Divorcing my Vietnam wife

tym733 · #1 09-05-2012, 11:27 PM

I was introduce to my ex-wife by a friends Vietnam wife. I am 42 she is 24, she was good at 1st. Last year I got married with her. But things got ugly, she started to demand money from me to build house for her older brother in Vietnam. $20,000 is not a small amount, I am only a working class man.

When I got home from work she would either pester me or give me a black face to look at when I say that was too much money. Then she said send back $2000 each month, I still refused. Reduced to $1000 then later then $500 every month. I started hate going home after work.

I went to consulted a private detective from who handle divorce often, he teach me a way to block her from coming back after she went back home to visit this month. Then we will do the seperation matter after it is comfirmed she can not return to Singapore.

Getting married is easy, but chosing the right girl is hard.

SingViet · #2 10-05-2012, 06:34 AM

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Originally Posted by tym733

I was introduce to my ex-wife by a friends Vietnam wife. I am 42 she is 24, she was good at 1st. Last year I got married with her. But things got ugly, she started to demand money from me to build house for her older brother in Vietnam. $20,000 is not a small amount, I am only a working class man.

When I got home from work she would either pester me or give me a black face to look at when I say that was too much money. Then she said send back $2000 each month, I still refused. Reduced to $1000 then later then $500 every month. I started hate going home after work.

I went to consulted a private detective from who handle divorce often, he teach me a way to block her from coming back after she went back home to visit this month. Then we will do the seperation matter after it is comfirmed she can not return to Singapore.

Getting married is easy, but chosing the right girl is hard.

Bro, i can understand your situation. Actually, to built a house in the province no need 20k SGD. I am sure she has other uses fir that sum of money. As for sending money back home, 2k a month is crazy. Its either her whole family is waiting for you to feed or she has a bf back in vn, which is very common. I remember my wife and i were crossing the saigon airport immigration when the ifficer asked my wife why she's only back in vn fir a few days ? Never keep bf company ? My wife told him she got 3 kids in singapore and her husband is next in line. Officer said its very normal for viet gals with foreigner husbands to have another viet bf back in vn. He see this everyday. So who started to say viet gals are good? Its still tough to find a good one from the millions out there.

sammyboyfor · #3 10-05-2012, 06:41 AM

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Originally Posted by tym733

I was introduce to my ex-wife by a friends Vietnam wife. I am 42 she is 24, she was good at 1st. Last year I got married with her. But things got ugly, she started to demand money from me to build house for her older brother in Vietnam. $20,000 is not a small amount, I am only a working class man.

This should serve as a warning to all the idiots who have the intention of marrying the vietcong.

cuscorex92 · #4 10-05-2012, 09:02 AM

tis viets r interestin..

'my brother nd $ to build hse,my prob?'...'ur brother nd to make babies,nd my cum??'

2centsworth · #5 10-05-2012, 09:54 AM

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Originally Posted by tym733

I went to consulted a private detective from who handle divorce often, he teach me a way to block her from coming back after she went back home to visit this month. Then we will do the seperation matter after it is comfirmed she can not return to Singapore.

What is the method to prevent her from returning?

SingViet · #6 10-05-2012, 09:58 AM

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Originally Posted by cuscorex92

tis viets r interestin..

'my brother nd $ to build hse,my prob?'...'ur brother nd to make babies,nd my cum??'

The viets have very close family ties but they tend to have a lot of useless relatives that need lots of $$$ from foreigners. They built house, you need to pay. They buy bike, you need to pay. They are sick, you need to pay. Built house need US$4000, they take S$20000 from you. Buy bike need uS$3000, they take S$15000 from you . Parents sick covered by insurance , only need pay medication VND500,000, they take S$5000 from you. Everything got huge profits to make.

asdfghjkl · #7 10-05-2012, 10:17 AM

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Originally Posted by 2centsworth

What is the method to prevent her from returning?

yes, please share this method.. many members would be interested to know..

hamsapkwai · #8 10-05-2012, 10:21 AM

Dont see why you guys need to marry all these foreigners. Why cant you just use them for sex and then move on?

No matter how pretty or good at sex they are, the novelty will still wear off.

And with that kind of money they keep asking for i can go GL everyday and get different girls.

Haiz what to do , a fool is born everyday

And yes please tell us how to prevent them from returning.

This will be like the secret final move from Shaolin Temple that was lost in the fire.

SingViet · #9 10-05-2012, 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by hamsapkwai

Dont see why you guys need to marry all these foreigners. Why cant you just use them for sex and then move on?

No matter how pretty or good at sex they are, the novelty will still wear off.

And with that kind of money they keep asking for i can go GL everyday and get different girls.

Haiz what to do , a fool is born everyday

And yes please tell us how to prevent them from returning.

This will be like the secret final move from Shaolin Temple that was lost in the fire.

Pardon me for saying this, each have their own preference and not all are bad. It's just like most will say Singapore gals are spoilt and treat their husbands like servants, but there are still good ones out there. No one has the right to call others foolish. If everybody is the same in the world, then this world will be very boring.

hamsapkwai · #10 10-05-2012, 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

Pardon me for saying this, each have their own preference and not all are bad. It's just like most will say Singapore gals are spoilt and treat their husbands like servants, but there are still good ones out there. No one has the right to call others foolish. If everybody is the same in the world, then this world will be very boring.

Oh yes brother Singviet your nick speaks volume for you. I agree not all are bad , i do know of some good Viet women married to friends. But not a lot. But even then the good ones keep asking their spouse for money to send back constantly.

We only get to read lots of these people in the news and here in this message board whining of being taken for a ride by foreigners.

what do you call a person going into a relationship and end up in a disadvantageous position when he knows fully well that the likelihood of it happening is possible? A Wiseman?

Brother Singviet is super pro Viet so you will only see the good things in all things Viet.

Sure not everyone is the same , just go in with eyes open.

Maybe one day when i want to go to visit Vietnam i will consult you for advice

playboybunny · #11 10-05-2012, 11:11 AM

History always repeat itself.

maxsee · #12 10-05-2012, 11:11 AM

I dun think all the good ones will ask for money back also..i got a friend who married a viet wife...He told me the wife never ask a single cent from him for her to send back.....

Actually come to think of it....i got 2 friends who married viet wife...both din ask for money back...pai seh...correction...

asdfghjkl · #13 10-05-2012, 11:27 AM

one of my friend married a Viet doctor and he dun need to work in sg?

Castrol · #14 10-05-2012, 12:06 PM

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one of my friend married a Viet doctor and he dun need to work in sg?

your friend is smart. no more need to pay for any medicine too.

i wish every guy will have "realistic expectations" of the woman he marries.
you marry a lowly qualified woman from a poor nation, what do you expect? she can bring you your slippers when you're back from work but what you gonna do for her?

according to ts, 42 vs 24 some more.. she's sick of younger men or what?

Golden question · #15 10-05-2012, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by hamsapkwai

Dont see why you guys need to marry all these foreigners. Why cant you just use them for sex and then move on?

No matter how pretty or good at sex they are, the novelty will still wear off.

And with that kind of money they keep asking for i can go GL everyday and get different girls.

Haiz what to do , a fool is born everyday

And yes please tell us how to prevent them from returning.

This will be like the secret final move from Shaolin Temple that was lost in the fire.

haha bro,good description,now i your admirer already,my virgin 3 points that is given to u that time is not wasted haha

i pick the right horse