet enuf.
[email protected]

[autumnbreeze7]

Hi all interested parties,

My inbox is full and I've been notified that quite a number of messages are not going through to me as a result. I'm also already in the midst of my first round of screening. Hence, I would like to inform that I won't be accepting anymore applicants at the moment. Thank you for your interest, I really wasn't expecting this much response considering I looking for a strictly no-sex arrangement and have listed quite a few requirements.

[autumnbreeze7]

Originally Posted by tempedmw

make out but no sex - eat too full? lol

Yes, I'm very well-fed mister. Thank you for your concern.