In love with a KTV Viet gal, need help

[zhu star]

TS:

Not all Viet KTV girls are really that bad. Yes, to them their family come first. In fact all Asian women think that way too. There are some really nice and good Viet girls out there. My one does not asked a single cents from me. There was once she even lied to me that she is going home to Hanoi to see her family but in reality she went to Hcmc to see doctors for surgically. During that time, if she wants, she could have easily asked me for monies for her medical needs.

Just do what you think is correct for yourself. There is no such things as Right or Wrong. No one in SBF can actually tell you what to do. You can only blame yourself for picking the wrong girl to be your wife or vice verse you can also congrate yourself for picking a very understanding wife.

[Mr MCBB]

Originally Posted by zhu star

Just do what you think is correct for yourself. There is no such things as Right or Wrong. No one in SBF can actually tell you what to do. You can only blame yourself for picking the wrong girl to be your wife or vice verse you can also congrate yourself for picking a very understanding wife.

Its takes one with life's deeper insights to be able to quote what you have just said my dear friend Nice one there

[happy000]

In another word - You will be responsible for whatever decision you make, whether good or bad. What people tell you is just advice which they are not reponsible for. Advices are cheap and abundance in supply.

Originally Posted by zhu star

TS:

Just do what you think is correct for yourself. There is no such things as Right or Wrong. No one in SBF can actually tell you what to do. You can only blame yourself for picking the wrong girl to be your wife or vice verse you can also congrate yourself for picking a very understanding wife.

[zhu star]

Originally Posted by happy000

In another word - You will be responsible for whatever decision you make, whether good or bad. What people tell you is just advice which they are not reponsible for. Advices are cheap and abundance in supply.

We tend to condemn the whole lot when we have bad experience with just one of them or vice versa. Take my bro for instance, who was already in his late 40 when he fall in love with a PRC girl. All my aunties, uncles, including my own mother were strongly against his relationship stating: monies sucker etc........ as reasons. I simply told my mother: my bro is no more young and despite his qualification as a division manager with a major MNC company, he still cannot find a local girl to settle down. We should let him decide what he wants. Are they going to be responsible if he can't settle down?

Originally Posted by Mr MCBB

Its takes one with life's deeper insights to be able to quote what you have just said my dear friend Nice one there

Thank you. Please do not get me wrong, like all bros here, I do meet all type of girls when I cheong. I am lucky in the sense that majority of the Vbs I know and close to me tend to be very understanding type. Despite the facts that many of them are in deep shit trouble back home with all kind of financial problems, they never once asked me for help. A lot of times I even offered to help them but was turned down flatly.

Senior bros here will know that in all my ten years with Vbs I only really fall for 2 girls. The first one who is now holding a 'ex' status is a monies sucker. Every thing she own or want must be branded: eg. top of the range mobile phone, must eat at high class restaurants. Even must bring her to golf course equiped with the best equipments. Every time during CNY she will asked me for monies to help her mum to paid her ah long debt. The last amount she asked from me was USD12,000.00! (Yes, the figures are correct and your eyes is not playing trick on you) My other girl is completely reversed, once I remembered bringing her to a high end Vietnamese restaurant to eat. When she saw the prices in the menu she was really unhappy cos the prices are 3 times higher than those in JC. That was the one and only time I ate with her in these restaurant.

In life, one must sometimes make critical decision. It all depends on what we wants, some wants Vbs for companionship (that me) some stricitly for bonking purpose. For TS whatever decision he make, just go ahead and have the time of his life

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by happy000

Advices are cheap and abundance in supply.

"Advice" is a non countable noun; you do not add an "s" to make it plural.

"Advice" is like "Rice". You say... "Please pass me the Rice." You don't say "Please pass me the rices" because "Rice", like "advice", is a non countable noun.

There are many other examples. To test your knowledge of non countable nouns, go to English Language Quiz - Countable or Non-countable Nouns (I-TESL-J) and take the test.

[happy000]

Thank you Boss for your lesson in English grammar.

After leaving school for so many years, you just forget all the rules on using proper grammar. My apology.

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

"Advice" is a non countable noun; you do not add an "s" to make it plural.

"Advice" is like "Rice". You say... "Please pass me the Rice." You don't say "Please pass me the rices" because "Rice", like "advice", is a non countable noun.

There are many other examples. To test your knowledge of non countable nouns, go to English Language Quiz - Countable or Non-countable Nouns (I-TESL-J) and take the test.