What I look for in a Fuck buddy

[euks]

We all know how we want our GF/Wife/FB to look like.

But little had been discussed about what personality trait/mentality/style we are looking for our GF/Wife/FBs

I will start first on my views of having a FB

After 9 fuck buddies
4 considered successful
- 1 still ongoing
- 3 still in good contact with the possibilities of continuation if mutal situation permits

5 considered unsuccessful
- 4 ended up getting sticky, possessive or emotionally attached
- 1 simply don't understand the meaning of being discreet and confused FB as just another ONS

Fuck Buddy understand that the relationship is uncommitted in a committed way.

We are in a FB relationship
-to fill the emotional void and physical needs while searching for our life partner.
-because we don't want the risk ,hazzle , time and financial investment of mutiple sex partners

Therefore, being in a FB relationship means to me
- u have to be truthful about your past and present sexual activities for the other party to access if he/she wants to start/continue this FB relationship
-you still need to put in a certain amount of effort to satisfy the other party's needs

My best FB experience is with Adeline. Adeline is a chilli padi who enjoy teasing and get teased. She filrts around but only sleep with me during the course of our FB relationship.
We enjoy each other company, have great sex together, and strictly follows our agreement.
There are times we feel jealous of each other activities, but we do not cross the line.
We had and still have genuine feelings for each other but our life aspiration are too different
We fucked, we made love, we enjoyed and when she found someone who she think she might be able to spend the rest of her life with, we stopped.

No messy rubbish, just plain good fun.

What do you look for in a FB?

[adonis]

Hi euks. How/where do u find your fuck buddies? Thanks.

[JIKED D]

got hole at the right place can already : )

[evo3]

Must get the right place, right time, right hole, and the right mood than you should be able to get a right screw of the night

[Mahalapa]

never a easy thing for me to juggle with feeling n lust,always get mixed emotion

[ace_rc]

I envy threadstarter who have so many fuck buddy in his life, as for me, i only had 3 so far. I think the worst scenario is when the the relationship gets too sticky, woman tends to be emotionally involve when time gets longer. Even though i have put it very clear to them, but sad to say all 3 of them gets way too hard to handle, they become over pocessive in the end. In my view, i think the best duration for such FB relationship is 1 year, afterwhich, we have to break it up and look for new adventures, as to keep everything under control.

[Money]

Two important factor, lookable & fuckable

[ken_v2]

not sticky and knows when not to call me...
looks and figure are secondary...

if got looks or figure then it is a bonus but most impt is that they are not sticky and do not call me when it is inconvenient. i always put these rules upfront, so if they can abide by these then we proceed and if they show any signs of these along the way, i will usually end it.

[K123456]

do agree that women tends to be a bit more sticky as time progress as FB. I have a few too but as time goes on, the thend to be too sticky and I start to advoid them.
One even cry when I want out. and my policy is that the initial understanding is that we become FB and once it get out of hand, I would run and run really fast.

[dna_gene]

I had a few before after my marriage but don't know why some wanted long term affair, wanted to get serious. Lucky thing was there's not really any screw up in the end. The only big screw up I had is not cause by any of the gals but was betrayed by a close gay friend, so my wife came to know about my affairs.

Anyway ever since I changed job, I do not have time for any extra program and slowly i was left with my wife only. Ya, my wife had forgiven me, though not as trusting like before but guess i should be grateful le.

Dont ask me how I got my hands on the gals cos I don't really go looking for them, they came to me after we slowly got to know each other well and all did knew that I was already married. Like there's this receptionist with a customer that I frequently visited, we always had small talks when I went over to collect cheques. One day she asked me to go for a drink after work and things just happened from there. Similar case with an intern at a school I took my part time course, small talks and things just evolved from there.

So ya, if you guys really want advice, it's probably the way you treat the ladies. Treat them with respect and make jokes to make them laugh. As long they are comfortable around you, they will slowly incline towards you. Subtle flirting if you know how will be an added bonus!

[tissue]

Hi Brothers,

I am a mother of 2 now but when I was younger, I too had my FBs. I think the average lifespan of each FB was about 2 months, maximum 3 months. I agree that some people tend to get emotional and start wanting more from the relationship but in my experience, the guys get all emotional as well.

My previous FBs got jealous when I had more than 1 man and started getting more and more jealous. Questions keep getting more and tempers started flaring...I even tried to turn one FB into a relationship but he got so scary and freaky that I still have to broke off in the end.

So guys, not only the girls get sticky, the guys get sticky too! In fact, I estimated that he is likely to get stickier the 3rd time round..

A women's point of view..

Cheers / Tissue

[Scrubber]

Originally Posted by euks

5 considered unsuccessful
- 4 ended up getting sticky, possessive or emotionally attached
- 1 simply don't understand the meaning of being discreet and confused FB as just another ONS

I haven't even got a single FB in my life, now that I'm in my mid-20s. Maybe still young, you'd say. I honestly don't mind if you refer them to me. Honestly !

[rengh73]

ok guys, talking abt FB...
i had few before n u know we stick to the rules n things went on well.
recently i got a new "buddy", but seems like i am getting sticky instead of her....
duno what to do now....

[UnderTicker]

Horniness is a must Anytime Anywhere

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by Scrubber

I haven't even got a single FB in my life, now that I'm in my mid-20s. Maybe still young, you'd say. I honestly don't mind if you refer them to me. Honestly !

i share the same plight as u bro.