May 2012/Couples-only - Meet & Greet session. Soft-Swing, Hard-Swing & Newbie couples

[sincity2005]

Originally Posted by bail1234

All the best in the event SinCity2005

thank dude. everything is set n ready for this Fri.

the Host has prepared n standby a few tantalizing fun games to kickoff for Round 2. Including The Avengers theme kinky game. will not give away any spoilers for now

he is reverting back to the Old School way of swinging, where he learned from the old-timers swingers back then in the early 2000s, who showed him how to break the ice even further to warm the couples up n slowly let the fun takes over & everyone has a happy story to share, instead of just nose-diving n jumping straight into it which often leads to performance anxiety especially for newbie males.

The host will try his best to make both Round 1 n 2 a fun one for all the rsvp couples!!

he may not be able to please everyone but he will die trying..ok?

The telephone line is closed for now. PM received after today, i will keep you posted for next event in june...ok?

the Host

[bail1234]

Originally Posted by sincity2005

thank dude. everything is set n ready for this Fri.

the Host has prepared n standby a few tantalizing fun games to kickoff for Round 2. Including The Avengers theme kinky game. will not give away any spoilers for now

he is reverting back to the Old School way of swinging, where he learned from the old-timers swingers back then in the early 2000s, who showed him how to break the ice even further to warm the couples up n slowly let the fun takes over & everyone has a happy story to share, instead of just nose-diving n jumping straight into it which often leads to performance anxiety especially for newbie males.

The host will try his best to make both Round 1 n 2 a fun one for all the rsvp couples!!

he may not be able to please everyone but he will die trying..ok?

The telephone line is closed for now. PM received after today, i will keep you posted for next event in june...ok?

the Host

Haha ... Np .... From what i read, you have everything set up and running...

WOW lets hope there isnt any part where Hulk smashes Loki(My fav scene)... Thats really gonna hurt..!!!!!!

Oh ya... i didn't forget haha.....Also wondering where is "X"??? :}

[haoweee]

For the requirements if I am above 21 already but my wife is still below 21 can apply?

[undertable]

he is reverting back to the Old School way of swinging, where he learned from the old-timers swingers back then in the early 2000s, who showed him how to break the ice even further to warm the couples up n slowly let the fun takes over & everyone has a happy story to share, instead of just nose-diving n jumping straight into it which often leads to performance anxiety especially for newbie males.

Current RSVP as of today Sunday 6th:

6 Confirmed Couples + 3 tentative Couples

Previously I gently requested that you make it clear here that no couple have requested u to host a event and u do it as a single man issue and after that u suddenly came out with a post that a female friend is joining u and may be interested in 2nd event.. I have realized some of your posts here are blurry. I have a questions for u, Do help me with it!

Since when did u became a swinger, Or do u mean u swing previously without a partner?



Previously We undertable have indeed invited u to host one event but that doesnt not mean u can tap on the previous event to further get what u would like to get.



Refering to the previous pm u send to me with the attached name list that u claimed are going to attend your so call event,I have checked thru with the couples and most of the confirm they have not consented to your events and 2 couples thought that it was undertable and colourblindx2 was the one who requested u to host it and thats why they consented.
(U didnt even try to tell them that its purely your idea who hosted this event?)



What if your so call female partner aint going to swing on that day, U going to let the others enjoyed the room and you stay behind or.......?



Oh Why do u keep call yourself "the Host" ,"The Host" and "The host" when u were just selected to help organize ONE event? Are u alright?


Misleading thread, Not cool dude!
(If we know you have such a unethical mindset we wouldnt have SELECTED you to host for us previously)

[sleepy80]

Well said Undertable, who is the couples joining anyway sincity...
He maybe trying to bluff the newbies couple into joining this event and get a free f*** from there.. Be careful as he may also take photographs secretly as his previous event being exposed before..

[sincity2005]

Originally Posted by undertable

Previously I gently requested that you make it clear here that no couple have requested u to host a event and u do it as a single man issue and after that u suddenly came out with a post that a female friend is joining u and may be interested in 2nd event.. I have realized some of your posts here are blurry. I have a questions for u, Do help me with it!

Since when did u became a swinger, Or do u mean u swing previously without a partner?



Previously We undertable have indeed invited u to host one event but that doesnt not mean u can tap on the previous event to further get what u would like to get.



