how to juggle with 2 girls

[kelvinchua99]

I am married for a year. Life is boring with her, she works till quite late and for me is the regular 8 to 5. And usually she have to work on weekend too. We totally stop sex for at least 9 months too, reason is not because of her, its me. just don't feel like doing it. Because of this, i started to feel lonely, and start to look for ways to pass my free and lonely time. Know a PRC working in singapore just for 1 month, she is working as a factory worker. total went out 3 times and the last round we actually started to get intimate.

Inside of me, i know what i am doing is wrong, but i just can't control. I started to fall in love with the PRC and i believe she too with me. But on the other hand i still have feelings with my wife.

Any bro have any same experience?

after much thoughts, i decided to let this thing go on for a while and see how it goes. Not because of lust, so far we only hold hands and frenched. But whenever we are out, i am very paranoid that something will happened.
Its ok that my very own friend saw us, but very scared that my wife's friends or relatives caught me in the act (holding Hands) outside with the PRC.
PRC do not know that i am married. The location of my wife or the PRC is known to me but the worrying part is their friends or relatives.

Any bro had any advices on how not to get "caught"?

[sammyboyfor]

You're a moron.

Wait till you wife does the same thing to you.

[stillgottheblue]

It's still in the very early stages, you should cut the relationship now. It's not fun when the truth finally come out.

[bunty]

You're married, don't do such things. Karma's a bitch.

Unless you talk to your wife about having an open marriage.

[pulchritudinous]

The Muslims manage 4. Ask them!

[wally888]

if your wife got all evidence against u then file for divorce then u r in losing end.....if u got nothing PRC gal still want u

[xpinkyx-moment]

tell the PRC the truth first ...

[Ken79]

your wife even works during weekends and late into the night... u married her knowing all this and now u complain, pity her.

turn back while u can bro, accommodate to her schedule and work out the solution to this puzzle instead of walking away and seeking new pastures.

[ShittyAss]

Firstly.. Where did u know this Prc girl? Factory worker? N visited her factory?

Secondly.. Dun risk ur marriage because of a Prc girl or any girl. It's two separate matters.

Marriage issues u face it like a man not avoiding it.

[supergirl2011]

Singapore is very small. The probability of not getting caught is v slim. Me & my husband when we were dating dun wan anyone to see us cos we are colleagues and we dun wan any office gossips... but someone saw us and told everyone. If you really love the PRC gal, fight for your love. However, be prepared that divorce and marrying again especially a WP holder is not v easy. If you and the PRC gal really love each other, then she can accept the truth if you tell her.

[kelvinchua99]

Originally Posted by ShittyAss

Firstly.. Where did u know this Prc girl? Factory worker? N visited her factory?

Secondly.. Dun risk ur marriage because of a Prc girl or any girl. It's two separate matters.

Marriage issues u face it like a man not avoiding it.

Outside lor. A cafe. She told me she is working as a factory worker,but did not visit her factory before. But i did proposed to send her back which she rejected. Told me she stayed at a dormitory near woodlands. Far.

[hamsapkwai]

i would rather juggle TWO sticks of dynamite

[ShittyAss]

Originally Posted by kelvinchua99

Outside lor. A cafe. She told me she is working as a factory worker,but did not visit her factory before. But i did proposed to send her back which she rejected. Told me she stayed at a dormitory near woodlands. Far.

A cafe? Factory worker? Stay in dormitory near woodland? Cock n bull story la..

Don't risk ur marriage lah.. Not worth it.

99% she is taking a wp from this "factory" n is working at either ktv or FL

1% is she is really a factory work. Seen too many heard too many.

[mevius]

if you still love ur wife .. pls cut this relationship away before it gets out of hand ....

[crazyivan6636]

You are better off with a paid FB relationship.

Try getting a nice girl from the local university or those who had just started work, they are in it for a short time and would be a better fit. As it is a paid relationship, take it just like ay other business, don't need to hold hands and get intimate in public.

In public, take it just like a business meeting, at lunch and dinner followed by some peaceful and fun time later at a quiet hotel for 2 - 3 hours.

Make friends not enemies. And do get her onto a pill, so you can unload freely inside.