Giving up my secretive cheongster lifestyle for good

[kinkyboy94]

Sometimes I really have such thoughts. It's a little complex to explain. Thoughts and emotions.

Not just me, you know?

What about the women themselves? Those I've fucked.

Before I continue, I'm also afraid that I may have sexual addiction.

How many of them are actually 100% willing to engage in the world's oldest profession/trade? Or, at the very least, they are willing to do it 50% on a voluntarily basis?

If not for the customer (i.e. me and so many others) paying them, would they even really want to let us fuck them in the first place?

I mean... The whole situation is complicated. I don't want to go into it. It's a deep rabbit hole.

Every time you enter a massage shop or whatnot, firstly, it's illegal for women, be it foreign or not, to offer sexual services in such establishments secretly. It's not illegal for the customer to engage per se (according to my research?), but then imagine you are so unlucky to be caught in the middle of a police anti-vice raid. You have to be detained (probably/possibly as a witness since a crime OR crimes have actually been committed on the premises). They'll take your statements and all, etc...

Heard stories (idk how true) that you may also have to go down to the station. In handcuffs or not, I'm not sure. I presume that by default, the SPF officers won't cuff you. I don't think they really need to do that. Just be cooperative towards them, and that would be greatly appreciated by them, especially when the assigned IO and whatnot are going to conduct their own investigations. HOWEVER, obviously it's not a good idea to start getting aggressive and overly defensive, when the police "escort" you back to their "house" :P ... You don't want to go from "no charges" to "having charges". That isn't wise.




Okay, sorry for rambling a little. Sometimes I go a little off-tangent, I kinda admit. What I was gonna say was that, yes, if you're caught as a customer in a raid, all the people in the premises all have to be brought down to the police station. It's not illegal to be a customer engaging in commercial/paid sex in the eyes of the law of our country. I HEARD that the detaining officer will contact your wife (if you're married); or if not, your own parents (if you're single). If your parents are no longer around, maybe it's like a sibling. If you have no siblings, maybe the closest other relative? I really dk how the whole process works. It's embarrassing to be in a situation like this for sure, lol.

I would like to relate an incident that happened before covid. I think it was some time during the year 2018. Basically, to sum the story short, I booked 2 ladies (one after another) at the same hotel. It was like at some high-class hotel in the Orchard area, I think? After when I was done and at the (you know) the umm.. place to wait for taxis or for your PHV driver to pick you up... There was actually a local Indian uncle security guard who approached me. I really didn't expect him to walk up to me. I also do have some anxiety issues myself also, but that's not really the main point.

So, I just kept pretending to pay no heed or attention to him laaa.. But it's like one of those situations whereby I pretend to look at my phone.. Or look away.. But my eyes still darting around.. And really to confirm he was going to approach me.

So, he asked me why I was seen at the corridors of 2 different levels of the hotel, probably by and under the CCTV cameras somewhere. He was also enquiring on why I had to spend almost 3 hours in total in the hotel, as a visitor.

On a side note, I actually did consider cancelling the second booking after my first one. But I felt bad. (I even told the first girl that I felt bad if I were have to tell the next one that I would kindly like to cancel our appointment).

Anyways, back to the story... So yeah, at first, I was trying to concoct or make up some sort of lame-ass excuse. I said something like there was a party somewhere in the hotel, and that I was attending it. Upon hearing this, the security guard then asked me where the party was located at. Maybe at first I said "top floor" or "roof top" or something like that. But anyways, I know I can't lie anymore, in an attempt to get out of this potentially sticky situation. (At that time, it really felt like I was getting into some hot soup)

After some back and forth (where both of us were actually quite cordial and friendly with each other; he was stern, but that just was about it.. and I understand that he was just doing his job.. especially after he was made aware of a possibly "suspicious individual" located in the hotel premises), I just told him the truth lor. I said that I actually booked 2 ladies. He asked me from where. I said that it was from a website. Then, he jokingly said "young man, you so power ah"... Before he finally left me be, he asked one final question about which 2 rooms these women were at. But I told him that I really couldn't tell him that. He didn't press further.

I understand it could have ended up much worse. But yeah, that's my story, and there's nothing more to say.




CAMERAS

I'm a little apprehensive and worried that certain premises we go to, they actually have cameras. Even in a "seedy" massage/spa shop.. But actually, one time, there was this girl who rented a condo room. She straight up told me that in the main areas of the whole unit (obviously and of course not inside the individual rooms itself and thankfully the room I was in had an en-suite bathroom), there are actually secret cameras all around. Actually, the moment the front door is opened for you and you enter, your face and appearance and all is already straight up captured by the cameras.