Refering to the previous pm u send to me with the attached name list that u claimed are going to attend your so call event,I have checked thru with the couples and most of the confirm they have not consented to your events and 2 couples thought that it was undertable and colourblindx2 was the one who requested u to host it and thats why they consented.
(U didnt even try to tell them that its purely your idea who hosted this event?)



What if your so call female partner aint going to swing on that day, U going to let the others enjoyed the room and you stay behind or.......?



Oh Why do u keep call yourself "the Host" ,"The Host" and "The host" when u were just selected to help organize ONE event? Are u alright?


Misleading thread, Not cool dude!
(If we know you have such a unethical mindset we wouldnt have SELECTED you to host for us previously)

bro, why the sudden attack n accusation?

i did not even tap on previous event for this one, as i just state that there are couples who prefer a smaller n more discreet event.

and i even kindly suggest that the couples from the previous swing party that me & you hosted back in April, are welcome to come for this one, if you all dont mind a smaller n more private gathering.

in fact, all the rsvp couples know that i am the host, and i did not mislead them that you or other couples are in the organization team. i thought this is clearly stated in my 1st post n subsequent postings i made in this thread.

we were good in our previous gathering collaboration, so i hope you know this is just a misunderstanding, and i hope i have explain clearly enough above.

peace, bro.

[sincity2005]

Originally Posted by sleepy80

Well said Undertable, who is the couples joining anyway sincity...
He maybe trying to bluff the newbies couple into joining this event and get a free f*** from there.. Be careful as he may also take photographs secretly as his previous event being exposed before..

Bro, seriously, i thought you are a friend when we met. All the supportive n positive comments from you initially from the gathering we had in April, and suddenly you can become Two-Face n turn around n accuse people without proof.

Previous event, the photos were all taken with consent by Undertable. Me n ceralcouple help to mask the photos to hide all identities. So please dont anyhow accuse people blindly without facts.

Seriously, i dont need this kind of gathering to get free F***, since we have met each other in person in the April gathering n you n the rest of the bros seen me in person.

I have treated everyone with good hospitality and respect, and other couples n single bros who came for the April gathering can attest to it, from the comments they posted over here, unless you feel obliged to side with some misunderstandings n joined in the attack. This is really not cool of you.

by hosting such event takes up alot of my time, time from my work and other stuff. And screening through the PMs and enquiries is no easy task.

i can be just like you, and attend as a participants instead, isn't it? And just comment blindly like what you just did. But i dont judge people like that n i dont cause misunderstandings here.

Btw, it is very silly of you to think i want to bluff newbie couples. i already stated we meet for drinks first, n Round 2 is optional n we see how things go. All of us are matured adults n we do things with mutual consent.

hope you re-think about those damaging comments you posted & if you are mature enough, hope you apologize for what you commented.

and seriously, now i know what kind of character you are, it makes people think twice about having you as a friend or buddy cause you can just turn around n betray people at the expense of your own personal interest or gain, to gain brownie points with other people. This is scary!

[sincity2005]

see for yourself n i think u r a better judge than me, on people stirring things up n put false accusations

this bro can suddenly just turn 180 degree n stab people in the back without a blink in the eye

and to think that i still thanked him as a friend, back then for coming to the gathering in April...i must be feeling like a fool right now.

and seriously, to this bro, i dont need to stoop so low like u for free f***, cos i dont need that. i have integrity

see his comments n mine below that i screenshot.

this is to clarify n end this matter, as i feel there is a need for me to stand up for myself against these uncalled-for attacks. If you were in my shoes, u will also do the same.

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[CouplesSwing]

Originally Posted by CuriousCouple

Dear host....

Regret to inform you that CouplesSwing will be unable to attend as we'll be attending another event.

Best of luck and hope the attending couples have a good time.

- Cheers -
Señor CouplesSwing

I'm so slapstick that I just quoted our bestie and changed the handle. In any case, is this suppose to be a free event as long as the couple is qualitfy? Then again, what do I know? I'm just a sheer swing parties organizer who is not well off enough to host. 'A' for effort and expenses gonna incurred for the Host.

Señor CouplesSwing (CuriosCouple + CouplesSwing = CuriousCplSwing)

[CuriousCouple]

Originally Posted by CouplesSwing

I'm so slapstick that I just quoted our bestie and changed the handle. In any case, is this suppose to be a free event as long as the couple is qualitfy? Then again, what do I know? I'm just a sheer swing parties organizer who is not well off enough to host. 'A' for effort and expenses gonna incurred for the Host.

