Wife who neglected husband and lost interest in sex

[rajjnu]

https://www.straitstimes.com/asia/ea...in-south-korea

[StealthBomber]

Originally Posted by rajjnu

https://www.straitstimes.com/asia/ea...in-south-korea

They only count sexless marriages as the married couple not having sex with each other, but it does not mean low sex drive; the hubby can be getting his sex fix with other ladies outside

In any case, tldr from the news article, look out for potential causes of this problem.
1. Kid arrives
2. Poor choice of sleeping arrangement, whereby the kid sleeps in the parents room and worse, on the parents bed.
3. Both parents working and tired by the time they get home.

So if problem can be nipped at (1) then in theory the whole issue about sexless marriages will not occur? Would be interesting to hear from married but childless couples whether they manage to keep their sex lives active till 40s and 50s beyond?

[ejectjoy]

Originally Posted by jgosh80

Communication only works in textbook theories.

If a woman has no sex drive, u tok until lanjiao drop off also no use. Only make the wife angry, defensive, agitated, upset or piss off.

I totally agree no point talking to wife cos only worsen the situation. It a very common scenario in most sporean households especially with sporean women. Maybe the younger gen girls diff and they more open and enjoy sex but definitely the female millennials and above are generally quite sexless.

I believe if the husband and wife have a loving relationship, communication will certainly help. More so if you have common religious belief. Once married, your body is not your own. You have a responsiblity towards each other.

Some causes of low sex drive and lack of intimacy can be overcome. I know of several couples who have regular sex into their late 50s and early 60s. The desire may diminish when menopause set in. Sensual touches can still trigger desire. It helps, if the couples were former sports persons or exercise regularly.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by StealthBomber

They only count sexless marriages as the married couple not having sex with each other, but it does not mean low sex drive; the hubby can be getting his sex fix with other ladies outside

In any case, tldr from the news article, look out for potential causes of this problem.
1. Kid arrives
2. Poor choice of sleeping arrangement, whereby the kid sleeps in the parents room and worse, on the parents bed.
3. Both parents working and tired by the time they get home.

So if problem can be nipped at (1) then in theory the whole issue about sexless marriages will not occur? Would be interesting to hear from married but childless couples whether they manage to keep their sex lives active till 40s and 50s beyond?

This guy can bang away to make a new baby while his two existing offspring are on the same bed!

https://leakav.com/videos/612/jipeycraoz/?play=true

[donut88]

Many divorces happened around the time wives get menopause ans hubbies don't understand why no sex from wives.

They got frustrated and thought they no longer love each other.

It's a hormonal issue arising from menopause that's something we can't do about it.

I learn the meaning of "give and take" saying from old generation. It's really learning to give in and understanding the other party's issue.

If I want outlet, I just do. I also need to take care of my own needs and mental health.

No one should expect hubby to be a monk

[kukuchai]

Originally Posted by Sunwon

Better to sit down and have a nice honest chat with her..

BTW, before that, she high, med or low in liking sex? Then the answer may be there

Before she willing to have sex but quite conservative and will ask me to stop when she get too high and about to squirt. But even before she seldom initiate for sex and mostly driven by me.

[jerko121075]

Women usually lost interest with their own husband due to family and work stresses. If u are her punching bag, good luck trying to fuck her. Women need buildup to sex meaning relationship must be good before sex can happen, i.e. romantic, gifts etc, work her mind and emotion before sex. Men is different, sex comes first then all else follows.

Many men would say their wife avoid doing things like BBBJ during sex, but the moment they find outside soul mate shoot inside her mouth she also ok.

[AUDIFANSG]

My wife has a healthy sexual appetite before our first kid. Once give birth to first kid sex drive goes down by 99%. We still have sex but it is 100% initiated by me and frequency goes down a whole lot. And she no longer feels aroused in nipps, vagina etc. I am sole breadwinner and we have a nanny and maid, so its not like she is 100% busy the whole day. Very sianz and been going to ML a lot.