ML retire from cat 1 spa at what age typically?

[ssd3469]

I think it is 30, but there is a 31 year old working in what believe is a cat 1 spa. It is room not curtain but if you talk too loudly outside still can hear. Prices are 58, 68, 86. Can anyone enlighten me on this? Cause she discounts for me, but idk is it because she realizes she is no longer in her 20s? By right 86 then can unlock but last week I went she let me unlock at 68 plus she quote gq 60 but discount 50. This week I say workload too much and stress but I can't afford to chiong every week she say 58 can unlock. I don't deny her service is good, but could it be due to the age factor also? Or maybe she see me going so frequent at every week so she further drop to 58 can unlock(and not because she is getting older)? Btw do you all know how MLs can answer to their boss cause boss only allow unlock at 86? Last week when we did it at 68 no one came to check our room. It could be all 3.

She say if I don't take gq, just 68 with teasing then she eat what, of course I don't believe her. But a bit paiseh to just take entrance without gq.

[aristodemus690]

Originally Posted by ssd3469

She say if I don't take gq, just 68 with teasing then she eat what, of course I don't believe her. But a bit paiseh to just take entrance without gq.

Don't need to paiseh. And also she give discount so you can keep going back.

I don't think there's a typical age limit. I've seen what I feel are definitely 30+ year olds at CAT 1 spas too, all just under report their age. Most of them really do discount more because they know they cannot fight SYT.

[ssd3469]

Originally Posted by aristodemus690

Don't need to paiseh. And also she give discount so you can keep going back.

I don't think there's a typical age limit. I've seen what I feel are definitely 30+ year olds at CAT 1 spas too, all just under report their age. Most of them really do discount more because they know they cannot fight SYT.

But isn't it a fact that if we just take entrance most of it goes to her boss and not her? Like that she really eat what?

[ssd3469]

Originally Posted by aristodemus690

Don't need to paiseh. And also she give discount so you can keep going back.

I don't think there's a typical age limit. I've seen what I feel are definitely 30+ year olds at CAT 1 spas too, all just under report their age. Most of them really do discount more because they know they cannot fight SYT.

Actually I am in a very difficult position. Because I do not have a gf in my entire life of 35 years. Thus I couldn't have sex with a real woman. Eventually I became age 26 to 30 with no new masturbation fantasies so I resorted to chat about sex with other people. Is there anyway to find a real gf so that I don't have to resort to ML or prostitutes to curb my sexual urges?

[Laopizhui]

Originally Posted by ssd3469

Actually I am in a very difficult position. Because I do not have a gf in my entire life of 35 years. Thus I couldn't have sex with a real woman. Eventually I became age 26 to 30 with no new masturbation fantasies so I resorted to chat about sex with other people. Is there anyway to find a real gf so that I don't have to resort to ML or prostitutes to curb my sexual urges?

go for cooking class, or dancing class etc, join those volunteer groups like clearing rubbish at beaches for a start

then reduce ur porn, best to stop.

find gf for the 1st time dont be too picky abt it. then dont be too desperate. take things slowly ba. learn how to read girls hint is a great help

[fangy]

What is a cat 1 spa? Got cat 2? Cat 3?

[loneyheart]

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[aristodemus690]

Originally Posted by fangy

What is a cat 1 spa? Got cat 2? Cat 3?

I don't know about Cat 2, but Cat 1 usually is licensed establishment. All ML in these spa need to have masseuse license and can work here for an extended period of time. Usually wear uniform also. This kind if you go need to give your details at the counter.

Cat 3 usually don't need to give details, and some of ML don't have license to be masseuse. No uniforms mandated usually.

[aristodemus690]

Originally Posted by ssd3469

Actually I am in a very difficult position. Because I do not have a gf in my entire life of 35 years. Thus I couldn't have sex with a real woman. Eventually I became age 26 to 30 with no new masturbation fantasies so I resorted to chat about sex with other people. Is there anyway to find a real gf so that I don't have to resort to ML or prostitutes to curb my sexual urges?

Bro if sex is your main priority, then might as well continue with ML and prostitutes. Cheaper in terms of time invested.

If you want to curb urges, get busy with life and prioritise other things, the urges tend to fade when you do a bunch of stuff that you enjoy with your life (beyond sex).

Neither of which are really reasons why you should get a gf.

So I'm not really sure what you're looking for bro.

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by ssd3469

Actually I am in a very difficult position. Because I do not have a gf in my entire life of 35 years. Thus I couldn't have sex with a real woman. Eventually I became age 26 to 30 with no new masturbation fantasies so I resorted to chat about sex with other people. Is there anyway to find a real gf so that I don't have to resort to ML or prostitutes to curb my sexual urges?

I recommend her to you. Hurry up while stock last.
You 35, She 36. 1 age difference. HAHAHA.

Originally Posted by HarmoniaEros

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[ssd3469]

Originally Posted by Laopizhui

go for cooking class, or dancing class etc, join those volunteer groups like clearing rubbish at beaches for a start

then reduce ur porn, best to stop.

find gf for the 1st time dont be too picky abt it. then dont be too desperate. take things slowly ba. learn how to read girls hint is a great help

Workplace dating is not advisable because it is very dangerous right?

[ssd3469]

Originally Posted by ssd3469

Actually I am in a very difficult position. Because I do not have a gf in my entire life of 35 years. Thus I couldn't have sex with a real woman. Eventually I became age 26 to 30 with no new masturbation fantasies so I resorted to chat about sex with other people. Is there anyway to find a real gf so that I don't have to resort to ML or prostitutes to curb my sexual urges?

Resorted to chat about sex as a new form of fantasy*

[ssd3469]

Originally Posted by sbwow

I recommend her to you. Hurry up while stock last.
You 35, She 36. 1 age difference. HAHAHA.

Lol an open and honest relationship already means you can be intimate and even have relationships with someone else, so why she say can be intimate with someone else before consumate after marriage?

[ssd3469]

Originally Posted by sbwow

I recommend her to you. Hurry up while stock last.
You 35, She 36. 1 age difference. HAHAHA.

Btw you were not being very respectful, please stop it.

[ssd3469]

Originally Posted by aristodemus690

Bro if sex is your main priority, then might as well continue with ML and prostitutes. Cheaper in terms of time invested.

If you want to curb urges, get busy with life and prioritise other things, the urges tend to fade when you do a bunch of stuff that you enjoy with your life (beyond sex).

Neither of which are really reasons why you should get a gf.

So I'm not really sure what you're looking for bro.

I think you don't understand. Sex is a natural process of all romantic relationships, so if I am unable to find a gf I am unable to have sex, get it? I am not using gf for sex only, we can do many other activities like kayaking, archery etc. but sex is a natural process of all relationships in time to come. Some even have sex before forming relationships. Get it now?