Señor CouplesSwing (CuriosCouple + CouplesSwing = CuriousCplSwing)

Well gotta give kudos to the Host for bearing all costs.

Food & Drinks for 20+ people during Round 1 and a classy hotel for Round 2 is not gonna be cheap. Not often people get an all-you-can-eat/drink deal.

-Cheers-
Sir CC

[sleepy80]

Originally Posted by sincity2005

see for yourself n i think u r a better judge than me, on people stirring things up n put false accusations

this bro can suddenly just turn 180 degree n stab people in the back without a blink in the eye

and to think that i still thanked him as a friend, back then for coming to the gathering in April...i must be feeling like a fool right now.

and seriously, to this bro, i dont need to stoop so low like u for free f***, cos i dont need that. i have integrity

see his comments n mine below that i screenshot.

this is to clarify n end this matter, as i feel there is a need for me to stand up for myself against these uncalled-for attacks. If you were in my shoes, u will also do the same.

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Yes the event that I attended organise by 'The Host' was interesting as I met many new friends to share stories with and all guys shared for the drinks that nite.

But after that day, I heard from the swinging couples that in fact on the night, liquor/beers were not enough for 30 odd pple but 'The Host' who is in charge of the finance do have $100+ balance that had not been use for the drinks were still 'kept' with him which was not know to the others. I am not concern with that small amount of money but its the integrity that counts to make known to the rest for next meet up session.

And what I had heard about the 2nd event on that day was that 'The Host' concern was just to 'F' the females available. I shall let the couples which was there comment on this.

As for the video that sincity had secretly taken without the lady knowledge was unethical and I just like to conscious the couples joining to be wary of that. This was posted by other pple in his thread.

http://sammyboy.online/showthr...=274115&page=2
http://sammyboy.online/showpos...3&postcount=57
http://sammyboy.online/showpos...5&postcount=58
http://sammyboy.online/showpos...6&postcount=59
http://sammyboy.online/showpos...9&postcount=61
http://sammyboy.online/showpos...8&postcount=67
http://sammyboy.online/showpos...3&postcount=68
http://sammyboy.online/showpos...1&postcount=71

I shall not comment anymore on this thread in case some other pple will be offended.

[undertable]

Originally Posted by undertable

Previously I gently requested that you make it clear here that no couple have requested u to host a event and u do it as a single man issue and after that u suddenly came out with a post that a female friend is joining u and may be interested in 2nd event.. I have realized some of your posts here are blurry. I have a questions for u, Do help me with it!

Since when did u became a swinger, Or do u mean u swing previously without a partner?



Previously We undertable have indeed invited u to host one event but that doesnt not mean u can tap on the previous event to further get what u would like to get.



Refering to the previous pm u send to me with the attached name list that u claimed are going to attend your so call event,I have checked thru with the couples and most of the confirm they have not consented to your events and 2 couples thought that it was undertable and colourblindx2 was the one who requested u to host it and thats why they consented.
(U didnt even try to tell them that its purely your idea who hosted this event?)



What if your so call female partner aint going to swing on that day, U going to let the others enjoyed the room and you stay behind or.......?



Oh Why do u keep call yourself "the Host" ,"The Host" and "The host" when u were just selected to help organize ONE event? Are u alright?


Misleading thread, Not cool dude!
(If we know you have such a unethical mindset we wouldnt have SELECTED you to host for us previously)

Originally Posted by sincity2005

bro, why the sudden attack n accusation?

i did not even tap on previous event for this one, as i just state that there are couples who prefer a smaller n more discreet event.

and i even kindly suggest that the couples from the previous swing party that me & you hosted back in April, are welcome to come for this one, if you all dont mind a smaller n more private gathering.

in fact, all the rsvp couples know that i am the host, and i did not mislead them that you or other couples are in the organization team. i thought this is clearly stated in my 1st post n subsequent postings i made in this thread.













we were good in our previous gathering
collaboration, so i hope you know this is just a misunderstanding, and i hope i have explain clearly enough above.


peace, bro.

i have already put out my points across in my previous post, Its up to u whether if u wanna answer the few questions i have raised previously . You can jolly well take my previous post as a reinforcement to what u have claim to be clear enuff thread...(PS: i do not wish to recieved any sms/msges from u, stop msging me)

[undertable]

Originally Posted by sincity2005

Couples-only - Meet & Greet session (Private Event)


Date: tentatively 11th Friday May
Time: 7pm - 10pm
Venue: TBC
Capacity: 12 couples max tentatively
Host: sincity2005

Objective: A sharing session for genuine, like-minded couples to meet up over drinks n make some new friends n share their experiences. This event will be followed up by a Swing Party happening at a later date in May, or after 10pm on that day, depending on how things go, n depending on the participating couples n the chemistry.

