Finding a FB in SBF ! Is it a disaster in the making or a blessing in disguise ?

[Ravenzou]

If one did found one FB here in this forum, then the reason or point of this relationship is clearly lay out = purely sex + some communication.

The purpose of this forum is a SEX so if he/she enter here does not know the meaning then good luck but on the other hand we are human and have emo so one has to handle it correctly.

[tapin]

Originally Posted by Ravenzou

purely sex + some communication.

The purpose of this forum is a SEX so if he/she enter here does not know the meaning then good luck but on the other hand we are human and have emo so one has to handle it correctly.

True this is a sex forum , its enter at your own discretion and if anything happens it out of your own free will . FB relationship is like any other relationship ! proper handling is always needed if not more to maintain it .

Originally Posted by bengeo

Been there ,done That but no feeling of striking toto le. But it is a win-win for both of us.
Now looking for another one.lol

True , but if you look at the many that had not experience it like you . You cannot agree that you are lucky shit .

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by bengeo

Been there ,done That but no feeling of striking toto le. But it is a win-win for both of us.
Now looking for another one.lol

Originally Posted by tapin

True this is a sex forum , its enter at your own discretion and if anything happens it out of your own free will . FB relationship is like any other relationship ! proper handling is always needed if not more to maintain it .

True , but if you look at the many that had not experience it like you . You cannot agree that you are lucky shit .

What bro tapin said is very true bro . Good luck in looking for a new one !

[ConsenualLust]

I had a FB that is active in here once . She was my first actually , I told her , its okie to see other people in here as long she tell me . I gave her free play but she did not give me the basic respect . She lied to me , and worse of all she was bedding guys like addiction . When I asked her about it , she conveniently deny everything when i had rock solid proof . I dumped her . She went on a lying and rumours spreading spree about me . Till now she think I don't know , its just that I don't want to confront her cos what matters most is what my friends think of me . my friends in here know me better and they trust that i am not that kind of a person cos they themselves know her personally and know what she is capable of .

[HunterJ]

I personally feel, even if this is a Sex Forum, doesn't everyone needs and wants to have sex? Within the Maslow Hierarchy of Needs, the 1st and foremost thing to fulfill is physiological needs, which is the basic needs (food, water, sex, etc.). And doesn't mean that being here "labels" someone as Unfaithful, Horny, Slut, Bastard, or any other indecent meanings about an individual.

Finding a FB in SBF, is a blessing, IF you are looking for one. But, if you are just surfing around, sharing thoughts and experiences, looking for information, I believe it is a disaster in the making.

One must be prepared for what is coming ahead, most importantly know what you are doing !! Putting your head into something you are not prepared for, means digging a grave for yourself. I once had a FB years ago, everything started so suddenly, and ended peacefully. Till now, I am still very good friends with this girl, but yet to try if she would like to continue the FB relationship.

No matter what, be responsible for everything we do, treat people with respect, every relationship will have a feeling in it, so good luck !! =D

[Reoxy]

Originally Posted by HunterJ

And doesn't mean that being here "labels" someone as Unfaithful, Horny, Slut, Bastard, or any other indecent meanings about an individual.

I hope I am not the only Horny, Unfaithful, Indecent Individual Bastard surfing this forum...

Originally Posted by HunterJ

Finding a FB in SBF, is a blessing, IF you are looking for one. But, if you are just surfing around, sharing thoughts and experiences, looking for information, I believe it is a disaster in the making.

I \TOTALLY do not understand this portion. How can it be a disaster in the making if all one does is surf around sharing thoughts and experiences and looking for information?

Well probably because I am a Horny, Unfaithful, Indecent Individual Bastard.

[HunterJ]

Originally Posted by Reoxy

I hope I am not the only Horny, Unfaithful, Indecent Individual Bastard surfing this forum...



I \TOTALLY do not understand this portion. How can it be a disaster in the making if all one does is surf around sharing thoughts and experiences and looking for information?

Well probably because I am a Horny, Unfaithful, Indecent Individual Bastard.

LOL !! You are not alone bro !! hahaha....

What I meant is, if I only want to surf around sharing thoughts and experiences, but implicated myself with a FB, then it will be a disaster. So paiseh, couldn't make myself clear..

[sjb1994]

Originally Posted by Reoxy

I hope I am not the only Horny, Unfaithful, Indecent Individual Bastard surfing this forum...

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Dun worry bro, you are not the only one. At lease there is still another one - me.

[BiRd13]

Originally Posted by sjb1994

Dun worry bro, you are not the only one. At lease there is still another one - me.

Count me in as well...

[pro.d.igy]

This post may rub some folks here the wrong way...

Why do you guys automatically think that a FB means the relationship is exclusive? If you manage to find a FB here, why not lay down the terms somewhere along the way so that both parties won't lose track of the arrangement? If one were to demand exclusivity, why not find a GF in the first place? Your FB does have the right to have other FBs if you didn't state your intentions clear in the first place...

