Falling in love with a Thai prostitute in Geylang.. Advice needed..

[singathai]

Hi guys. I've recently met a Thai girl in Geylang on around 11th Jul. She only came to Singapore in 6th Jul. It was probably my 10th visit to Geylang, and I met her, whom totally gave me a different experience. I mean, people go Geylang for sex, so do I. But this time was different. Anyway, I went back for a second visit the exact same day.(I've never visited the same prostitute for the 2nd time ever) She was surprised to see me again. We both had good feelings about each other after chatting for a while. I promised her I'll come back the following week, 16th of Jul, but I went a day later than that. She was very happy to see me but she told me she was very disappointed that I didn't come the day before and thought I've forgotten about her. She even made a note on her calendar that I'd be coming on the 16th. We were very happy to see each other and we chatted the whole session. I bought her a Thai-English dictionary too because her English was really poor. I also attached a note telling her that she was different from other girls in Geylang. We didn't do anything other than talking. We exchanged our phone numbers that time. She often text me whenever she misses me and ask when will I visit her again. On the 4th visit, we sat down and talked. The note I gave her on the previous visit had some new words. It was her writing back to me telling me she misses me and likes me. I told her I like her a lot too. She asked if I had a girlfriend and I said I have. She was so upset she broke into tears. I told her to keep our relationship low profile and she agreed. She would only text me during hours where my girlfriend won't see(my girlfriend stays with me). After a few other visits where we always chat and occasionally made love, I've decided to stay over. I lied to my girlfriend about having night shift so I could stay over. (I couldn't do that too much as it is expensive) We chatted all night long and she told me about all her life. She said she was married once with a child, have parents and siblings in Thailand. She's now working in Singapore so that she could support her family and herself. She has many scars on her thighs because she was very upset with her life when she was married. Her ex-husband was a abusive one. She didn't tell her parents she's working in Geylang. She only lied to them she's working in a restaurant. She also told me she hates her job(which girl wants to be a prostitute?), and would often cry because of that. And on that night, I've decided to tell her I love her. She said she loves me too and wants to be with me too but she says I'm too good for her because she's a prostitute and I'm a young man who has a good job and future ahead of me. She doesn't want to break my girlfriend and I up too. On the 2nd night I've stayed a week after that, we were totally in love. I could tell from her eyes that she wasn't playing with my heart, unless her acting is really that good. We made love without protection and I had my load inside her. We trusted each other that we don't have any diseases. I miss her every single minute of my life I couldn't face my girlfriend anymore. I told my girlfriend I need some time alone as I'm unsure of our relationship.(we already had some problems before this) We're currently staying separately now. I went over to visit her yesterday, telling her I really love her and cannot do without her. I told her I want her to quit her job and stay with me and I will take care of her. I told her I might not be rich but I earn enough that she will never have to starve, have a place to stay, and will never have to work in Geylang anymore. I will bring her to USA with me for 2 years for my overseas detachment next year. I asked her to move in with me. If needed, I'll marry her too. She broke into tears and agreed. She said she'll talk to her friends and family about this to see how to go about things. I told her to talk to her boss about this too. I don't know how it'll turn out because she wants to be with me but doesn't know how to so I'm asking you guys out there to help me with this. I'm actually wondering how can she stop working in Geylang and be with me? She has a 2-year contract with the boss to work in Geylang(so that she can stay here). Can she break the bond in any way? I can talk to her boss if its needed. Can she get a work permit to stay in Singapore? Guys, I really need help on this. Sorry for the really long post here. I might be a little crazy to fall in love with her but I know what I'm doing. Thank you guys in advance (:

[sammyboyfor]

Get a life!

[Greatking]

Nice article.

I heard from lao-bo that girls under such contracts will need to be escorted in and out by them. Break contract, leaves Singapore. The next visit, she will probably knock into ICA lock-up self and U-turn back home.

Pretty hard to get PR or citizenship too. Marriage needs lotsa courage and strength - to establish and to maintain. You will need to handle not only reality but psychologically.

Who will forget the fact that your wife used to be a sex worker? And gals of such trade wouldn't want people to remind them of such events either. Are you able to handle your parents? Are you able to handle when u found out your best friend bedded her before? Are you not worried that because of stress and negative events, you will find it very hard to love her again?

And if you are going for US attachment, u should be below 28yrs old. Are you not going to give yourself more time to think? She had been fucked by hundreds by now. What's the different with another hundreds?

Don't rush into it. It's a commitment.

[SammyNewbie]

Was her number... 9 by any chance?

God if it is I suggest you better NOT...Please Please PLEASE don't say yes.

[Greatking]

Originally Posted by SammyNewbie

Was her number... 9 by any chance?

God if it is I suggest you better NOT...Please Please PLEASE don't say yes.

I'm going tonight to look at those that ends with a 9 at lor18

[SammyNewbie]

Just worried he may be conned. I also know a similar girl!

And I also thought of buying a dictionary for her so can talk at least!

So when I heard his story I really WTF!!!

[asdfghjkl]

better spend more time and effort in this forum rather than on traps!

[Greatking]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

better spend more time and effort in this forum rather than on traps!

Juz wokeup or preparing for sleep?

[SammyNewbie]

But have to admit...they really treat you very nice.

Probably cause they can tell you the shy innocent type.

[sibehchiam]

Another carrothead in the making.

[singathai]

Originally Posted by SammyNewbie

Was her number... 9 by any chance?

God if it is I suggest you better NOT...Please Please PLEASE don't say yes.

You mean her tag number or phone number? Both's not 9 anyway..

[singathai]

Originally Posted by sibehchiam

Another carrothead in the making.

I know I might be stupid to get involved in such an incident but I just can't control my mind. I'd rather fail trying than giving up at this point of time.

[collin_23]

If what u said is the truth , I wish u all the best .

Thai girls usually come to sg with agents , if I not wrong as u mentioned she just came recently , so maybe she still owns the agent money , their earnings go by half half with boss but sometimes agent gets a cut too . I am not familiar with this arrangement hopefully other more senior bros can guide u .

Have a nice talk with the boss for a possible arrangement , if really got problem , ask the girl to go to Antivice or AV to tell them she wishes to go back , provided u really love her and not play play only . Take note she have family and child to feed so if u r not serious just pay and forget .

I really hope u give serious consideration in this relationship and hopefully we will see a fairy tale in the making .

Cheers

[singmarine]

But the Thai gal allow him to fuck raw & unload everything inside.

[alan0338]

standby to elope la ...