Do wives refuse to give husband sex because he does not give her allowance?

[parrotkid]

My wife grumbles because I do not give her allowance although I pay for practically 90% of everything in the family which includes two kids.
She says her friends receive allowance from their husbands.
Because of this, sometimes I do not get sex.
Does any brother have the same experience?

[erikvondarkmoor]

What day and age are we living in? Husband still need to give wife allowance?

Maybe if your wife is a full-time stay-at-home mom, then still maybe. If she's also working, then....wah, nothing to say man, women really want their cake and to eat it too.

[parrotkid]

But then those other hubbies really do give their wives allowance.
Some of them even give the wife their whole salary to manage and then collect pocket money for meals and transport everyday.

[parrotkid]

Maybe brothers who are married can share how much allowance you give your wife and does it affect your sex life?

[MoJoe313]

TS, is your wife a stay at home mom? If she is, you ought to give her an allowance.

[yesscenter]

Originally Posted by parrotkid

But then those other hubbies really do give their wives allowance.
Some of them even give the wife their whole salary to manage and then collect pocket money for meals and transport everyday.

If husband whole salary, where to get extra cash for massage, hj, jg and also to visit geylang.
Poor thing, this never and will never happen to me, I, Yesscenter controls everyyhing. Follow my way, you will be a happy man.

[ol'coyote]

Originally Posted by parrotkid

My wife grumbles because I do not give her allowance although I pay for practically 90% of everything in the family which includes two kids.
She says her friends receive allowance from their husbands.
Because of this, sometimes I do not get sex.
Does any brother have the same experience?

as some bros here already asked...is your wife a say-home mom ?...
if so...then is only right that you give allowance...
if she is also working...then no nid...
me in similar situation...

[bigbrudder]

Giving allowance is fair ... you won't want her to 'earn' her allowance from somewhere else right? I am referring to parents in-laws, of course!

[Greendevil]

Woman always like to link everything up. the way i see it is, first if your wife is working like many samster mention here, then why do she need an allowance from you? Second, she does not want sex with you, not simply because of the allowance. there are other issues and basically she not happy with you.

[Peter]

Originally Posted by parrotkid

But then those other hubbies really do give their wives allowance.
Some of them even give the wife their whole salary to manage and then collect pocket money for meals and transport everyday.

Can be the other way round also....years ago, my wife gave me her whole salary cos I have better skills of money management.

[parrotkid]

Originally Posted by MoJoe313

TS, is your wife a stay at home mom? If she is, you ought to give her an allowance.

No. She is working and earns $5k a month. She gets to keep all her $. In the end, I have much less savings than her as I pay for most expenses.

[SuperTank]

Your wife is rather demanding isn't it? She could have mix with a wrong group of women in her work place. If she dun give you sex, go out and pay for sex service. Maybe still cheaper than the allowance you going to give her monthly?

Am such a bad example. :/

[SuperTank]

Originally Posted by yesscenter

If husband whole salary, where to get extra cash for massage, hj, jg and also to visit geylang.
Poor thing, this never and will never happen to me, I, Yesscenter controls everyyhing. Follow my way, you will be a happy man.

That's why this must never ever happen to any man.

[lancerlution2]

TS would understand if your wife is a stay at home mum cow they needs allowances for maybe their facial/shopping/etc but since your wife is working maybe u shld have a one on one chat with her writing down your monthly expenses. Though my wife do not ask for allowances after a chat and writing down my monthly expenditure she empathieses with me and we share the monthly expenditure, the only thing I pay for myself is my car.
A little talk shld help. Hope this help.

[Gordonbleu]

Originally Posted by parrotkid

No. She is working and earns $5k a month. She gets to keep all her $. In the end, I have much less savings than her as I pay for most expenses.

omg, bro what have you gotton yourself into...
If she is working, than both of you ought to share your family finances not you on the whole family burden.
Starting you both should have opened a joint account, monthly put 1k from each of you. Than settle all the common bills with these accounts eg. Common phone bills, utility bills ....
Man and woman are created equal, so must share responsibility
Good luck bro