Ways to Settle Pent Up Sexual Frustration

[hil169]

Gf wish to wait till after marriage to have sex so only limited to bj, fingering etc but she's frigid so cant feel much also and so I kind of feel bad psychologically to 'use' her to settle my sexual frustration...

So, have been using porn to settle the frustration but felt that I'm getting addicted to it and may end up having a non-fulfilling physical sexual life if overly relying on it.

What are the ways bros use to settle sexual frustration?

Ways i can think of is
1) FL,
2) WL,
3) ONS,
4) NSA,
5) SB,
6) FWB

Guess it depends on the depth of our pockets?

Thanks.

[aphrodisia]

Originally Posted by hil169

Gf wish to wait till after marriage to have sex so only limited to bj, fingering etc but she's frigid so cant feel much also and so I kind of feel bad psychologically to 'use' her to settle my sexual frustration...

So, have been using porn to settle the frustration but felt that I'm getting addicted to it and may end up having a non-fulfilling physical sexual life if overly relying on it.

What are the ways bros use to settle sexual frustration?

Ways i can think of is
1) FL,
2) WL,
3) ONS,
4) NSA,
5) SB,
6) FWB

Guess it depends on the depth of our pockets?

Thanks.

Continue to pcc because its free and you might never know when your girlfriend will do this back to you because what goes around comes around 😆

[circle22]

I also PCC after that go take a cold shower .

[jazp]

I don't know bro. The money saved by pcc-ing can be used somewhere else. But such is human nature to want sex and your gf is denying you of it. Ask yourself if you can, like what the other bro said, take it if your gf do it back to you.

[sgjoey]

I am puzzled about why you would want to have a serious relationship with someone whom you already know is frigid.... unless sex is not important for you. If it is, both of you should try to fix the problem first before marriage. Or end up feeling miserable for years to come.

[hil169]

Originally Posted by sgjoey

I am puzzled about why you would want to have a serious relationship with someone whom you already know is frigid.... unless sex is not important for you. If it is, both of you should try to fix the problem first before marriage. Or end up feeling miserable for years to come.

Bro, i only knew after we got into a serious relationship. Sex is part of a relationship. She's all good except on the sex department. What do i do? Cant possibly end the rs just cos of sex. So i thought maybe settling elsewhere is better solution

[sgjoey]

Especially in the early years, sex is a very important part of marriage. You don't have to give her up, but help her fix her problem. Seek professional help.

But, as I said, unless sex is not important for you, you should probably part ways if the problem cannot be easily fixed. Better that than many years of misery down the road for both of you.

[geoppery]

PCC is one way, then also coomunicate your problems with her and attempt to check it out if you are able to negotiate with her or another better solution that comes along as you will never know!

[peanut123]

Since you have a girlfriend, I think you shouldn't be exploring these options other than PCC. If she finds out, and there are many ways a guy can slip up, it could end your relationship, which would be disastrous if you really love her.

Originally Posted by hil169

Gf wish to wait till after marriage to have sex so only limited to bj, fingering etc but she's frigid so cant feel much also and so I kind of feel bad psychologically to 'use' her to settle my sexual frustration...

So, have been using porn to settle the frustration but felt that I'm getting addicted to it and may end up having a non-fulfilling physical sexual life if overly relying on it.

What are the ways bros use to settle sexual frustration?

Ways i can think of is
1) FL,
2) WL,
3) ONS,
4) NSA,
5) SB,
6) FWB

Guess it depends on the depth of our pockets?

Thanks.

[zensifu]

Nowadays hardly have good girl willing to wait for marriage to give virgin to hubby.

[Pornsuck]

Originally Posted by zensifu

Nowadays hardly have good girl willing to wait for marriage to give virgin to hubby.

Was thinking the same.

[ddog]

wank in gf's panties and beat the monkey

[WinampForever]

Originally Posted by aphrodisia

Continue to pcc

This is the best and its free

[SoGoodAh]

Do you see a future with potential marriage with her? If yes, i'd recommend waiting no matter how strong the temptation is. If not, i'd suggest breaking off before it blows up. Cause it will. You might be having an argument with her on something irrelevant and you might let slip that you're frustrated that shes not giving you what you need or want. She'll most likely interpret it in the wrong way.

Not only will you go down as a dick but also as a person who enters a relationship just for sex from her perspective.

[sgjoey]

The waiting is not the problem. You can always find relief in other ways. It is the frigidity you should be very concerned about....

But perhaps she is not really frigid, just lacking in sexual experience. If that is really the case, you have nothing to worry about...