How to deal with men who keep hitting on others’ wives?

[parrotkid]

I find men who hit on others’ wives to be the most despicable kind if scumbag.
Even if the woman’s marriage is in trouble, a man should never take advantage of the situation. To me it is a code of conduct of a respectable human being. You don’t do to others what you don’t want to happen to yourself.

I have unfortunately met a guy who lacks such code of conduct. How do I deal with him?

[jake1]

Originally Posted by parrotkid

I find men who hit on others’ wives to be the most despicable kind if scumbag.
Even if the woman’s marriage is in trouble, a man should never take advantage of the situation. To me it is a code of conduct of a respectable human being. You don’t do to others what you don’t want to happen to yourself.

I have unfortunately met a guy who lacks such code of conduct. How do I deal with him?

Be polite and ask him to back off.
If cannot, then warn him verbally and list out everything to him about what is going to happen if this continues, then see what you want to do.

[parrotkid]

Already told him very nicely without threatening him.
He refuses to back off.
My friends suggest I beat him up.

[jake1]

Originally Posted by parrotkid

Already told him very nicely without threatening him.
He refuses to back off.
My friends suggest I beat him up.

Then if you want to beat then beat. No need to say so much since you have your own thinking. I mean if you are that nature, that guy wouldn't want to step on your tail in the first place. At times, maybe is the way you behave that let others feel that you are a pushover. If you are smart enough, all you need is to pay money and it works wonder.

[parrotkid]

Originally Posted by jake1

Then if you want to beat then beat. No need to say so much since you have your own thinking. I mean if you are that nature, that guy wouldn't want to step on your tail in the first place. At times, maybe is the way you behave that let others feel that you are a pushover. If you are smart enough, all you need is to pay money and it works wonder.

I do not interact with that bastard. He is married and should pay attention to his own marriage instead of messing with others’.

[jake1]

Originally Posted by parrotkid

I do not interact with that bastard. He is married and should pay attention to his own marriage instead of messing with others’.

There are many form of people in this world. Just sbf alone, there are tons of weirdos around. There was a divorcee whom told me that there are many guys who gave fake photos to meet her up and I do believe her. I mean I am certain you do have some form of betrayal too as in visiting ml, going to ktv or thai discos. Many of those are others' woman too. Every thing has two side of a coin.

[parrotkid]

If that guy is itchy I can pay him to go Geylang for fucks.

[Sfan]

Originally Posted by parrotkid

If that guy is itchy I can pay him to go Geylang for fucks.

If he is married why don’t you find out his marriage status? If he’s happily married maybe you can let the wife know. If he’s not happily married you know why he’s hitting on your wife. But in the first place why is your wife responding ?

[Cheesebeast]

I do sleep around and am fortunate enough to get ons quite regularly with my uni friends, international students and chance encounters. But i will never bang another guy's gf or wife - its a code of respect for me and i live by this virtue. I wouldnt like it if another dude banged my gf so i will never do it to others.

I think guys who bang other dude's wife or gf knowingly are srsly jerks.

[joncheong]

why is your wife reciprocating in the first place? have a chat with her first?

[ibanezjem555]

Take evidence of his gallivanting and show his wife. Wife sure piss off that he spend time with another woman instead of wife and kids. Put it on their Facebook account and reposting.

As to why your wife still reciprocate, I don't know, but you have every right to your sanctity of your marriage.

Rock On Bro

[parrotkid]

Originally Posted by ibanezjem555

Take evidence of his gallivanting and show his wife. Wife sure piss off that he spend time with another woman instead of wife and kids. Put it on their Facebook account and reposting.

As to why your wife still reciprocate, I don't know, but you have every right to your sanctity of your marriage.

Rock On Bro

My wife is naive. We are not on the best of terms. maybe just a normal marriage. This guy is jobless so he has plenty of time to entertain my wife. That bastard's wife works so he does not have to.
I work everyday to maintain the family especially now that my wife has stopped working. The burden on me is very great. While I am supporting the family she goes out and is play Pokemon and gets sweetalked this way. I am truly very disappointed with my wife. She finds excuses for neglecting my kids.

[YELLOW]

sad to say i ve a lot of this kind of woman . your wife is unlikely to be beyond reproach here bro . perhaps they find solitude in each other's company. hav a chat w ur wife bro .... and move on if needed.....

Originally Posted by parrotkid

My wife is naive. We are not on the best of terms. maybe just a normal marriage. This guy is jobless so he has plenty of time to entertain my wife. That bastard's wife works so he does not have to.
I work everyday to maintain the family especially now that my wife has stopped working. The burden on me is very great. While I am supporting the family she goes out and is play Pokemon and gets sweetalked this way. I am truly very disappointed with my wife. She finds excuses for neglecting my kids.

[Xyberduke]

Unfriend him. I did.

[jason910]

U started another thread on this topic. It takes two hands to clap if ur wife is not interested in him no matter what he goes she will ignore.