Targeted Audience: Soft-swingers, Hard-swingers, open-minded couples curious to explore swinging lifestyle.

This will be a private event n strictly for couples only this time round. We will plan something like our previous event with singles in June.



The couples who attended the previous event, will be automatically invited for this one. As well as some of my great swinging couple friends. You know who you are. [/COLOR][/B]

I re-quote your post In case u do not know what i was refering to. 1st:Are u a couple in the 1st place? 2nd: Who is the "WE" in your noted post? 3rd: "Couples from previous event will be automatically invited", meaning we dun need to say yes or no and u just put them in the attendance name list and pm to those unaware curious couples that?

[sleepygal]

Originally Posted by undertable

i have already put out my points across in my previous post, Its up to u whether if u wanna answer the few questions i have raised previously . You can jolly well take my previous post as a reinforcement to what u have claim to be clear enuff thread...(PS: i do not wish to recieved any sms/msges from u, stop msging me)

can see that he jus go 1 round and didnt ans ur queries raised.

[sincity2005]

Originally Posted by sleepy80

Yes the event that I attended organise by 'The Host' was interesting as I met many new friends to share stories with and all guys shared for the drinks that nite.

But after that day, I heard from the swinging couples that in fact on the night, liquor/beers were not enough for 30 odd pple but 'The Host' who is in charge of the finance do have $100+ balance that had not been use for the drinks were still 'kept' with him which was not know to the others. I am not concern with that small amount of money but its the integrity that counts to make known to the rest for next meet up session.

And what I had heard about the 2nd event on that day was that 'The Host' concern was just to 'F' the females available. I shall let the couples which was there comment on this.

As for the video that sincity had secretly taken without the lady knowledge was unethical and I just like to conscious the couples joining to be wary of that. This was posted by other pple in his thread.

http://sammyboy.online/showthr...=274115&page=2
http://sammyboy.online/showpos...3&postcount=57
http://sammyboy.online/showpos...5&postcount=58
http://sammyboy.online/showpos...6&postcount=59
http://sammyboy.online/showpos...9&postcount=61
http://sammyboy.online/showpos...8&postcount=67
http://sammyboy.online/showpos...3&postcount=68
http://sammyboy.online/showpos...1&postcount=71

I shall not comment anymore on this thread in case some other pple will be offended.

Seriously, that April event, if you want to be so calculative, i am in deficit, and i only ask the 2 selected brothers to chip in a small minimum sum, compared to the $400++ big room i have booked for the swing party at a 5-star hotel & letting Undertable n her 2 queens to stay overnight.

Not forgetting the food & drinks & french caps i chip in at my own cost. Miscellaneous costs which i didnt even bother to inform you all.

And all these while, i didnt even post anything here to ask for the single bros who went for the April event, to help defray my cost.

So quit saying i dont have integrity. You are the calculative one n the type of people who likes to bring down other people at the slightest opportunity.

The drinks amount was just $200 to $300 collected, which i leave it to Undertable to help me collect, n i re-use some of these amount for additional drinks for you all brothers.


As for the video incident, it has already been resolved long ago, if you follow my thread n post here. See the link below:

http://sammyboy.online/showthr...=274115&page=3

http://sammyboy.online/showthr...=274115&page=3

both parties do have fault in this & i admit it was my folly & my mistake for a moment of fun & thrill at 1st, & we actually try to solve it on the spot itself n video was deleted on the spot, but then some external party try to use this situation to exploit n blackmail me, which wasnt right also. In the end, both parties have both concluded this case & moved on.

this is like, when you meet Edison Chen, n you keep on continue to bring up the case after he has closed n concluded this case. What does that makes you?

Seriously, i want to avoid malicious people like you. You can talk one pattern, then reverse and talk another pattern like a 2-headed snakes.

anyway, it is no use arguing in the forum. you all can see his comments i screenshot n how he maliciously keep attacking me till now

i dont want to waste time with people like that. Now all that i can remember of this Sleepy80 guy when i met him, is that he is a short small guy, and you know what they called "small man" in Chinese? i rest my case