Worried-looking neighbours in residential areas (condos, HDBs, apartments, etc..)

There was once in a condo, it just so happened that the neighbours also saw me. If I do recall, I think they were a couple, with kids too. I noticed that the wife shot me a look of... um, idk how to describe la.. Maybe a look of consternation or worry. It's like the face where "she perhaps felt a little unsafe but was also wondering who am I, and also how come recently there are other strange men coming in at different times of the day (and maybe even during odd hours)..

I shall end my ramblings here, for now...

[owenfang]

For me I’m trying the person who came here to work. Is tough working here in Singapore.

[fangy]

Just go to the legal houses in Geylang lah

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Originally Posted by kinkyboy94

I shall end my ramblings here, for now...[/COLOR]

When I was 13, I fucked my first maid, and it was good for a year but contract ended, then she went back.

Fucked my parent's second maid, for a while, then suddenly she told my parents I rape her. That time I was 14-15 but I managed to tell a story and also fortunately, my grandma also told the same story, about how I wasn't at home and I was at her place (which was true cuz I was there after lunch), so my parents didn't believe the second maid and sent her home.

Then I learnt from there, must leave clues to show that I didn't rape them, so started to fuck the 3rd maid, but always thinking of back up, in case she also accused me of rape. So, must learn to think of ways to explain out of situations, when you get caught.

Then I went on to fuck many girls, but before wedding day, I entered this competition where I was assigned a make up artist. Ended up fucked her and during wedding dinner, the 2 days, I booked a room for her, so whenever I'm free, I go to fuck her. She also did my wife's make up for the photo shoot (which was a few months back). Learnt to manage different rooms, fucks, efficiently and effectively.

Then my wife travelled a lot for her work. Anytime she flew, I'm with the make up artist.

After that I stopped for a few years cuz busy with work, then I hooked up with my boss and always have to tell my wife, I've to go meet my boss. So, learnt must think ahead of the story, so that when I need it, I've a sequence to execute, so that it is coherent.

Then I got posted to China and for 5 years, I did nothing cuz I don't like China girls.

Then I was in Surabaya, where a girl got pregnant, but fortunately, she aborted. If not, I think the child will be about 8 years old now and I've to think about how to explain to my wife. From then on, I don't CIP unless it's menses.

Surabaya, then Cambodia, I also found out I was addicted to sex. Must fuck everyday plus many days, fuck 3 different girls at different time of the day. And the security at my condo in Cambodia knew about it, and it was troublesome because, the laundry lady, who I frequent her laundry shop many times in a week in front of my condo and the ambassador's wife cannot know I was doing both of them (plus teachers from other international school, who were threatening to report me, cuz they found out I was fucking various teachers, who are their friends, from different school). Plus the laundry lady, and some of the girls I know, are friends with the guard.

So from then on, I always made sure the girls don't know each other before I make a move. And I have to bribe the guards with baby clothes (cuz his wife just gave birth), Ang pows etc, so he will always personally send the girls up to my unit, without problems.

Then come back to Singapore, I like to fuck but need excuse, so turned out classes, tuition, drive Grab are the excuses. But weekdays, I fuck a few times, weekends, some times over Saturday and Sunday I can fuck 4-5 times with different girls. The excuses are always either I'm going out to drive Grab, or I've class.

So, just telling you, I always wanted to quit, but like my close friend (who has lots of girls too, but he's single), we can't quit. We just love sex too much too, to the point that there was once I really felt I had a serious sex addiction.

So, just have to think of ways to deal with the risk and set some perimeters of safety.

Example, I've a 22 year old Malaysian assistant but I've reached the zen level of giving zero sex vibes when I know, I can't prospect her.

Or now, when I chat with girls on apps, I've strict criteria for them to show that they're safe to be with. Like my 4 part time maids, who come to my house to clean, they won't tell.

So, you just have to sit down and think about the risks and work out a plan. And just in time for 2025 goal setting and planning.

[fangy]

Say addicted to sex but in China for 5 years and did nothing 🤔
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[fortworth]

Thanks for sharing nice story.

[denton]

Hope to read more updates.

[hondaengine]

Camping here.

[callawaypro]

Thanks TS for sharing nice updates.

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Originally Posted by fangy

Say addicted to sex but in China for 5 years and did nothing 🤔
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Hahaha cuz I fucking hate china women. Dislike them to the core.

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Not a story sharing session, just answering OP's rant.