Are young cheongster quite delusional in general

[L00k]

Short story, recently meet up with an cheongster friend that never contacted for years. He is a Geylang cheongster since his army days he is now 28 years old. Met him tcss here and there, skip to the main point he talks about how he wants to stop cheong clubbing / brothels plans to settle down by 30 year olds. Good for him and I asked whats his ideal type (For context he is 168cm, 82kg average looking 5-6/10, blue collar earning about $2500) He says his ideal type is tall at least 165cm, pretty, big boobs and ass and I am like wtf ? I asked him how is it possible to find someone like that ? Guess what he replied ? He said Geylang so many PRC chio bu only $100- $200 why outside cannot find someone close to that ? I quite stumbled then shoot him say bro they earn $100 - $200 per customer leh not per month they easily make 5-10 times more than you. He keep thinking that Geylang got so many chio bu outside sure can find… argue with him about 10min and gave up. What do you think about this delusion ? IMO those $200 syt in Geylang can easily tio bao or marry by someone who earns $20,000 above. Earning $2500 thinking can marry them is dumb as fk. What’s more is girl outside this line even worst come on.. haha. How to whack him out of this dream ?

[wattonhenry]

Got. Just not a Singaporean and probably can’t be found in Singapore.

No need to whack him too. Reality will do that for you.

[jgosh80]

Lol. I use the OG Mint as an example. She is one smart cookie. She worked in spore for a few years and saved her money wisely and put it to work for her in China with several properties earning passive income for her. Now as of 2024 she has no need to work and is spending her time either traveling or enjoying life without worrying about daily expenses.

Is your friend able to do that?

[L00k]

Originally Posted by wattonhenry

Got. Just not a Singaporean and probably can’t be found in Singapore.

No need to whack him too. Reality will do that for you.

Imo PRC girls are much more demanding especially partents than SG girls.
Not gonna lie earning $2500 might not even able to find him a fat PRC girl... his type ? Face facepalm max.

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by L00k

Short story, recently meet up with an cheongster friend that never contacted for years. He is a Geylang cheongster since his army days he is now 28 years old. Met him tcss here and there, skip to the main point he talks about how he wants to stop cheong clubbing / brothels plans to settle down by 30 year olds. Good for him and I asked whats his ideal type (For context he is 168cm, 82kg average looking 5-6/10, blue collar earning about $2500) He says his ideal type is tall at least 165cm, pretty, big boobs and ass and I am like wtf ? I asked him how is it possible to find someone like that ? Guess what he replied ? He said Geylang so many PRC chio bu only $100- $200 why outside cannot find someone close to that ? I quite stumbled then shoot him say bro they earn $100 - $200 per customer leh not per month they easily make 5-10 times more than you. He keep thinking that Geylang got so many chio bu outside sure can find… argue with him about 10min and gave up. What do you think about this delusion ? IMO those $200 syt in Geylang can easily tio bao or marry by someone who earns $20,000 above. Earning $2500 thinking can marry them is dumb as fk. What’s more is girl outside this line even worst come on.. haha. How to whack him out of this dream ?

Don't be jealous.
He can do it with $2500 which makes you look bad. HAHAHA.

[blu3fin]

Originally Posted by jgosh80

Lol. I use the OG Mint as an example. She is one smart cookie. She worked in spore for a few years and saved her money wisely and put it to work for her in China with several properties earning passive income for her. Now as of 2024 she has no need to work and is spending her time either traveling or enjoying life without worrying about daily expenses.

Is your friend able to do that?

I think her timing is lucky, as long she plan well can liao.
Now, I bet more than a few kenna caught with lan wei lou or negative assets they can't even afford the monthly payments now. All their savings down tbe drain easily.

[Xgenre]

Just chit chat to talk cock sing song why you so serious? Maybe he can really find.

I have a few guy friends whom I feel are useless negative minded idiots. Guess what? They managed to meet simple minded ladies who are the only child to rich parents. Knn, straightaway play shotgun game to tie down and marry such girls. Set up for life financially already.

[cestycesty]

i know 3 people who did it. 2 cousins and 1 ex colleague. None of them are the good looking type. 2 of them are sweet talkers. one of them went to prison for fraud.

all married rich girls. only the prison one the wife is CMI. but all 3 are set for life.

If you ask me what impression the 3 of them gives. all 3 behave like handphone salesman.

2 cousins living in landed now fully paid for by in laws and driving merc and porsche.

prison one lives in mansion with in laws, wife drives him around. he doesn't have license.

[wattonhenry]

Haha. You can’t choose parents but you can choose your wife. So choose wisely. Haha.

My question is what the girls see in them.

[Iveagh]

$2500/month blue collar is low.
The prc production operators where I work earns that amount with OT.
Better to find a higher paying job first than look for a partner.

[Alwaysmovedown]

Originally Posted by cestycesty

i know 3 people who did it. 2 cousins and 1 ex colleague. None of them are the good looking type. 2 of them are sweet talkers. one of them went to prison for fraud.

all married rich girls. only the prison one the wife is CMI. but all 3 are set for life.

If you ask me what impression the 3 of them gives. all 3 behave like handphone salesman.

2 cousins living in landed now fully paid for by in laws and driving merc and porsche.

prison one lives in mansion with in laws, wife drives him around. he doesn't have license.

A friend of mine did it as well. His wife is not rich in landed property sense but he definitely married up.

My friend earns 3k+ at almost mid 30s with O lvls, his wife is some first class honours from NUS working as a regular, major rank in early 30s.

And no the wife is not some tomboy, good looking in fact. My friend is average looking, always the "weird" guy since our sch days. No idea how he did it but am happy for him!

[Aidan]

What people want and what people get are very different.
I wanted very different things for myself, fuck if I got any of it.
Did get a couple, the rest did not drop from the sky for me, so too bad.
Leave him be, probably a phase that needs to be grown out of, even if he is 28.

[naan1974]

Wow nowadays SG men like PRC women ah..
marrying up is an inspiration !

[loneyheart]

Earning just 2.5k can't even pay for HDB 4 rm flat loan nowadays don't just ever think of marry

[ilovepantyhose]

Originally Posted by wattonhenry

My question is what the girls see in them.

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