Another thing which I agree with is that do not automatically assume that all female samsters here are either:

1) FLs
2) Looking for FBs
3) Easy target

They might be here to find out more information about the opposite sex (which is us), that's all.

[Apocalypse]

Originally Posted by pro.d.igy

This post may rub some folks here the wrong way...

Why do you guys automatically think that a FB means the relationship is exclusive?

re: its is an assumption that is constantly trying to prove itself wrong. Even if it is exclusive, there will always be a doubt that it is truly exclusive.

If you manage to find a FB here, why not lay down the terms somewhere along the way so that both parties won't lose track of the arrangement?

re: there is a famous saying "rules are meant to be broken". At the start of every, everything is fun and novel, rules even if they exist are easily complied with. later on, it will really depend on the maturity of the 2 person.

If one were to demand exclusivity, why not find a GF in the first place? Your FB does have the right to have other FBs if you didn't state your intentions clear in the first place...
re: yup. eventually the FB r/s ends before you get a question "do you want me or your gf/wife" after the nights of wining and dining.

Another thing which I agree with is that do not automatically assume that all female samsters here are either:

1) FLs
2) Looking for FBs
3) Easy target

They might be here to find out more information about the opposite sex (which is us), that's all.
re: verification always comes after info gathering.

FL - freelance sex trade. trade = bartaring. so to disassociate the emotions, by treating your FB as your personal FL (since she is not your full time paid mistress), you buy a little gift for your FB everytime you visit her, so you can say that you paid her nevertheless. if it cost $150 for a session, likewise you can buy a sk2 cream for her for $95. There is no loss.

Easy target - The rabbit, the zebra, the wilderbeast, the ox, the elephants, none of them are easy targets. There are just good hunters or bad hunters, and no easy target.


just my 2 cents.

[kragb]

Having interacted with many bros here, I think there are frankly 2 school of thoughts:
1) Opt for commercial arrangements (FL, GL, etc.) as its cleaner and less likely to leave trace (note, its not leave no trace... but lesser chance). Most likely, the guy being the client is the initiator and would not be expose to sms-es out of nowhere.

2) Opt for FB as its creates familiarity and better connection/understanding to allow hgher level of satisfaction. Issue is, there is an expiry period irregardless of how "satisfied" either party can be and usually wont last that long (few months to 1 or 2 yrs max). Being equal standing and not client/server mentality, both parties are subjected to be receiving phone calls or sms, etc. Highly unsafe means for married guy or gal.

Most cheapo or despo guys (plentiful in SBF as you can see fom the postings) see FB as a cheaper means of getting their fixes. That is also the reason why many never ever will have FB! Just look at the way they reply or post... would any gal worth their salt and in right state of mind want them? Bros like jasdude and IK hav seen too many of such cases and can probably laugh them off on a daily basis. Right? hahahaa.... me too by the way...

[TheGreatOne]

bros, focus is the word here...

FOCUS - the key word here is FB, meaning Fuck and Buzzoff. Isn't it what you are seeking in the 1st place? So who cares if she fucks you then him then another him? Or you managed to hook up another FB or call FL, who cares?

If you're treating him or her as a gf or bf, then you're completely missing the point of looking for FB in the 1st place.

FB = not official status.

And don't give that holy mackerel high moral statement like respect each other etc. You don't regard her as sex tool doesn't mean she don't.

my personal views

[libraboy]

Originally Posted by zacarie

Tt's good for u then. I gave mine to him cause i cant stand him constantly asking'so? Any new PMs?' so just gave it. but even after he had it. it wasnt any better cause whenever there was a new pm can tell he wasnt happy bout it at all..

And i doubt u could have forced her as well. u cant possibly say 'give me ur pw so i can check on u' right? Quite curious.. how did u know she gave it to u willingly? And not just for the sake of giving?

and since u said u both have agreed on being exclusive to each other. y did she still have to give it to u? did u make her feel tt u dont trust her?For mine. i felt tt way. so gave it to him after too many qns asked.

Just wondering if ur ex felt the same way i did. and what cause her to want to end it? Hope u dont mind my qns..

I think the question is.. Being FB.. Should we be having exclusive rights to just one another and our partner only? I think being FB should not restrict or control like how they control their gf.. Though female join sammyboy forum.. Some might be for info.. And read up.. Or find FB .. There is multiple reasons for joining.. I think trust need to be there.. Be it partner or FB.. I felt it is the same..

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by kragb

Just look at the way they reply or post... would any gal worth their salt and in right state of mind want them? Bros like jasdude and IK hav seen too many of such cases and can probably laugh them off on a daily basis. Right? hahahaa.... me too by the way...

BINGO ! well some really hits you at the spot ! you don't know to be angry or laughing why they are so like that . YES a few of us are very critical to them but only to the dumb , the super desperadoes and the cons ; not to the sincere .