Cheated

godzilla007 · #1 09-03-2009, 02:02 PM

Dear Brothers,
I think i have been cheated by my fiance, her friends have been telling me that they saw her outside with other guys. I had sacrificed so much for her till i'm near bankruptcy.. Brothers please help me... I love her alot and yet she seems not to anymore.

Si Geena · #2 09-03-2009, 04:37 PM

Everyone will tell you the same thing.

MOVE ON!

It's only whether you are ready to do so anot.

slider_72 · #3 09-03-2009, 04:46 PM

Bro, the header at this section says "Matters of the Heart. Has a Commercial Fuck turned into a torrid Love Affair which has turned your life upside down? Fear not. We have experts here who can help you through your roller coaster ride. Tell us your story and we'll do our best to help."

Is your fiance a WL? Was it a commercial fuck that became a torrid love affair? If not, I think you are in the wrong place.

BKnight · #4 09-03-2009, 04:49 PM

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Originally Posted by slider_72

Bro, the header at this section says "Matters of the Heart. Has a Commercial Fuck turned into a torrid Love Affair which has turned your life upside down? Fear not. We have experts here who can help you through your roller coaster ride. Tell us your story and we'll do our best to help."

Is your fiance a WL? Was it a commercial fuck that became a torrid love affair? If not, I think you are in the wrong place.

Camping here

If not WL then think gotto charge a fee liao...

HCKing · #5 09-03-2009, 04:51 PM

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Originally Posted by godzilla007

Dear Brothers,
I think i have been cheated by my fiance, her friends have been telling me that they saw her outside with other guys. I had sacrificed so much for her till i'm near bankruptcy.. Brothers please help me... I love her alot and yet she seems not to anymore.

hw u want bros here to help? best to seek clarification frm her. pick up yr courage to ask. u can do it lah.

BKnight · #6 09-03-2009, 05:04 PM

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Originally Posted by HCKing

hw u want bros here to help? best to seek clarification frm her. pick up yr courage to ask. u can do it lah.

Yup, this is best approach rather than hear-say from other friends....they might have an hidden agenda....

_AXL_ · #7 09-03-2009, 07:15 PM

why is this a 5-star thread??? i m giving it 1 star. TS got so many different accounts ah???

colins · #8 09-03-2009, 07:23 PM

You mean, whether she is still with you physically or emotionally, you dun even know or can catch any difference? Seen together with other guys got problem? You mean her friends told you they holding hands walking to H81 or having lunch? I hate to think that the girls I go out with got boyfriends who are having issues with his gf mixing around with other guys. I may not have intentions, but if its your assumption, man its your own pain.

BTW, I will take back the above words if your fiance is a WL. It doesn't apply to them WLs.

tahana · #9 09-03-2009, 07:35 PM

hey bro.. sorry abt wat happen to you.. tts wat more of the people fear rite.. be it guys or gals.. to be caught by counterpart's frens..

are u a player?? if so.. u got to take it as a man... thrash it out with her face to face.. if both are willing to accept wat had happen and move on.. bravo!!
if not break it up cleanly without regrets. i believe ur pals and family also will be happy with ur decision.

if u not a player and feel cheated.. tts teh sadest thing to happen.. but i got to say " wake up" . she not worthy of u. a good man.. have faith with urself and move on. the world wun stop to pity u, and everyone konw tts lots and tonnes of gals out there more worthy..

good luck pal.. all depends on you. its simple actually. its jsut your heart toying ur mind around...

colins · #10 09-03-2009, 07:53 PM

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Originally Posted by tahana

hey bro.. sorry abt wat happen to you.. tts wat more of the people fear rite.. be it guys or gals.. to be caught by counterpart's frens..

are u a player?? if so.. u got to take it as a man... thrash it out with her face to face.. if both are willing to accept wat had happen and move on.. bravo!!
if not break it up cleanly without regrets. i believe ur pals and family also will be happy with ur decision.

if u not a player and feel cheated.. tts teh sadest thing to happen.. but i got to say " wake up" . she not worthy of u. a good man.. have faith with urself and move on. the world wun stop to pity u, and everyone konw tts lots and tonnes of gals out there more worthy..

good luck pal.. all depends on you. its simple actually. its jsut your heart toying ur mind around...

Well, if the girl has something to hide, the last person who will know is TS, whether he trash it out with her or not. The idea is, if TS is afraid to lose her, then no point saying anything, no point doing anything, TS must do anything and accept everything to keep her, including being a cuckoo.

If TS really want to resolve this issue, then he must be prepared to become single again. Be prepared doesn't mean MUST let go la. But he has got to remove his expectations that she is still the innocent-with-unwavering-love-for-only-TS type of girl.

The most painful thing is to find out the truth and knowing that it must still hang around for eternity. Cannot cut means suffer forever. Can cut means suffer one time. Simple does it.

HCKing · #11 09-03-2009, 11:47 PM

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Originally Posted by BKnight

Yup, this is best approach rather than hear-say from other friends....they might have an hidden agenda....

thats 1 possibility bro. if he doesnt clarify with her and lives in doubt things will only get worse. in relationship alot of misunderstandings occur due to lack of trust and assumptions. for his case there's nthing much we can comment too cos too little info liao. TS if u want to seek help also must provide ppl with more useful info mah.

SamSeng79 · #12 10-03-2009, 12:22 AM

U r not the first one, and will not be the last one... Women nowadays are no longer pure as b4.. Although this does not applies to all, but definately the percentage is rising...

I would suggest u have a good talk with her.. If possible, MOVE ON... short pain is better then long pain.. Take it as a lesson learnt.. I did learn my lesson also.. All the best to u..

DO_YOU_BJ · #13 10-03-2009, 08:23 AM

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Originally Posted by SamSeng79

U r not the first one, and will not be the last one... Women nowadays are no longer pure as b4.. Although this does not applies to all, but definately the percentage is rising...

I would suggest u have a good talk with her.. If possible, MOVE ON... short pain is better then long pain.. Take it as a lesson learnt.. I did learn my lesson also.. All the best to u..

The magic word....move on!
The only needed answer that closes this thread!

silverblue · #14 10-03-2009, 10:55 AM

got proof and solid evidence or not? unless you see it with your own eyes or have verbal confirmation from your fiancee, everything you heard is not true. there are people in this world that live just to ruin people's life one.

BKnight · #15 10-03-2009, 11:24 AM

Questions:

1) Why are you having suspicion? She been avoiding you?

2) Why her friends "have been" feeding you information that will ruin your relationship? If it is a SHE, Is she interested in you ? If it is a HE, Is he interested in her? Mind you, they are not your friend BUT her friends, it is a bit strange, right? or Simply because they think you are a nice guy and wont want you to get hurt?

3) Is she a WL? - Because you seems to have spend a fortune to be with her

4) Love her then go and talk to her before its too late (late as in break-up or you married her and realized she still keep in touch with many boyfriends)..

5) Ang Proof?