How long did you not have sex with your wife or gf?

[nickric]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

the number of cases of unreasonable behaviour are rising for both genders..

i have a friend (gal) who was in very bad term with her husband, her husband is having an affair and she has been thinking of divorce because she cannot stand unfaithful husband. There was one day when she want to go out of the house her husband try to stop her from going out by grabbing her hand which left a few blue black marks on her hand. She made a police report and the police took a few photos of her blue black marks. One day she cannot stand anymore, she file a divorce as unreasonable behaviour by her husband with the evidence of her blue black marks. Ultimately this became an almost immediate divorce and she change her status to divorcee within months.

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by Rainman

Huh, A women's point of view is 300, man say 100.

I say if u put a bean into a jug every time u make love in the first year. Thereafter take out a bean every time u make love in year number 2......

U will not be able to empty that jug of balance bean for the rest of your sex love.

Just simple math....

Anybody don't agree???


Cheers

The 1st year would require a huge jug. From the 2nd year, the beans would comfortably start growing into a forest.

What is strange however, is that I have a FB which has gone way past 200 times and still going on strong.

[Oxford]

Guys, i have had enough of my wife's addiction on MMOPG. Few days ago i confronted her again on she neglecting me and the family. The argumentation turns psyhical as she punches me but i did not fight back becos if i do i will be in trouble. The last straw was trigger when she say that she did not ask me to marry her in the 1st place.... that's it, although our marriage was a consenting ones and happy one before her addiction to MMOPG. Base on that remark i knew that she is already hopeless. Wat's worse, she threw a cup at my head missing only by inches and the cup crash the wall behind my back and send debri flying in all direction.

I send her packing after that. She gone to my inlaw and after much pressure from my inlaw and my parent, i was ask to fetch her back, at my inlaw place i apologize even though i'm not at wrong and she behave as if i did something wrong and even threathen not to come back. In a moment of anger i tell her to go away for good as i dun need a wife who do nothing at home but playing MMOPG while i slog so hard at work.

Although i feel guilty even though i'm not the one who had a serious problem but i had to decide becos this is not the 1st time and her addiction is really a problem. Although i feel sad but i had to do wat a man had to do. be hard on her till she realize her mistake then i'll welcome her back. If not, then just too bad. I had double padlock my house door becos i knew she will come back while i'm at work to raid my house of all high tech toys and gift i bought for her.

It's so sad how a happy family can be shattered by the addiction of MMOPG game. by the way, the game is MAPLE STROY a freaking Korean game. Last i heard, there had been a few casese of broken family in Spore due to this game addiction. Stupid ppl... get a life!

[Oxford]

Guys, i have had enough of my wife's addiction on MMOPG. Few days ago i confronted her again on she neglecting me and the family. The argumentation turns psyhical as she punches me but i did not fight back becos if i do i will be in trouble. The last straw was trigger when she say that she did not ask me to marry her in the 1st place.... that's it, although our marriage was a consenting ones and happy one before her addiction to MMOPG. Base on that remark i knew that she is already hopeless. Wat's worse, she threw a cup at my head missing only by inches and the cup crash the wall behind my back and send debri flying in all direction.

I send her packing after that. She gone to my inlaw and after much pressure from my inlaw and my parent, i was ask to fetch her back, at my inlaw place i apologize even though i'm not at wrong and she behave as if i did something wrong and even threathen not to come back. In a moment of anger i tell her to go away for good as i dun need a wife who do nothing at home but playing MMOPG while i slog so hard at work.

Although i feel guilty even though i'm not the one who had a serious problem but i had to decide becos this is not the 1st time and her addiction is really a problem. Although i feel sad but i had to do wat a man had to do. be hard on her till she realize her mistake then i'll welcome her back. If not, then just too bad. I had double padlock my house door becos i knew she will come back while i'm at work to raid my house of all high tech toys and gift i bought for her.

It's so sad how a happy family can be shattered by the addiction of MMOPG game. by the way, the game is MAPLE STROY a freaking Korean game. Last i heard, there had been a few casese of broken family in Spore due to this game addiction. Stupid ppl... get a life!

[gilagila100]

Originally Posted by Oxford

Guys, i have had enough of my wife's addiction on MMOPG. Few days ago i confronted her again on she neglecting me and the family. The argumentation turns psyhical as she punches me but i did not fight back becos if i do i will be in trouble. The last straw was trigger when she say that she did not ask me to marry her in the 1st place.... that's it, although our marriage was a consenting ones and happy one before her addiction to MMOPG. Base on that remark i knew that she is already hopeless. Wat's worse, she threw a cup at my head missing only by inches and the cup crash the wall behind my back and send debri flying in all direction.

I send her packing after that. She gone to my inlaw and after much pressure from my inlaw and my parent, i was ask to fetch her back, at my inlaw place i apologize even though i'm not at wrong and she behave as if i did something wrong and even threathen not to come back. In a moment of anger i tell her to go away for good as i dun need a wife who do nothing at home but playing MMOPG while i slog so hard at work.

Although i feel guilty even though i'm not the one who had a serious problem but i had to decide becos this is not the 1st time and her addiction is really a problem. Although i feel sad but i had to do wat a man had to do. be hard on her till she realize her mistake then i'll welcome her back. If not, then just too bad. I had double padlock my house door becos i knew she will come back while i'm at work to raid my house of all high tech toys and gift i bought for her.

It's so sad how a happy family can be shattered by the addiction of MMOPG game. by the way, the game is MAPLE STROY a freaking Korean game. Last i heard, there had been a few casese of broken family in Spore due to this game addiction. Stupid ppl... get a life!

Bro ..

urs is the worst game addiction experience I heard so far...

However, I think the games r not to blame, I have frens tat knw their galfrens from MMORPG like Maple Story n Gunbound n etc ... n they r very happie together ...

It depends more on the individuals I believe ... I think ur wife (I m assuming both of u haven file for divorce yet) has some serious psychological probs ... Muz get professional help from counsellors or psychologists ...

I totally support u in the actions you've taken so far ... it hurts but its definitely the way to go ... anyway, for ppl wif addiction probs, it is also a known fact that these ppl hav some psychological probs ... as in if they r prone to other addictions as well (e.g. mahjong, gambling, TV, etc etc) .. its juz they dunnoe when to stop or limit it tat caused addiction ...

Wish you the best ... hopefully your wife will come to her senses ...

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by Oxford

It's so sad how a happy family can be shattered by the addiction of MMOPG game. by the way, the game is MAPLE STROY a freaking Korean game. Last i heard, there had been a few casese of broken family in Spore due to this game addiction. Stupid ppl... get a life!

I'm tempted to suggest Cosplay to lure her back... yah... I know it's stupid but maybe worth a try.

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by Oxford

Guys, i have had enough of my wife's addiction on MMOPG.

Omg! Bro your wife got a real serious addiction to the game...

[da dick]

that's not exactly the worst addiction. if she got addicted to gambling or some gigolo, your money will disappear damn fast...
what about addiction to message boards? hahahhahah.

[Teachme]

Just wondering about the brothers or sisters here if things have improved since u last complain abt very little sex at home? Any brother or sister who eat outside? I for one, a bit of improvement at home recently....I bought lingeria and the effect is much better....how abt the rest of you?

[evo3]

if the wife is already well past her 40s than i think she will not hungry for sex, maybe is bcos she need to focus more of her time on the children or maybe her sex desire is not that high and slowly it will fade off.
As for young couple I dont see any problem bcos most of them are very activte type when come to sex education

[tomandli]

if the wife is already well past her 40s than i think she will not hungry for sex, maybe is bcos she need to focus more of her time on the children or maybe her sex desire is not that high and slowly it will fade off.
As for young couple I dont see any problem bcos most of them are very activte type when come to sex education


a 40+ lady is more hungry for sex than a younger girl, and also more active than the young cpl, but , the husband alway refuse to have sex with them , why ? because they prefer younger girl.
Boy, when u live up to 40+ , u will understand.

[Mr Canon]

My wife's only early 30s but her sex drive had dropped 2 a all time low

[susuyamyam]

Originally Posted by klzombie

sigh...
I have since learnt my lesson, never never get a pretty gf/ wife (i am about to get married with her this year... sigh..). Get one who understand you, love you more, and accomodating. No need to get one with high intelligence too, no use!

....

Totally agree wif u. Wan a wife, get the one u can get along with. Not a pretty one who tortures u all the time man...... and u be their slave.

[Kyser Soze]

Originally Posted by susuyamyam

Wan a wife, get the one u can get along with. Not a pretty one who tortures u all the time man......

Quite right. Same frequency speaks a thousand words...

[eforbidden]

My wife and I are newly wed for less than a year. But due to her increased workload, she dun even have the mood to make love with me!!!! Being the caring one, I didn't push her for it, but inside my mind, I'm going crazy!!!!! Sigh..